No friends left
https://incels.is/threads/what-should-i-do-about-my-friend.817793/ Yesterday I blocked the bastard and his friends and left group chats. Now I have no friends cause I'm done with their shit.
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Are you really an "adult" if your mother is lecturing you on shit?
Yes, I'm an adult but she still thinks she can tell me what to do.
You're better off without them 
Irl friends don't have your best interests at heart. Most of them are norm scum and they're terrible people.
Irl friends don't have your best interests at heart. Most of them are norm scum and they're terrible people.
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I can relate. My parents try to force me to exercise and go to a psychologist and have cut off my internet because I refuse to. I wish my parents would just leave me alone.
incel trait. Even our parents know we haven't mentally matured, thus they treat us like children.
That sucks.
This is why I haven't cut off my friends.
Tell her that you have made better friends here on this site!
Then say "shut your mouth" and go your own way.
I was in a similar situation when I was 18.
Have you thought about why they're insisting that you exercise and go to a psychologist. Are they genuinely worried about your health and wellbeing, or are they merely worried about the "radicalizing effects" of the Internet, or do they really want you to "just be normal", get a job and send them money eventually?
Some parents feel ashamed when their son has 0 friends. Even their son having bastard "friends" or being the punching bag in a friend group comforts them
This way of thinking proves that they don’t think logically at all.
I wouldn’t tell anyone about this site, let alone parents, that would make things worse.Tell her that you have made better friends here on this site!
Parents treating us like children means they themselves are immature.
They’re hypocritical, immature normscum.You're better off without them
Irl friends don't have your best interests at heart.
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These two options. I don't care for my physical health nor do I care for working or studying, so I'm fundamentally at odds with their worldview.
I find it helpful to think about it in terms of a power dynamic, since conflicting wants based off differing worldviews are involved. Your parents have the backing of the soyciety, for example they may call the cops on you.
So it might be best to bend a little to your parents' will, even just verbally, in accordance with the power dynamic. Then you could identify and correct inaccuracies in their thinking. Exercise makes depression go away? Not if the base stressors are addressed, which in our case it's something we can't change, like looks, height, and ND
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I doubt my parents would ever escalate to this level.
Me verbally agreement isn't sufficient for them, they want me exercising daily and attending psychologist. I've followed through with their demands in the past, particularly with their insistence that I attend psychology, and it has never worked in improving my life. It never even worked to appease them in the long term. They will not stop pressuring me until I am attending university, exercising daily and am working towards a career (all things that seem pointless to me).
I used to exercise daily/near daily not too long ago. My level of happiness was more or less the same. Their worldview is so rigid that they won't accept that exercise isn't some panacea for my current state, even if my own experience contradicts their beliefs.
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Not everyone here is privileged with good parents, a lot of us grew up with narcissistic, controlling parents
She's right stop self sabotaging yourself you'll eventually put yourself in situation like me were you have no one and pushed everyone away. Don't do that to yourself it's very lonely.She found out because my friend's mom contacted her. She says it's dumb to lose a friend over a stupid thing. Who the fuck she thinks she is to tell an adult what he should do? I regret nothing.No friends left
https://incels.is/threads/what-should-i-do-about-my-friend.817793/ Yesterday I blocked the bastard and his friends and left group chats. Now I have no friends cause I'm done with their shit.
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how is that self sabotage ? A "friend" who is friends with your enemy is not your friend
Why you do it, What's the reasoning?
Should I ditch my normie friend?
That fucker is still friends with someone who was my bully in primary school. He's my only close friend. I'm tired of being a cuck who is always stepped on. No one ever stands up for me, not even my "friends". I feel like this is a betrayal.
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Overprotective mothers are the worst whores on existence
She doesn't know what it feels to be mistreated.
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When i was still bluepilled i vented to my mom about how i hated being short and how i always got picked on due to my height. And since she is a femoid who lacks basic empathy, she always gaslit and tell me that height doesnt matter or told me other cope shit.
This sounds like the plot to Bully (2001)
You're better off without them
Irl friends don't have your best interests at heart. Most of them are norm scum and they're terrible people.
My only best friend was a kid I use to bully a little lol.Should I ditch my normie friend?
That fucker is still friends with someone who was my bully in primary school. He's my only close friend. I'm tired of being a cuck who is always stepped on. No one ever stands up for me, not even my "friends". I feel like this is a betrayal.
Your mom hot?
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shut your mouth, GrAYfag
Call her a nigger and ask if she wants help with a rope investment
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Why bully your friend?
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Yeah I was before we were friends in elementary school like 3rd grade and he moved to my city later in his teen years and we were friends until about late 2019 to 2020 of the winter. We had fight from here there then we had a big one and never talked again.
These indicate your parents lack any substantial knowledge about mental problems, or they're desperate and clinging to anything they think might be of help (not unlike the redpillers).
My parents tried to learn about mental health but did it the wrong way: buying a shitton of self-help books. They wouldn't listen to my arguments about conflict of interest, self-contradictory claims, or distortions in their (my parents') thinking by their own anxiety. After a while I gave up. Whenever they started regurgitating garbage science to me, I went to sit in a corner with my eyes shut, calming my anger by thinking about the power dynamic. I noticed that it's better to deal with parents with rigid worldviews by expressing disappointment, not anger, which can make them defensive. This helped somewhat as they started to rethink their approach. It's a slow process and only works if at least one of them are willing to admit they're wrong
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