While i have very few friends now, and zero friends as a child, I was somehow able to have several friends in my 20s.
1) Focus on just getting one friend who has lots of friends. Yes I know I see the irony, but if you can secure a friend who has a huge social circle then you have a much better chance of becoming friends with some of them. Be flexible and open minded, you will have to be ok with doing activities they like and not necessarily activities you enjoy. If you’re fortunate you will have some things in common.
2) get a job with a lot of people your age that work there.Just focus on being friends with one or two guys and go from there. The ideal environment is one that has minimal supervision and plenty of time for you to bs and get to know each other. I remember how I first made a lot of friends at an old job is that I befriended a popular guy and used my sense of humor to jester maxx to get him to be my friend.
these are my best advices. Beware they won’t work for everyone. Some of you are just too ugly and too autistic for anyone to ever want to be around you.
best of luck!
PS: YOU must be the one to main the friendship. Once it is formed, you take the initiative to invite him places. And dont ignore phone calls or texts. One 1 or 2 attempts will be made to contact you before they give up on you and forget you existed.
1) Focus on just getting one friend who has lots of friends. Yes I know I see the irony, but if you can secure a friend who has a huge social circle then you have a much better chance of becoming friends with some of them. Be flexible and open minded, you will have to be ok with doing activities they like and not necessarily activities you enjoy. If you’re fortunate you will have some things in common.
2) get a job with a lot of people your age that work there.Just focus on being friends with one or two guys and go from there. The ideal environment is one that has minimal supervision and plenty of time for you to bs and get to know each other. I remember how I first made a lot of friends at an old job is that I befriended a popular guy and used my sense of humor to jester maxx to get him to be my friend.
these are my best advices. Beware they won’t work for everyone. Some of you are just too ugly and too autistic for anyone to ever want to be around you.
best of luck!
PS: YOU must be the one to main the friendship. Once it is formed, you take the initiative to invite him places. And dont ignore phone calls or texts. One 1 or 2 attempts will be made to contact you before they give up on you and forget you existed.
