there is old and outdated medical advice in europe, that says mothers should retract their sons foreskins at bath time even when the boys are extremely little, and to FORCE the retraction on their little boys even if it's painful.
it can cause you to scream in pain and bleed. the next step if it doesn't work is for moms to take their boys to the urologist's office so the doctor can apply even MORE force to try and retract them, then if it doesn't work or the boy's foreskin is severely damaged by the doctor, he is almost guaranteed to be circumcised.
i stopped this whole process after she did it to me once or twice, because it made me so mad i wouldn't let her be with me at bath time at all. and i still remember how angry she got and how she screamed at me that she will take me to the doctor by force and tie me up if i resist. i was like 7 years old and i was never really the same after this happened. i became way, way more weird and avoidant and cowardly and fucked up than I ever would have been otherwise, and I was abnormally attracted to sexual imagery from a very young age, doing weird things like bringing porno mags into the house and hiding them in my room when I was still very little. i became a complete weirdo and a freak and it WAS NOT MY FAULT.