Discussion My IRL experiences go against normies BS of "people mature as their age"

[NIKOCADO AVOCADO]

When i was touching grass back on 2022 in college i saw the same attitudes of middle schoolers and high schoolers, just in young adults (20 to 24), all of these people both men and women were inmature, constantly made jokes, flirted in ultra cringe ways, etc.

My IRL wizard bud that has more than a decade on the job market also tells me this is exactly the same at the workplace, constant jokes, fights, he doesn't seem nobody truly mature, only like the 60 year old or more completely chalked up by life or simply mentally inmature but with decaying rotting bodies because of age.

Where does that shitty phrase of "people mature as their age" from normies came from?, i was socializing HARD (and failing) on college, i never saw that, nobody there was mature (myself included) and if i got niggas like the wizard who have to put a facade of a normal life to survive also tell me the high school mentality never goes away, then its obvious, normies again just spewing BS.

High school NEVER ends, its like the body keeps rotting and decaying but the brain refuses to progress past teen and young adult mentality

 

[Scatius Deletus]

High school NEVER ends

Water

 

[deadpresident]

Yeah, this is something I kinda observed in my life. That class structure never goes away sadly. If you got bullied, you will be getting bullied in every iteration of that class. Work life and everything in between.

 

[Antisocialloner]

Gen Z is fucked honestly

 

[land of oblivion]

When i was touching grass back on 2022 in college i saw the same attitudes of middle schoolers and high schoolers, just in young adults (20 to 24), all of these people both men and women were inmature, constantly made jokes, flirted in ultra cringe ways, etc.

My IRL wizard bud that has more than a decade on the job market also tells me this is exactly the same at the workplace, constant jokes, fights, he doesn't seem nobody truly mature, only like the 60 year old or more completely chalked up by life or simply mentally inmature but with decaying rotting bodies because of age.

Where does that shitty phrase of "people mature as their age" from normies came from?, i was socializing HARD (and failing) on college, i never saw that, nobody there was mature (myself included) and if i got niggas like the wizard who have to put a facade of a normal life to survive also tell me the high school mentality never goes away, then its obvious, normies again just spewing BS.

High school NEVER ends, its like the body keeps rotting and decaying but the brain refuses to progress past teen and young adult mentality

the word maturity is meaningless if it is only valid when you become an adult. Maturity is not reaching a moral sense shared by most, in fact in my opinion maturity is reached when you become hypercritical of everything on the face of the earth and this last thing has no age when it happens. It is used by adults to make people feel guilty or to make them feel superior just because they are older but the concept of maturity is subjective and it is not like mathematics or geometry, it is just a generic word.

 

[Thaway]

Agreed. Complete nonesense. People's potential for maturity is reached very early on in their life. Some of the most childich, impulsive and insecure people i had to work with were boomers and gen x. So people that were nearly in their 60s at that point, people with families and relatively high paying jobs quite literally acting on the emotional maturity level of a 15 year old. Not to even speak of 99 percent of all foids, which basically get stuck at 14 years old mental wise.

 

[Animecel2D]

college is just an extension of highschool