Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

My main issue about never having had any sexual experiences

ThinTinyDickCel

ThinTinyDickCel

Just learn how to use your tongue bro
★★★★
Joined
Feb 16, 2019
Posts
1,393
I can't relate to anyone. I feel like people who had sexual experiences and myself live in different dimensions. The vast majority of people went through a normal childhood experiencing girlfriends, kissing and sex during their teenage years but I didn't. I can't relate to people I see in my daily life (not even family members with the only exeption being perhaps my parents) but lately it's even extended to musicians that I listen to, or any entertainment figures. I watch Esports for example and when a pro player makes a post on Twitter about their girlfriend I lose respect for them. Not because of jealousy but because I know they'd never understand how I feel.

It's hard to explain, but it's really alienating, it's much more than just not having friends or having been in relationships. I actually feel like an alien. Anyone else understand what I'm trying to say?
 
Don't really care about relating to people since I've always been an outside observer never able to connect with others.

Tbh I just want some intimacy, some affection and to feel the soft, supple body of a young woman.
 
Having sexual experiences are just a part of growing up,its like learning how to walk therefore thats important
 
Yeah I feel that too. Everything these days revolves around sex and love. Nothing is really catered for lonely virgins, except some anime.
 
I feel the same tbh. There's this emptiness where character building experiences are meant to be in me. Coping and sharing your thoughts with people who understand your agony and disillusionment like this forum is all that numbs the hollowness.
Yeah I feel that too. Everything these days revolves around sex and love. Nothing is really catered for lonely virgins, except some anime.
And it's only going to get worse. Literally everything talks about sex
 
The worst part is that even if you do lose your virginity with an escort or whatever you will still be unable to relate to others. There is no going back in time to experience the innocence of youth...

Even if by surgery we manage to become slayers it will not change this fact.
 
yeah buddy being a perma virgirn sucks
 
Being a virgin into your 20s renders you subhuman. That's what hurts so much.
 
Being a khhv is very suifuel tbh, the older you are, the more it hurts.
 
It's even harder to hide your lack of experience. At this point, all I want is to blend in.
 
It’s unfair they they’ve had a human need while I haven’t. Experiencing a human need compared to someone who doesn’t separates you from the rest.
 
Yeh ive always been an outsider. I hate when normies ask me if i have had a gf or had sex. Which makes me more inclined to stay as an outsider
 
I know what you mean. The lack of experience completely stalls your ability to climb social and employment hierarchies for the reasons you give. You can't relate to the people above you so they never like you and you're very unlikely to be promoted. It's all about ego and personal relationships when you're relying on others to help you rise and get on in life.
 
I can't relate to anyone. I feel like people who had sexual experiences and myself live in different dimensions. The vast majority of people went through a normal childhood experiencing girlfriends, kissing and sex during their teenage years but I didn't. I can't relate to people I see in my daily life (not even family members with the only exeption being perhaps my parents) but lately it's even extended to musicians that I listen to, or any entertainment figures. I watch Esports for example and when a pro player makes a post on Twitter about their girlfriend I lose respect for them. Not because of jealousy but because I know they'd never understand how I feel.

It's hard to explain, but it's really alienating, it's much more than just not having friends or having been in relationships. I actually feel like an alien. Anyone else understand what I'm trying to say?

100% relate. I've felt like an alien all my life.
 

Similar threads

FrenchSandNigger
Replies
40
Views
1K
FrenchSandNigger
FrenchSandNigger
Don Vito
Replies
6
Views
222
illumizoldyck
illumizoldyck
gael28
Replies
9
Views
306
SteelCentaur
SteelCentaur
ItsovERfucks
Replies
14
Views
414
CRYSTAL METH
CRYSTAL METH
FrenchSandNigger
Replies
11
Views
381
FrenchSandNigger
FrenchSandNigger

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top