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My dad was 34 and my mom was 32 when they had me

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Captvic

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I think the late age contributed to my inceldom due to weaker hormones
 
that's not uncommon at all in the West
 
Early 30s is average age to have kids
 
Were they ugly?
 
Erenor said:
that's not uncommon at all in the West

I say this because i have an older brother and sister who are both good looking but my parents had them in their mid to late twenties. I got the ugly genes
 
its been proven that the older the parents, the shittier the offspring.
 
Captvic said:
I say this because i have an older brother and sister who are both good looking but my parents had them in their mid to late twenties. I got the ugly genes

nah just bad luck I guess
 
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retarded_dumbshit said:
its been proven that the older the parents, the shittier the offspring.

Yup.

Older parents means the child is more likely to have a lower IQ, more likely to have autism, more likely to have downs and more likely to have a shit ton of other genetic defects. Sperm and eggs degrade.

Parents are waiting too long to have kids in the west, and it's having disastrous effects on our gene pool. They don't want to get married at 25 because they "want to enjoy their youth". So they get married when they're nearly 30, and then they wait even longer to have kids. I get the logic, you want to make sure you're in a good financial situation before having kids....but the fact of the matter is it's better to be lower middle class and have a child with good genes than to be upper middle class and have a son with shitty genes. You can keep climbing the economic ladder but your kid's genes are set in stone. The fact is, it doesn't matter what schools you send your son to or what kind of neighborhood you raise him in, if he has an IQ of 80 or has autism, he's going to have a shitty life.

You have so many parents who might have average or above average genes, but wait until they're over 35 to have kids and then when their son has a shit ton of problems in high school, drops out of college and becomes a NEET who stays in his bedroom playing video games and watching chinese cartoons, they're left scratching their heads wondering "what went wrong?".

If you're not ready to have kids by 30, then don't have kids at all. It's that simple.

I've tried discussing this issue many time with people both online and in real life and most people just don't get it. The only places where people seem to get it are incel and chan boards. Everywhere else, everyone relentlessly defends the idea of having kids past the age of 35. I could show them half a dozen studies on this and they'll completely dismiss them all. I suspect part of the reason for this is many of them plan on having kids much later in life themselves, and they don't want to accept the risks of doing so. They want to completely absolve themselves from responsibility for how their (future) children turn out genetically. It fucking pisses me off to no end.
 
retarded_dumbshit said:
its been proven that the older the parents, the shittier the offspring.

Explains me, my parents are absolutely ancient.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
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retarded_dumbshit said:
its been proven that the older the parents, the shittier the offspring.
Yup.
Older parents means the child is more likely to have a lower IQ, more likely to have autism, more likely to have downs and more likely to have a shit ton of other genetic defects. Sperm and eggs degrade.
Parents are waiting too long to have kids in the west, and it's having disastrous effects on our gene pool. They don't want to get married at 25 because they "want to enjoy their youth". So they get married when they're nearly 30, and then they wait even longer to have kids. I get the logic, you want to make sure you're in a good financial situation before having kids....but the fact of the matter is it's better to be lower middle class and have a child with good genes than to be upper middle class and have a son with shitty genes. You can keep climbing the economic ladder but your kid's genes are set in stone. The fact is, it doesn't matter what schools you send your son to or what kind of neighborhood you raise him in, if he has an IQ of 80 or has autism, he's going to have a shitty life.
You have so many parents who might have average or above average genes, but wait until they're over 35 to have kids and then when their son has a shit ton of problems in high school, drops out of college and becomes a NEET who stays in his bedroom playing video games and watching chinese cartoons, they're left scratching their heads wondering "what went wrong?".
If you're not ready to have kids by 30, then don't have kids at all. It's that simple.
I've tried discussing this issue many time with people both online and in real life and most people just don't get it. The only places where people seem to get it are incel and chan boards. Everywhere else, everyone relentlessly defends the idea of having kids past the age of 35. I could show them half a dozen studies on this and they'll completely dismiss them all. I suspect part of the reason for this is many of them plan on having kids much later in life themselves, and they don't want to accept the risks of doing so. They want to completely absolve themselves from responsibility for how their (future) children turn out genetically. It fucking pisses me off to no end.
Parents had me when they were nearly 25 (dad was older, like 26). Still a genetic failure. I think that having a sub5 face is way worse than having low IQ or autism...Wish I had an actual bone mass instead of being low inhib and NT (aka not autistic)
 
you probably have autism or mental illness.
 
Way too old. My parents were that old too and I'm a genetic failure. Most people don't know this but parents can destroyed their child's genes because they're too old.
 
Parents were 30 and 32 and mom has genetic autism. WHy did they have me? FUcking retards.
 
Octopusgun2 said:
I think that having a sub5 face is way worse than having low IQ or autism...Wish I had an actual bone mass instead of being low inhib and NT (aka not autistic)

I agree. But I got the worst of both worlds, sub5 face and a low IQ. I doubt I have actual autism though, I'm just extremely dumb, but NT. I'm low inhib too but it's only caused me problems. If you ugly and low IQ, it's better to be high inhib.

Ugly + low IQ + low inhib is the absolute worst combo.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Octopusgun2 said:
I think that having a sub5 face is way worse than having low IQ or autism...Wish I had an actual bone mass instead of being low inhib and NT (aka not autistic)
I agree. But I got the worst of both worlds, sub5 face and a low IQ. I doubt I have actual autism though, I'm just extremely dumb, but NT. I'm low inhib too but it's only caused me problems. If you ugly and low IQ, it's better to be high inhib.
Ugly + low IQ + low inhib is the absolute worst combo.
Fuuuckk, i’m too low inhib too that it has gotten me bullied. Had a femoid once tell me that I shouldn’t be confident when I look like I do. I have an average IQ but i sure am not smart or dumb.
 
Octopusgun2 said:
Fuuuckk, i’m too low inhib too that it has gotten me bullied. Had a femoid once tell me that I shouldn’t be confident when I look like I do. I have an average IQ but i sure am not smart or dumb.

Man, you're like a younger version of me in so many ways its not funny.  Off white ethnic, low inhib, long midface, truecel, rejected by women even lower on the looks scale, called ugly in real life by girls...you're even a surgerycel like me.
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
Octopusgun2 said:
Fuuuckk, i’m too low inhib too that it has gotten me bullied. Had a femoid once tell me that I shouldn’t be confident when I look like I do. I have an average IQ but i sure am not smart or dumb.
Man, you're like a younger version of me in so many ways its not funny. Off white ethnic, low inhib, long midface, truecel, rejected by women even lower on the looks scale, called ugly in real life by girls...you're even a surgerycel like me.
We should just get married and lose our virginity to each other daddy >////<.
 
having a kid past the age of 28 is child abuse
 
I was an accident. They should have aborted me
 
My parents have me when they were 18, the second 21, and the third 25.

I'm an incel with a chadlite and a mini-chad with top tier facial structure.
 
Ub2w said:
My parents have me when they were 18, the second 21, and the third 25.
I'm an incel with a chadlite and a mini-chad with top tier facial structure.
my mom was like 18 when I was conceived, my dad was like mid 20s and It is JUST... So OVER
 
Ryo_Hazuki said:
I agree.  But I got the worst of both worlds, sub5 face and a low IQ.  I doubt I have actual autism though, I'm just extremely dumb, but NT.  I'm low inhib too but it's only caused me problems.  If you ugly and low IQ, it's better to be high inhib.  

Ugly + low IQ + low inhib is the absolute worst combo.

High inhibition as incel=certain death tho.
You at least tried and had more than zero chance of making it. You failed but you at least tried. 
Now for a truecel to be high inhib and never try it means a female will NEVER initiate. Read that again NEVER. So he needs to do everything to try and get one,especially when young.


rickvanderhammer said:
having a kid past the age of 28 is child abuse

Yeah but who today has any decent money at that age? It is just too risky. A crisis may hit,or you may lose your job and end up semi homeless. How is that good for the child lol?

It is better to wait until 35 than have one at 25-29 if you dont have some legit money.

Obviously it is ideal to not have it at all. And only the beautiful and the rich should really have children. But we are talking lesser evil here.
 
St.Tropez said:
High inhibition as incel=certain death tho.
You at least tried and had more than zero chance of making it. You failed but you at least tried. 

The "at least you tried" meme is dumb in so many ways.

Real life isn't like a children's competition where everyone gets a reward just for participation. In real life if you fail, it means you wasted time, effort, and potentially money in an endeavor that was ultimately fruitless. Now I'll admit there is such a thing as constructive failure, but that's only the case when knowledge gained from said failure ultimately leads to success...which was obviously not the case here as I'm a 30 year old KHV.

Not to mention getting rejected a shit load of times has adverse effects on your mental health no matter how stoic you are. Honestly, I regret ever approaching any women ever. I approached the most when I was 18-22. I wasted so much time at clubs, normie parties, and doing cold approaches. I could have spent more time with the friends I had that I enjoyed being around and going out and doing things I liked....but I wasted much of my youth trying to get a girlfriend.

Spending time doing things you enjoy (a cope like anime, video games, posting on the internet...whatever) is much better than going out and getting rejected over and over. So if you're ugly, high inhib is better than low inhib, hands down.

Not to mention approaching as an ugly male in 2018 can get you into serious trouble. I mostly approached during the 2000s but society's attitude towards ugly men who approach has changed a lot. Back then it was just an annoyance, now it's "street harassment" and if you approach the wrong girl she might snap a pic of you, post it to social media and get you doxxed and fired from your job. Groups like "hollaback" are doing exactly that and have a lot of mainstream support. Just one more reason why being high inhib is way better than being low inhib as an ugly male.
 
yes its over for u.. and will be for more future potential babies. too many people these days are having kids when they are too old and its proven that the kid can be born with crappy genes because of it. one example is down syndrome.
 
Everyone over 30 should be sterilized.

Forced abortions for any pregnant moms over 30.


Ryo_Hazuki said:
The "at least you tried" meme is dumb in so many ways.

Real life isn't like a children's competition where everyone gets a reward just for participation. In real life if you fail, it means you wasted time, effort, and potentially money in an endeavor that was ultimately fruitless.

It's worse for career shit. If you try to be a doctor but fail you end up in massive debt with nothing to show for it.
No one should approach women unless you're chad level and no one should go to college unless you have a 130+ IQ which is top 2.5%.

Trying when success isn't certain is idiotic.
 
My dad was 38. Why did he have to wait so long?
 
I dont think it matters my younger brother is taller and better looking than my older brother they are 7 years apart and look at scott eastwood his dad was old as fuck when they had him still a chad and you are also 6'6 so you arent that much of a genetic failure just bad luck
 
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Ryo_Hazuki said:
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Yup.

Older parents means the child is more likely to have a lower IQ, more likely to have autism, more likely to have downs and more likely to have a shit ton of other genetic defects.  Sperm and eggs degrade.

Parents are waiting too long to have kids in the west, and it's having disastrous effects on our gene pool.  They don't want to get married at 25 because they "want to enjoy their youth".  So they get married when they're nearly 30, and then they wait even longer to have kids.  I get the logic, you want to make sure you're in a good financial situation before having kids....but the fact of the matter is it's better to be lower middle class and have a child with good genes than to be upper middle class and have a son with shitty genes.  You can keep climbing the economic ladder but your kid's genes are set in stone.  The fact is, it doesn't matter what schools you send your son to or what kind of neighborhood you raise him in, if he has an IQ of 80 or has autism, he's going to have a shitty life.  

You have so many parents who might have average or above average genes, but wait until they're over 35 to have kids and then when their son has a shit ton of problems in high school, drops out of college and becomes a NEET who stays in his bedroom playing video games and watching chinese cartoons, they're left scratching their heads wondering "what went wrong?".  

If you're not ready to have kids by 30, then don't have kids at all.  It's that simple.

I've tried discussing this issue many time with people both online and in real life and most people just don't get it.  The only places where people seem to get it are incel and chan boards.  Everywhere else, everyone relentlessly defends the idea of having kids past the age of 35.  I could show them half a dozen studies on this and they'll completely dismiss them all.  I suspect part of the reason for this is many of them plan on having kids much later in life themselves, and they don't want to accept the risks of doing so.  They want to completely absolve themselves from responsibility for how their (future) children turn out genetically.  It fucking pisses me off to no end.

The gene pool is completely fucked. I honestly believe the only way to fix it is to institute euthanasia, to stop degenerates from breeding. Plus, it’d end my existence painlessly, which I can get behind.
 
cope tbh

they gave u shit genes because they had shit genes

does not matter how old they were
 
My dad was 40 y/o when he had me with his 28y/o betabuxed wife lmao, it was over from the start. I never even had a chance.
 

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