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It's Over My Memory is Abysmal [LowIQcel] [Brutal]

The Scarlet Prince

The Scarlet Prince

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I'm genuinely incapable of remembering anything unless it's repeatedly drilled into me multiple times. And even then, that sometimes fails me.

I'm especially terrible with names. I will forget names all of the time. My friend has recently been pushing me to watch more anime with him considering that I actually have watched very few despite my total weebness. I, of course, with nothing really better to do, have watched multiple anime over the past few months. One of the most recent shows I watched was Code Geass, and all throughout the show I was forgetting the names of pretty core characters.

It was so bad, in fact, that on one of the NEARLY LAST EPISODES, I couldn't recall the name of one of the main girls that has been in nearly every single episode. I believe I was commenting on something I was confused about to my friend, but couldn't remember the girl's name—so I just referred to her as the 'red hair one.' My friend unironically thought I was talking about one of the newer girls that had pink hair and that I was just colorblind or something, but when he realized I was literally failing to remember the name 'Kallen,' he couldn't help but be amused that I could forget such a thing.

I really don't know why, I'm just bad at memorizing things. Things like prior episode details will just completely slip my mind and I'll be forced to try to completely reconstruct the plot in order to comprehend what's going on. I unironically believe that this is a symptom of my low-IQ and really makes me wonder why I didn't question it earlier.

I'm ashamed to say it, but there are even users on here that will change their name and profile picture, and I often can't recognize them at all. It will literally take me months to figure out that this person is the same person I was friends with a few months ago. There's a lot of people who I interact with that speak to me with familiarity, and I can't help but feel ashamed to admit that I have no prior recollection of speaking with them so closely. That's why I often find myself wishing that there were user 'aliases' or 'notes' that you could attach to people...
 
Are you non-NT? I have autism + ADHD and I struggle with these things quite a lot as well.
 
Are you non-NT? I have autism + ADHD and I struggle with these things quite a lot as well.
I actually don't know. I had assumed I was NT for a long time, but recently, I've been wondering if I have ADHD. The thought is inconvenient to me, though, so I don't like to dwell on it.
 
You do remember that you owe me 1000$ right?
 
Also tell me your bank account's password, i will remember it for you.
 
I find that I have the sharpest memory on things I’m interested in and terrible memory on things I’m not interested in/feeling forced to do. Also I’m usually not bad with names but when watching an anime for the first time it takes me a long time to remember everyone’s name, especially when they’re Japanese names that I’m not used to hearing. Sometimes it takes me like two seasons to finally register someones name. I also struggle with following the plot of an anime if I just don’t find it interesting enough.
 
I find that I have the sharpest memory on things I’m interested in and terrible memory on things I’m not interested in/feeling forced to do. Also I’m usually not bad with names but when watching an anime for the first time it takes me a long time to remember everyone’s name, especially when they’re Japanese names that I’m not used to hearing. Sometimes it takes me like two seasons to finally register someones name. I also struggle with following the plot of an anime if I just don’t find it interesting enough.
I just have terrible memory all-around. I've recently begun to teach myself things that interest me, and despite never having really seen the value in 'notes' before—they've become surprisingly invaluable to me. Even if I spend days cementing myself in a subject, the memory of it just ends up decaying over time and I will forget the basics of it in just a few months, if not weeks.

Well, it gives one something to practice his handwriting on, anyway, so it's not that bad. I've taken to calling it an 'archive' rather than 'notes'—I just like the former term more.
 
Moved to Lounge Again Award
 
I can tell my short term memory is worsening due to drug use. I dont care though I need a cope
 
One of the most recent shows I watched was Code Geass, and all throughout the show I was forgetting the names of pretty core characters.

It was so bad, in fact, that on one of the NEARLY LAST EPISODES, I couldn't recall the name of one of the main girls that has been in nearly every single episode.
I have good memory in general, but I am abysmal at keeping track of characters and plot points in fiction. I believe this is due to the fact I don't care about and struggle to engage with fictional stories. Do you legitimately enjoy watching anime/consuming fiction? Because if you don't, you likely won't care enough to remember fictional details very well.
 
Strangely I remember names pretty well. But I won’t remember basic shit like what I ate or did yesterday.

Poor memory is a sign you’re not in the present moment adequately. But I think we’re just retarded mongrels.
 
I'm genuinely incapable of remembering anything unless it's repeatedly drilled into me multiple times. And even then, that sometimes fails me.

I'm especially terrible with names. I will forget names all of the time. My friend has recently been pushing me to watch more anime with him considering that I actually have watched very few despite my total weebness. I, of course, with nothing really better to do, have watched multiple anime over the past few months. One of the most recent shows I watched was Code Geass, and all throughout the show I was forgetting the names of pretty core characters.

It was so bad, in fact, that on one of the NEARLY LAST EPISODES, I couldn't recall the name of one of the main girls that has been in nearly every single episode. I believe I was commenting on something I was confused about to my friend, but couldn't remember the girl's name—so I just referred to her as the 'red hair one.' My friend unironically thought I was talking about one of the newer girls that had pink hair and that I was just colorblind or something, but when he realized I was literally failing to remember the name 'Kallen,' he couldn't help but be amused that I could forget such a thing.

I really don't know why, I'm just bad at memorizing things. Things like prior episode details will just completely slip my mind and I'll be forced to try to completely reconstruct the plot in order to comprehend what's going on. I unironically believe that this is a symptom of my low-IQ and really makes me wonder why I didn't question it earlier.

I'm ashamed to say it, but there are even users on here that will change their name and profile picture, and I often can't recognize them at all. It will literally take me months to figure out that this person is the same person I was friends with a few months ago. There's a lot of people who I interact with that speak to me with familiarity, and I can't help but feel ashamed to admit that I have no prior recollection of speaking with them so closely. That's why I often find myself wishing that there were user 'aliases' or 'notes' that you could attach to people...
Im very good with names but Im terrible in short term memory,I sometimes forget things that I did 2 minutes ago
 
I envy those with good memory + high iq. For most of my life now, I’ve lived in autopilot doing the same routine over and over again. I can barely remember anything, only the bad parts from my life. Even if I actively tried to do something remotely challenging, my brain just can’t comprehend like others. IM TOO LOWIQ.
 
men its overrated you are more likely to be depressed with a higher iq
I do agree with the depressed part, but I doubt the high iq part. I feel like im mentally retarded, actually not feel like I am probably.
 
I have good memory in general, but I am abysmal at keeping track of characters and plot points in fiction. I believe this is due to the fact I don't care about and struggle to engage with fictional stories. Do you legitimately enjoy watching anime/consuming fiction? Because if you don't, you likely won't care enough to remember fictional details very well.
Yes, I do. I love fictional stuff, and I love writing for that very same reason. Unfortunately, it doesn't mean I'm very good at it... I'm just retarded it seems.
 

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