I have a friend who’s clearly struggling with the Blackpill but won’t admit it. We’ve been friends for 10 years, we're the same age. He has never had a girlfriend. He's Curry, 5’9”, average-faced, ectomorpoh-skinny as a Ramadan fasting day.
He lost his virginity at 25 to an escort (after judging me hard for doing the same when I was 19). He’s seen a few more but claims he got 'sick of it’ and quit. Whenever I bring up dating struggles or inceldom, he gets visibly annoyed and tells me, "Just be confident! Go to a bar!". He claims that because he's got other parts of his life together: good job, solid friends, family, hobbies, he can get over not having a girlfriend. Basically the volcel starter pack.
He once confided in me that he was sexually molested by a male teacher in a mosque as a kid. I can’t help but wonder how much that messed him up when it comes to women. He insists that he's over it and also considers it not a big deal to not having a girlfriend, but the way he reacts when I talk about my own frustrations tells a different story.
There are some contradictions I noticed in him:
He lost his virginity at 25 to an escort (after judging me hard for doing the same when I was 19). He’s seen a few more but claims he got 'sick of it’ and quit. Whenever I bring up dating struggles or inceldom, he gets visibly annoyed and tells me, "Just be confident! Go to a bar!". He claims that because he's got other parts of his life together: good job, solid friends, family, hobbies, he can get over not having a girlfriend. Basically the volcel starter pack.
He once confided in me that he was sexually molested by a male teacher in a mosque as a kid. I can’t help but wonder how much that messed him up when it comes to women. He insists that he's over it and also considers it not a big deal to not having a girlfriend, but the way he reacts when I talk about my own frustrations tells a different story.
There are some contradictions I noticed in him:
- Tells me, "Just be confident bro!" – yet he paid for his first lay at 25 years old.
- Says, "I don’t need a girlfriend!" – Then why does he seethe when I mention inceldom? Since he would never talk about recieving female attention, is this a repressed frustration coming out as an outburst when reminded of it?
- He uses 'consumer therapy' as a cope to fill the void without realising: he already owns the latest Xbox, but then buys a PS4 too - same computing power, same games, just a different logo. He's also an avid football fan - emotionally invested in millionaires in tights kicking a ball, living in mansions he’ll never afford, dating women he’ll never meet.
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