The Notorious SLAV
Foid Oppression Denial Division Commander
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Yikes, sweaty. This is, like, so problematic. Like, you need to learn that, like, nobody owes you anything sweaty, and no matter what you decide to do for him, he doesn't owe you anything, he will have sex with you when and if he decides, his body his choice, doesn't matter what. You aren't entitled to, like, anything, least of all another person's body
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And of course, the actual response is nothing like that


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Yikes, sweaty, that's like, so problematic. Like, nobody owes anyone anything just for kindness, least of all their body, cause that's, like, just being a decent human being. Like, the people who want sex here are the problem, like, they need to understand that they are there just to give support in all possible ways and not receive anything, cause, like, they aren't entitled to it.
My boyfriend won’t have sex with me – and says I have to be patient
He doesn’t kiss me or touch me intimately. I am starting to feel self-conscious and worried that I’m just not his type
And of course, the actual response is nothing like that
You have set yourself up as his caretaker and, while that may be fulfilling for you in many ways, it is probably not erotically inspiring. It has also made you question the unspoken contract between you … which seems to be: you take care of him in every possible way but he does little to reciprocate. If this is correct, I can certainly understand if you are feeling that you deserve more.
Would you say you have healthy self-esteem? Some people put up with this kind of contract because, deep down, they do not believe they deserve – or can receive – better. Think carefully about why you have come to be in this position and whether or not it is what you truly want. You can always negotiate for more attention, more kindness, more appreciation or anything else you feel he could give you but withholds. Make him recognise just how special you are, and how lucky he is to have you in his life.
Yikes, sweaty, that's like, so problematic. Like, nobody owes anyone anything just for kindness, least of all their body, cause that's, like, just being a decent human being. Like, the people who want sex here are the problem, like, they need to understand that they are there just to give support in all possible ways and not receive anything, cause, like, they aren't entitled to it.





