Blackpill My best friend from high school versus me now

[gymletethnicel]

I have a good friend who I have known for over a decade now. We talk regularly. We used to be similar in our hobbies and computer autism.

But he lives in a completely different life from me now, everything changed after he got a girlfriend. He start engaging in normie activities, start grinding and stopped gaming. He now spends his time with people who like to be around him and he enjoys his riches and does fun activities, while I either am gaming or doing Anki flashcards to learn Japanese vocabulary.

He is now:

1. He is now married
2. Has many millions to his name
3. Is loved by lots of people, gets hundreds of likes on his posts
4. Moved abroad
5. Made his mother proud and retired her

As for me:

1. I have now been using incels.is for roughly 6 years, this is my third account in case any smartass mentions my join date. I am as incel as can be.
2. I am doing okay financially, but far from even a million to my name
3. I have no family, both of my parents are dead
4. No one cares about me at all, maybe that friend I am drawing comparison now to. The last time I posted anything on Instashit (he nudged me to post shit on Instagram) I got one like on my post from his wife of all people

He will live a happy life with his millions, many friends and people who love and will probably have kids.
I will be always alone, either rotting in a basement or on holiday by myself. Either way I am alone.

This is what happens when you are incel. This is literally the difference between getting a gf and not getting a gf.

 

[based_meme]

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

The future of my brocel

 

[ethniccel2025]

Friends are just people who you were forced to spend time with

Now he surpassed you, the “friendship” ended

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

commend u for keeping such a friend. I'd stay clear since he'd just be rope fuel to me.

 

[ArabAndFramecel]

Friends are just people who you were forced to spend time with

Now he surpassed you, the “friendship” ended

 

[vigcookie_227oalgo]

commend u for keeping such a friend. I'd stay clear since he'd just be rope fuel to me.

 

[Pancakecel]

Better to be alone than have a friend that has it all, it's just a constant reminder of what you don't have.

 

[Kourageous Kanga]

everything changed after he got a girlfriend

fakecels will cruise through life until they inevitably get scooped up even without trying

 

[sadlemon]

It hurts a lot how just getting a fucking girlfriend or having intimacy is such a drive and motivator to men. It's like the best productivy drug there is.
Even in media it's presented how having someone to share your burdens with, makes you stronger.
That's why i always see my sucessfull peer having a women by their side and know how they can achieve great things, why would you bother to try hard if you're gonna be alone and miserable anyways?

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

It hurts a lot how just getting a fucking girlfriend or having intimacy is such a drive and motivator to men. It's like the best productivy drug there is.
Even in media it's presented how having someone to share your burdens with, makes you stronger.
That's why i always see my sucessfull peer having a women by their side and know how they can achieve great things, why would you bother to try hard if you're gonna be alone and miserable anyways?

Even though nowadays I think I have no IQ or talents, I still believe that I had the potential to become someone if only the depression caused by social esclusion and inceldom didn't hold me back throughout my childhood and teenage years. No matter how much I tried to cope thinking that I could control my nature and stoically ignore my needs to pursue greater goals, without a girlfriend and social interactions most of us men don't really have any drive to grind or do anything.

 

[gymletethnicel]

It hurts a lot how just getting a fucking girlfriend or having intimacy is such a drive and motivator to men. It's like the best productivy drug there is.
Even in media it's presented how having someone to share your burdens with, makes you stronger.
That's why i always see my sucessfull peer having a women by their side and know how they can achieve great things, why would you bother to try hard if you're gonna be alone and miserable anyways?

There is not much reason to have tens of millions to your name if you are an incel, if you are in the 6 figures you are good if you are incel. What could you even buy in the millions that would improve your incel life?

 

[sadlemon]

Even though nowadays I think I have no IQ or talents, I still believe that I had the potential to become someone if only the depression caused by social esclusion and inceldom didn't hold me back throughout my childhood and teenage years. No matter how much I tried to cope thinking that I could control my nature and stoically ignore my needs to pursue greater goals, without a girlfriend and social interactions most of us men don't really have any drive to grind or do anything.

You don't have to be that smart to achieve good things, you just need DRIVE and DEDICATION, something that i can't seem to get. Men for some reason can't improve themselves just for themselves, so they end up improving for others. Just go and read about motivational posts, it's always after they get cheated on or something but it always revolves around women. Before i didn't understand why they could be so productive and achieve so much meanwhile i struggled to even the most mundane stuff and always wanted to procrastinate. The answer? Women. Such a shitty reality man. But yeah i fared exactly as you did, still do

There is not much reason to have tens of millions to your name if you are an incel, if you are in the 6 figures you are good if you are incel. What could you even buy in the millions that would improve your incel life?

As i'm from 3rd world i live with $600 more or less per month. I would not know what to do with more money. I would like money just to be able to neet and not have to deal with coworkers and their women normie talks. Other than that why would i need money for? Where would i travel? I want to go to japan but going alone seems painful, not that i have the money for it.

 

[drowningindenial]

Better to be alone than have a friend that has it all, it's just a constant reminder of what you don't have.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

Before i didn't understand why they could be so productive and achieve so much meanwhile i struggled to even the most mundane stuff and always wanted to procrastinate.

All that time I spent trying to self improve to force motivation and drive in me didn't give me any result. In the end, the only real desires I get every day are to jerk off and to kill myself. There was a year where I was delusional enough to believe almost 100% that I was finally going to get a girlfriend, and it was the most productive year of my life. Drive and motivation just came naturally, procrastination disappeared. It sucks, I thought that I could become like a monk and find motivation alone, but we aren't made to work like that, it's not natural and destroys the spirit. And I hate it, because it's not fair. Other men and women got to enjoy normal lives and now they reap their fruits while I had to endure this pitiful existence of nothingness.

At times I feel like the protagonist in the second chapter of the manwha "The Boxer", who let bullies punch him without moving despite being strong enough to easily defend himself, simply becasue he saw no reason to do it, after he had lost all interest in life.

Just go and read about motivational posts, it's always after they get cheated on or something but it always revolves around women.

I tried to find motivational incel role models who worked hard in the things I like despite their inceldom, but they don't exist. Every person who put the minimum effort in their passion was a normie sexhaver. Everyone else got where they were out of sheer talent. It's not fair.

And it's not just about motivation. Don't even get me started on how much guidance and how many opportunities to find and pursue your interests you get from friends and partners. Ideas (like for example deciding to learn to play an instrument or do a sport) don't come in our heads from nothing, most of the times we take them from others, either our friends or our parents. If you're completely alone you're lost, the internet can't make up for it, especially when you are younger.

 

[Animecel2D]

brutal shit