Venting My best friend just betrayed me.

[Stormfrontcel]

Here is some backstory as to what happened

Me and this guy have known eachother for well over a decade now, we carried eachother trough the worst time of our lives (middle school) and if it wasnt for him i probably whouldve roped at that time because of just how much i was harassed. He was my best friend and one of my only friends.

Now to the actual topic of the post
A few days ago (i think it was friday?) i was planning to go out with him since we rarely see eachother nowadays and we had talked and agreed to meet either on saturday or sunday. I message him asking what his prefered day and time would be since as usual i had no plans for the weekend and was going to bedrot and doomscroll all day so i was really looking foward to this as i wanted this weekend to be a bit different. All of the suden i get hit back with something i didn't expect: He was going to have to take in some kraut exchange student, who was ariving late on saturday and he had to go get him from the airport. I offer to go before that (he had to be there at 8pm, meaning we could have still met no problem) but he declined saying this whould "ruin his plan"?? I then offered to go on sunday and said he could introduce me to the kraut if he wanted as i had no problem with him being there, he again declined, this time offering no reason whatsoever, but i know that he did not have any plans for that day. I have been trying to negotiate something since but he is just leaving me on seen now.
I am used to being betrayed but i never quite expected it to come from someone i have known as long as him, imagine literally picking some rando you dont know and are never going to see again in a week over the person who was there for you when you needed him most. I guess i really am just insufferable and annoying to be around. Well, here's to another weekend spent rotting.

 

[Animecel2D]

Brutally over

though ngl I was expecting a foid to be involved because that’s usually how 99% of long term friendships get ruined

 

[Stormfrontcel]

Brutally over

though ngl I was expecting a foid to be involved because that’s usually how 99% of long term friendships get ruined

it may potentially be something similar as i have been suspecting him of being a fag for a while and think he might have been simping for the kraut

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Truecel trait: you don't have friends because your previous friends betrayed you

 

[wasted12years]

Sorry you had to go through that. I can't remember the last time i got betrayed by a friend. I think the only betrayal i got was from all my friends at the same time pretty much. They all became normies, got a GF and most of them moved to another city. A foid is the ultimate friend killer.

 

[Animecel2D]

it may potentially be something similar as i have been suspecting him of being a fag for a while and think he might have been simping for the kraut

Damn, even worse then

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

Friends don’t exist.

 

[ihatelife2]

Wtf very rude of him, you were thinking the weekend would have something besides bedrotting but he only cared about the kraut. What's a kraut btw?

 

[Stormfrontcel]

Wtf very rude of him, you were thinking the weekend would have something besides bedrotting but he only cared about the kraut. What's a kraut btw?

its a slur for germans

 

[ihatelife2]

its a slur for germans

Hope it's a one time thing and he goes back to being a good friend

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Friends don’t exist.

 

[andrej]

imagine literally picking some rando you dont know and are never going to see again in a week over the person who was there for you when you needed him most. I guess i really am just insufferable and annoying to be around. Well, here's to another weekend spent rotting.

Because he thinks that due to you guys knowing each other for so long you will be able to tolerate his rejections. In short he knows he can get a way with some things because you guys are bros but if he does it to that random he is going to be disrespectful because that random doesn't know him like you do

 

[D. B. Gooner]

He might be an avoidant personality which I've self diagnosed myself as like a faggot.

If I plan something and someone intervenes I get super pissed off for no reason even if their intervention doesn't really change anything. When asked why I'm frustrated I'm unable to rationalize it which in turn frustrates me even more. Like I'll plan to go for a 1hr walk where nothing eventful is supposed to happen, then my mom will butt in and tell me to get groceries and that will invoke a deep rage within me for some reason and make me not wanna go for a walk at all.

Any interest I've ever had, if someone tries to inquire information about it and ask me to talk about it I would get pissed and stop committing to that interest.

 

[D. B. Gooner]

He might be an avoidant personality which I've self diagnosed myself as like a faggot.

If I plan something and someone intervenes I get super pissed off for no reason even if their intervention doesn't really change anything. When asked why I'm frustrated I'm unable to rationalize it which in turn frustrates me even more. Like I'll plan to go for a 1hr walk where nothing eventful is supposed to happen, then my mom will butt in and tell me to get groceries and that will invoke a deep rage within me for some reason and make me not wanna go for a walk at all.

Any interest I've ever had, if someone tries to inquire information about it and ask me to talk about it I would get pissed and stop committing to that interest.

And tbh I resent my mom so he probably resents you.

 

[Lo3e]

I was expecting a foid to be involved because that’s usually how 99% of long term friendships get ruined

 

[Leon98]

Friends don’t exist.

 

[Caichan]

Friends don’t exist.

wlaah

 

[Hevel]

During my last walk, I was thinking about friendships. The friendships that the normie maintains are rarely based on mutual liking; they're more transactional. This means that the other person possesses something they themselves desire (like looks [even if they're better-looking than the normie, in a social context, you're still on the same level as the better-looking person when interacting with them], information, or positions that some people can access more easily than others). What we truly crave—and I don't think I'm exaggerating here—is a friendship that exists independently of our possessions. Unfortunately, such a thing will never exist.

What I'm trying to say with this long post is that it's better to be alone than to envy the "friendships" of normies (even if you forget that sometimes).

i never quite expected it to come from someone i have known as long as him

You will experience many things from people you thought knew you better, who nevertheless claim otherwise.

 

[Utnapishtim]

i have been suspecting him of being a fag for a while

lmao