I've posted once before. I talked I little bit about my mom in my first post, so go read that one if you haven't. This is my second original thread
Early life / pre-divorce
Some of my earliest memories are of my mom getting into fights with my dad. Me and my sister would be hiding behind my dad crying while my mom would smash glasses on the ground and scream at my dad. She would say, "YOUR SCARING THE KIDS," while we were hiding behind our dad because she was the one scaring us. She never really was a good mother. My dad has told me that when I was little, my mom wouldn't change us or care for us very well when we were sick. My dad would come home from work on days when I was sick and I would be crying needing a change and my mom would just be off doing her own thing not caring for me.
Divorce
When I was in 3rd grade my mom decided to divorce my dad. She had clearly been planning it for years because she wanted to add onto our house which she made my dad pay for. She also wanted both cars to be in her name which my dad declined. She was planning to get as much as possible out of this divorce. My grandpa (her dad) was pretty rich and I think she was waiting for him to die so that she could get a bunch of money and milk my dad dry in a legal battle. She left my dad because she wasn't HaPpY or FulFiLlEd in life. She left and immediately convinced everyone she knew that my dad was beating and raping her and that's why she had to leave. That was not true. Right when she left the family she started dating this guy who was a drug dealer who she used to work with. By the way, this guy previously dated my aunt on my dads side and they broke up because he stole money from her (personality detector failed). Me and my sister really hated to go over to my moms because her and her boyfriend were really mean to us. I don't remember too much of what they were doing because most of it is sort of blocked out of my memory (they werent beating us or anything), but I was going to therapy during that time and the therapist called social services on my mom. One month my mom called the cops 12 times because me and my sister didn't want to go over to her house. She would tell the cops that my dad was an abuser and a rapist so the cops would all come ready to go but would quickly find out that she was lying and my dad is just a super nice guy. After a multi-year legal battle we ended up doing 50/50 at our moms and dads.
Teen Years/ Present Day
The second I turned 15 and got a car I started living with my dad full time. I still went over to my moms house pretty much everyday to go for a run or a walk. I would also go to her house for lunch during high school. Over the years she has become a lot nicer to me and my sister, I think mainly because were not just some little kids she can bully around anymore. I think she regrets the way that she treated us and my dad but she will never apologize. My dad said that throughout their 18 year relationship she didn't apologize to him once. I still go over to her house every single day to walk or to have dinner. It's hard to describe our relationship dynamic. I believe that she truly does love me and my sister though. She broke up with her boyfriend when I was maybe 14 or 15. She has a new boyfriend now who is sort of a hippy, but hes a super nice guy.
Other
My mom has always been a lying bitch. She used to tell everyone that shes vegetarian, which was never true. She lied at one of her jobs, saying that the manager sexually assaulted her so that he would get fired and she would get promoted to the manager position, which worked. Everytime I bring up the past, she will start lying her tail off about everything. Effectively everything that comes out of her mouth will be a lie if I bring up stuff she did in the past or if I call her out for lying. It is so frustrating to deal with that, so I just don't bring that stuff up around her. Again, I think she truly regrets the past and wants to make up for it in a way. She will make me 3 meals a day if I ask her to of whatever food i want and she pays for a bunch of my stuff and will give me money or buy me stuff if I ask her. I think thats sort of her way or making up for the past. By the way every time I said divorce, I meant sepereated. My parents were never married but I just use the word divorce because it was treated like one.
One of her sisters is pretty wild and I want to tell some stories about her life as well in the future. I have a bunch of ideas for more posts I want to do, not just stories but actual inkwell topics too.
Early life / pre-divorce
Some of my earliest memories are of my mom getting into fights with my dad. Me and my sister would be hiding behind my dad crying while my mom would smash glasses on the ground and scream at my dad. She would say, "YOUR SCARING THE KIDS," while we were hiding behind our dad because she was the one scaring us. She never really was a good mother. My dad has told me that when I was little, my mom wouldn't change us or care for us very well when we were sick. My dad would come home from work on days when I was sick and I would be crying needing a change and my mom would just be off doing her own thing not caring for me.
Divorce
When I was in 3rd grade my mom decided to divorce my dad. She had clearly been planning it for years because she wanted to add onto our house which she made my dad pay for. She also wanted both cars to be in her name which my dad declined. She was planning to get as much as possible out of this divorce. My grandpa (her dad) was pretty rich and I think she was waiting for him to die so that she could get a bunch of money and milk my dad dry in a legal battle. She left my dad because she wasn't HaPpY or FulFiLlEd in life. She left and immediately convinced everyone she knew that my dad was beating and raping her and that's why she had to leave. That was not true. Right when she left the family she started dating this guy who was a drug dealer who she used to work with. By the way, this guy previously dated my aunt on my dads side and they broke up because he stole money from her (personality detector failed). Me and my sister really hated to go over to my moms because her and her boyfriend were really mean to us. I don't remember too much of what they were doing because most of it is sort of blocked out of my memory (they werent beating us or anything), but I was going to therapy during that time and the therapist called social services on my mom. One month my mom called the cops 12 times because me and my sister didn't want to go over to her house. She would tell the cops that my dad was an abuser and a rapist so the cops would all come ready to go but would quickly find out that she was lying and my dad is just a super nice guy. After a multi-year legal battle we ended up doing 50/50 at our moms and dads.
Teen Years/ Present Day
The second I turned 15 and got a car I started living with my dad full time. I still went over to my moms house pretty much everyday to go for a run or a walk. I would also go to her house for lunch during high school. Over the years she has become a lot nicer to me and my sister, I think mainly because were not just some little kids she can bully around anymore. I think she regrets the way that she treated us and my dad but she will never apologize. My dad said that throughout their 18 year relationship she didn't apologize to him once. I still go over to her house every single day to walk or to have dinner. It's hard to describe our relationship dynamic. I believe that she truly does love me and my sister though. She broke up with her boyfriend when I was maybe 14 or 15. She has a new boyfriend now who is sort of a hippy, but hes a super nice guy.
Other
My mom has always been a lying bitch. She used to tell everyone that shes vegetarian, which was never true. She lied at one of her jobs, saying that the manager sexually assaulted her so that he would get fired and she would get promoted to the manager position, which worked. Everytime I bring up the past, she will start lying her tail off about everything. Effectively everything that comes out of her mouth will be a lie if I bring up stuff she did in the past or if I call her out for lying. It is so frustrating to deal with that, so I just don't bring that stuff up around her. Again, I think she truly regrets the past and wants to make up for it in a way. She will make me 3 meals a day if I ask her to of whatever food i want and she pays for a bunch of my stuff and will give me money or buy me stuff if I ask her. I think thats sort of her way or making up for the past. By the way every time I said divorce, I meant sepereated. My parents were never married but I just use the word divorce because it was treated like one.
One of her sisters is pretty wild and I want to tell some stories about her life as well in the future. I have a bunch of ideas for more posts I want to do, not just stories but actual inkwell topics too.
