My life is a series of bad decisions and fuck-ups

[Deleted member 7448]

Everything I do I failt at. Even video games, which I spend so many hours a day playing, I suck at.

Everything I buy I end up regretting afterwards. Most big purchases bite me in the ass eventually.

I can't stick to anything. I don't enjoy anything. I fail at life.

 

[metal]

I am like you

 

[Fontaine]

You have succeeded at failing. Bravo sir.

On a more serious note, you probably have depression. This is what makes you fail.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

You have succeeded at failing. Bravo sir.

On a more serious note, you probably have depression. This is what makes you fail.

That and a low IQ.

 

[Fontaine]

That and a low IQ.

Perhaps, but not necessarily.

Depression doesn't destroy intelligence but it destroys drive: you can't learn anything because learning requires sustained attention and willpower, for instance. You also don't believe that you can get better, so you don't even try.

In the end, depression makes you look dumb when you are not. Go see a psychiatrist.

 

[Eternaldarkness]

There is anothER path.

 

[Spite]

There is anothER path.

 

[Zod]

You can try and reset life to minimalism. Sell and throw away absolutely everything you have including the furniture. Keep only the bare minimum necessities like shoes, pants, shirts, toothbrush... You want to be left in a completely empty room. Now lay down on the floor and make yourself cry by thinking about how pathetic and unfair everything is. Play with the puddle of your own tears on the floor, fiddle with it. At this point it will either help you and make you embrace the minimalist LDAR lifestyle, or it will push you to finally rope

 

[Deleted member 7448]

You can try and reset life to minimalism. Sell and throw away absolutely everything you have including the furniture. Keep only the bare minimum necessities like shoes, pants, shirts, toothbrush... You want to be left in a completely empty room. Now lay down on the floor and make yourself cry by thinking about how pathetic and unfair everything is. Play with the puddle of your own tears on the floor, fiddle with it. At this point it will either help you and make you embrace the minimalist LDAR lifestyle, or it will push you to finally rope

Well, I'm not far from a minimalist lifestyle. Except my laptop (that I spend my time from waking up to going to sleep on, when I'm not at work), I do literally nothing else. I just sleep, work, do shit on the laptop, and eat. That's all I do. Can't get more minimalistic than that without going insane.

 

[Jockcel]

I fuck up 90% of important life decisions because of my low iq.

Perhaps, but not necessarily.

Depression doesn't destroy intelligence but it destroys drive: you can't learn anything because learning requires sustained attention and willpower, for instance. You also don't believe that you can get better, so you don't even try.

In the end, depression makes you look dumb when you are not. Go see a psychiatrist.

Some people just can't learn anything due to low iq, just like incels can't get women due to bad looks. Some of us cursed with both ugliness and low iq.

 

[Zod]

Well, I'm not far from a minimalist lifestyle. Except my laptop (that I spend my time from waking up to going to sleep on, when I'm not at work), I do literally nothing else. I just sleep, work, do shit on the laptop, and eat. That's all I do. Can't get more minimalistic than that without going insane.

I'm pretty sure you still have furniture. You're going for a self inflicting dramatic effect, don't cut corners. You must sleep on the floor, have no closets, etc. Keep the absolute bare minimums - one summer pants, one winter pants, one summer shirt, one winter shirt, etc, you get the idea. Basically when you count every single item you are left with it should equal less than 50 items total (laptop, cellphone, nail clipper, toothbrush, shampoo, pants,...). The term of what you're going for is "Extreme Minimalism" and not ordinary minimalism. It forces you to adapt to a new lifestyle, the whole thing is just a gigacope but it can be effective in pushing you to do something drastic like ER or rope (both are considered a good finale)

 

[acnescarcel]

same

 

[Moustachcel]

same here bro. I guess we didnt take enough showers

 

[Just_another_cel]

I'm addicted to spending but I guess that's what happens when you're desperate to cope. I don't know how poorcels get by tbh.

 

[Deleted member 126]

Perhaps, but not necessarily.

Depression doesn't destroy intelligence but it destroys drive: you can't learn anything because learning requires sustained attention and willpower, for instance. You also don't believe that you can get better, so you don't even try.

In the end, depression makes you look dumb when you are not. Go see a psychiatrist.

Psychiatrists are normalscum and a waste of money.

 

[Gokugetem]

Psychiatrists are normalscum and a waste of money.

The goal of a psychiatrist isn't to make you better so you don't need them anymore. The goal is to make you reliant on them. You are better off doing nothing at all.

 

[mylifeistrash]

Everything I do I failt at. Even video games, which I spend so many hours a day playing, I suck at.

Everything I buy I end up regretting afterwards. Most big purchases bite me in the ass eventually.

I can't stick to anything. I don't enjoy anything. I fail at life.

pretty much every man these days except for the top % Is in the same position

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Everything I do I failt at. Even video games, which I spend so many hours a day playing, I suck at.

Everything I buy I end up regretting afterwards. Most big purchases bite me in the ass eventually.

I can't stick to anything. I don't enjoy anything. I fail at life.

I am like you

Perhaps, but not necessarily.

Depression doesn't destroy intelligence but it destroys drive: you can't learn anything because learning requires sustained attention and willpower, for instance. You also don't believe that you can get better, so you don't even try.

In the end, depression makes you look dumb when you are not. Go see a psychiatrist.

 

[Fontaine]

The goal of a psychiatrist isn't to make you better so you don't need them anymore. The goal is to make you reliant on them. You are better off doing nothing at all.

That may apply to therapists, but psychiatrists have such a high supply of patients they just want you to fuck off asap.

 

[anon]

Literally me. I suck at everything, I'm barely average at video games. Fucking video games. I've been playing them since I was 4, I'm still shit and have to turn down the difficulty to easy in some games during boss fights and harder sections. The problem with me is I give up so easily. I know I can beat the boss on medium even on hard after like 10+ attempts, but every time i die my confidence and will to keep playing goes down to 0 and I just want to get it over with so I turn the difficulty to easy and destroy the boss on first attempt. I stay away from games like Dark Souls and Bloodborne. I know I can beat them, everyone can, even a retard, I just don't want to deal with that shit. I despise challenge.

Same goes for everything else in life. Every time I fuck up, be it school or anything else, I just give up.

 

[NijuGMD]

basically me

 

[Gokugetem]

That may apply to therapists, but psychiatrists have such a high supply of patients they just want you to fuck off asap.

I have never been but I have a relative who is a psychiatrist and another relative who has been going to one for nearly 2 decades, based on what I have seen from both they are far more concerned with keeping you as a patient as long as possible than anything else.

 

[Kirito3]

Everything I do I failt at. Even video games, which I spend so many hours a day playing, I suck at.

Everything I buy I end up regretting afterwards. Most big purchases bite me in the ass eventually.

I can't stick to anything. I don't enjoy anything. I fail at life.

Life never gave me a chance to fuck up. It never even began.

 

[YungCell]

Everything I do I failt at. Even video games, which I spend so many hours a day playing.

I used to feel the exact same way about videogames but one summer I played all day for like 2 weeks and was actually doing well and that gave me hope, I also play on a ps4 so I would probably be better with a PC

 

[David_the_Fugitive]

Everything I do I failt at. Even video games, which I spend so many hours a day playing, I suck at.

Everything I buy I end up regretting afterwards. Most big purchases bite me in the ass eventually.

I can't stick to anything. I don't enjoy anything. I fail at life.

How old are you?

 

[Deleted member 7448]

How old are you?

25

 

[David_the_Fugitive]

25

Oh man, I got 20 years on you. I was exactly your age when I STARTED to fuck-up my life with bad decisions. You have a long way to go bro. Just don't rope.......yet. OK?

 

[Human]

Which video games did you try and fail at? I've noticed incels tend to be very good at video games, more so than Chad's.

Exceptions exist.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Oh man, I got 20 years on you. I was exactly your age when I STARTED to fuck-up my life with bad decisions. You have a long way to go bro. Just don't rope.......yet. OK?

I don't have the courage to rope. I know for a fact that I will never kill myself, despite thinking about it every day for more than 5 years.