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Story My +1,000 days of noFap timeline

How long do you think you can do noFap for if you really focused?

  • Less than 24 hours

    Votes: 5 9.6%
  • Some days

    Votes: 15 28.8%
  • Some weeks

    Votes: 7 13.5%
  • A month

    Votes: 9 17.3%
  • +100 days

    Votes: 16 30.8%

  • Total voters
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I stopped watching porn after the website I used to got its content purged and stop pirating content and then I found out about BDSM and men getting paid to get beat up along with other parts of BDSM that I found to promote mental illness or self harm. I decided to avoid porn as much as possible. After a year I was able to focus on other things and my sleeping schedule was back to normal so I had more energy.

Up until now these are some of changes that came along the last +3 years along with changing how I move irl

Smoother skin completion on my face and lower body
Able to maintain eye contact and express different facial expressions depending on situations :feelsaww:
(Look more trustworthy and younger to normies)
Got more flexible in my lower body (no longer feels tight)
Go long periods in the day without eating

If you go to the gym and are looksmaxxing hard you’ll probably get more benefits than me ngl or even if you’re a young cell but you don’t have to practice noFap this long if ya don’t want to.
 
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How the hell did you do it? Especially for over 3 years, thats so damn impressive. What's your secret bro?
 
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no way u done 1000 plus
 
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Funny thing with my NoFap history is:
  • I started fapping at 19 (thrice a week);
  • Found out about NoFap two years late;
  • Did 200+ days on first try;
  • Relapsed, because lonely and horny, and then felt bummed out about it;
  • Did another 100+ days streak
  • Relapsed again for the same reason and thought "Fuck it!" I like watching asses;
  • Got back into habit;
  • Have tried NoFap again in 2021 and haven;t been able to go over 2 weeks without cooming;
Anyway, congrats on achieving your goals. If it works for you, it works.:feelsYall:
 
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I could do 1000+ days if I wanted to I think

but why tf would I do that
 
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original changes:
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https://incels.is/threads/nofap-timeline-ngl-dont-think-reddit-will-touch-jfl.221784/

I stopped watching porn after the website I used to got its content purged and stop pirating content and then I found out about BDSM and men getting paid to get beat up along with other parts of BDSM that I found to promote mental illness or self harm. I decided to avoid porn as much as possible. After a year I was able to focus on other things and my sleeping schedule was back to normal so I had more energy.

Up until now these are some of changes that came along the last +3 years along with changing how I move irl

Smoother skin completion on my face and lower body
Able to maintain eye contact and express different facial expressions depending on situations :feelsaww:
(Look more trustworthy and younger to normies)
Got more flexible in my lower body (no longer feels tight)
Go long periods in the day without eating

If you go to the gym and are looksmaxxing hard you’ll probably get more benefits than me ngl or even if you’re a young cell but you don’t have to practice noFap this long if ya don’t want to.
I'm gonna start tomorrow and be as strict about it as possible. I hate seeing Chads and Stacies mogging me.:feelswhat:
 
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https://incels.is/threads/nofap-timeline-ngl-dont-think-reddit-will-touch-jfl.221784/

I stopped watching porn after the website I used to got its content purged and stop pirating content and then I found out about BDSM and men getting paid to get beat up along with other parts of BDSM that I found to promote mental illness or self harm. I decided to avoid porn as much as possible. After a year I was able to focus on other things and my sleeping schedule was back to normal so I had more energy.

Up until now these are some of changes that came along the last +3 years along with changing how I move irl

Smoother skin completion on my face and lower body
Able to maintain eye contact and express different facial expressions depending on situations :feelsaww:
(Look more trustworthy and younger to normies)
Got more flexible in my lower body (no longer feels tight)
Go long periods in the day without eating

If you go to the gym and are looksmaxxing hard you’ll probably get more benefits than me ngl or even if you’re a young cell but you don’t have to practice noFap this long if ya don’t want to.
Still here and no gf i hope you will get one bro
 
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1000? Nigga you don't have testicular cancer do you?
 
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Smoother skin completion on my face and lower body
Able to maintain eye contact and express different facial expressions depending on situations :feelsaww:
(Look more trustworthy and younger to normies
imagine not touching your dick for 3 years just to make eye contact and express facial emotions. you could have done anything else and it would have been more productive. It's sad what it's come to these days. "bro no fap works a girl smiled at me" chad faps every day and still gets girls chasing after him. No fap would be a challenge for him, but all you're doing is resisting pixels that get you aroused. :blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:
 
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original changes:
Thread 'noFap timeline Ngl (don’t think reddit will touch jfl)'
https://incels.is/threads/nofap-timeline-ngl-dont-think-reddit-will-touch-jfl.221784/

I stopped watching porn after the website I used to got its content purged and stop pirating content and then I found out about BDSM and men getting paid to get beat up along with other parts of BDSM that I found to promote mental illness or self harm. I decided to avoid porn as much as possible. After a year I was able to focus on other things and my sleeping schedule was back to normal so I had more energy.

Up until now these are some of changes that came along the last +3 years along with changing how I move irl

Smoother skin completion on my face and lower body
Able to maintain eye contact and express different facial expressions depending on situations :feelsaww:
(Look more trustworthy and younger to normies)
Got more flexible in my lower body (no longer feels tight)
Go long periods in the day without eating

If you go to the gym and are looksmaxxing hard you’ll probably get more benefits than me ngl or even if you’re a young cell but you don’t have to practice noFap this long if ya don’t want to.
Average porn doesn’t turn me on honestly
 
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If you fixate on nofapping alone, you’ll fail eventually

It’s like telling yourself to stop looking at the magical polar bear in the corner. You will inevitable do it when you are constantly thinking about the polar bear.

You need other shit in your life that you use nofap as a means to an end, if you want to do nofap. God, who you want to become, magick, etc.
 
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I did 6-7 months when I was meditating daily and had somewhat of a busy life
 
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Also nofap for sexual success is a cope. You think the hot guys who get laid do autistic nofap shit like this to get laid? Chads are the biggest coomers of all, and they have no problem pulling women.

Women are worse coomers than men, their entire life revolves around finding a cute guy to “fill me up with your love”, even Catholic nuns want Jesus to penetrate their heart with passionate love.
 
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does nofap really helps? i should definitely try it
 
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Last time I've spent half a year without masturbating.
 
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You don’t have to go as long as I have but you can cut down on fapping to make more meaningful
i am dying a virgin anyway only way to me to have sex is getting married and i wont so only way for me have pleasure is fapping but fapping makes me want to do real sex which is impossible to me there is no way i am gonna go to escorts(never going), so i am trying to quit sex completely but it seems impossible to me. should i give up fapping?
 
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Maybe you just have low libido, I[UWSL]'m gonna be dust in a few decades so who cares if I rub my pp while I still can, I get no pussy anyways[/UWSL]

Also anything can be "porn" these days, there's no fine line, wherever hot foids exist whether it's pornhub or insta or real life I get horny, I think worse than nofap copers are noporn niggas who still fap, even if there's any benefit it's about not frequently ejaculating, it's not about some pixels
 
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i am dying a virgin anyway only way to me to have sex is getting married and i wont so only way for me have pleasure is fapping but fapping makes me want to do real sex which is impossible to me there is no way i am gonna go to escorts(never going), so i am trying to quit sex completely but it seems impossible to me. should i give up fapping?
If you’re religious and ready to leave behind then give it up

If you’re not religious or not ready to give it up then continue

You sound like you’ve been doing it for a decade ngl
 
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If you’re religious and ready to leave behind then give it up

If you’re not religious or not ready to give it up then continue

You sound like you’ve been doing it for a decade ngl
yes i wanna get religious so badly so i want to give up i have been trying to give up on porn for a lot of times and i failed may be more than 200 times i failed and i am religious and wanna give up:cryfeels:
 
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yes i wanna get religious so badly so i want to give up i have been trying to give up on porn for a lot of times and i failed may be more than 200 times i failed and i am religious and wanna give up:cryfeels:
Stay busy at the times you jerk off
Turn your anger towards porn and refuse to watch
Fall asleep on time .

That’s 90% how I got this far as long with staying on this place a little bit more and doing other stuff I enjoy. Your religious so you might have people take you in at your place of worship ngl
 
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imagine having to do 1000 days of nofap just to be able to make eye contact absolutely over for non NT's :feelsgah::society:

chads and normies coom every day and are still fully capable of socializing because they are NT nofap is the biggest autist cope :feelsgah::society:
 
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Do you still get random boners?
Is your libido still intact?
 
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Do you still get random boners?
Is your libido still intact?
yes it is I’m in my mid 20 and I only fapped for like 6 years before I got to this streak
 
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@BlkPillPres @IncelKing @YBP Yxngcel lool at this.
 
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original changes:
Thread 'noFap timeline Ngl (don’t think reddit will touch jfl)'
https://incels.is/threads/nofap-timeline-ngl-dont-think-reddit-will-touch-jfl.221784/

I stopped watching porn after the website I used to got its content purged and stop pirating content and then I found out about BDSM and men getting paid to get beat up along with other parts of BDSM that I found to promote mental illness or self harm. I decided to avoid porn as much as possible. After a year I was able to focus on other things and my sleeping schedule was back to normal so I had more energy.

Up until now these are some of changes that came along the last +3 years along with changing how I move irl

Smoother skin completion on my face and lower body
Able to maintain eye contact and express different facial expressions depending on situations :feelsaww:
(Look more trustworthy and younger to normies)
Got more flexible in my lower body (no longer feels tight)
Go long periods in the day without eating

If you go to the gym and are looksmaxxing hard you’ll probably get more benefits than me ngl or even if you’re a young cell but you don’t have to practice noFap this long if ya don’t want to.
That's all a placebo effect retard, your skin doesn't look better, you just FEEL like it looks better because you FEEL better about yourself for not fapping. Or it could be all manner of things connected to the placebo, like because you feel better you changed your diet and that in turn changed your skin. But there is literally no scientific basis for this nonsense, if it worked like that, then men with active sex lives should all have shitty skin, low energy, be unable to keep eye contact, be less flexible, be hungrier than men that never orgasm, etc.

This thread is peak retardation.

I experience no change from when I masturbate to when I spend a few weeks not masturbating. That's because I actually have self awareness and I think introspectively. Heck, if someone just uses common sense alone they'd see how this doesn't make sense.

Men who have sex lives should immediately lose the women they are with after a few months, because their looks, social skills, etc should decrease over time due to orgasming consistently, and yet, none of that shit happens :feelskek:.

I swear I lose brain cells reading NoFap threads.
 
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If I really focused? 100+ days as I’ve done it before. But recently I’ve been trying to see how long I can go with meh tier will power, and I made it like 24 hours before I fapped
 
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That's all a placebo effect retard, your skin doesn't look better, you just FEEL like it looks better because you FEEL better about yourself for not fapping. Or it could be all manner of things connected to the placebo, like because you feel better you changed your diet and that in turn changed your skin. But there is literally no scientific basis for this nonsense, if it worked like that, then men with active sex lives should all have shitty skin, low energy, be unable to keep eye contact, be less flexible, be hungrier than men that never orgasm, etc.

This thread is peak retardation.

I experience no change from when I masturbate to when I spend a few weeks not masturbating. That's because I actually have self awareness and I think introspectively. Heck, if someone just uses common sense alone they'd see how this doesn't make sense.

Men who have sex lives should immediately lose the women they are with after a few months, because their looks, social skills, etc should decrease over time due to orgasming consistently, and yet, none of that shit happens :feelskek:.

I swear I lose brain cells reading NoFap threads.
You’re in a sweet spot off since you moderate your fapping schedule and have other projects and interest that take them away from things. Some Gen Z and NEETS users are not doing anything to change their lives like you and be successful. You’re doing a lot things to for the life ya want

I needed to see if I could get to 1,000 days and I did and I’m not sure if I’ll go back
If I really focused? 100+ days as I’ve done it before. But recently I’ve been trying to see how long I can go with meh tier will power, and I made it like 24 hours before I fapped
You moderate how much you fap or no?
 
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You’re in a sweet spot off since you moderate your fapping schedule and have other projects and interest that take them away from things.
You don't have to moderate anything, just have things to do (as a human should) and you'll naturally fap less.

I’m not sure if I’ll go back
You shouldn't if you've already went 1000 days, there's no reason to.

You moderate how much you fap or no?
I don't, I just fap as much as I want to. Some days it's twice a day, other rare days it may be 3 (that's like once every few months), most days it's once before I go to sleep.

That's probably because I have things to do, but that doesn't give you or anyone an excuse, because there's literally and endless list of things to do if you just search for it online.

You can't go out of your way and refuse to find things to do, and then use that as an excuse to jerk off all day, and then blame masturbation for your problems :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:.

That doesn't make sense, the problem is that you do nothing all day, not masturbation. Because at the end of the day, if you stop masturbating, you're just going to spend all day doing nothing anyways, and you are still left with the core problem.
 
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Larp

If you fixate on nofapping alone, you’ll fail eventually

It’s like telling yourself to stop looking at the magical polar bear in the corner. You will inevitable do it when you are constantly thinking about the polar bear.

You need other shit in your life that you use nofap as a means to an end, if you want to do nofap. God, who you want to become, magick, etc.
Not really distract yourself. My longest streak is 29 days. My secret is literally keeping myself distracted and being productive
 
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You don't have to moderate anything, just have things to do (as a human should) and you'll naturally fap less.


You shouldn't if you've already went 1000 days, there's no reason to.


I don't, I just fap as much as I want to. Some days it's twice a day, other rare days it may be 3 (that's like once every few months), most days it's once before I go to sleep.

That's probably because I have things to do, but that doesn't give you or anyone an excuse, because there's literally and endless list of things to do if you just search for it online.
Fapping 3 times a day sounds painful. But finding things to do outside of work takes the moderation aspect out of it like you said because you found things to do because humans are like suppose to be productive.
You can't go out of your way and refuse to find things to do, and then use that as an excuse to jerk off all day, and then blame masturbation for your problems :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:.

That doesn't make sense, the problem is that you do nothing all day, not masturbation. Because at the end of the day, if you stop masturbating, you're just going to spend all day doing nothing anyways, and you are still left with the core problem.
I can’t refute this part but not having things to do isn’t a realistic option unless you’re a NEET on disability in a first world country
 
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Fapping 3 times a day sounds painful.
It usually is, it all depends on how early you wake up and how horny you are that day. TBH I was on a "download streak" that day too. I literally found multiple amazing videos, one after the next. All in different categories. So it's rare for this to happen.

Most times the vids I find are underwhelming because I already have better in my porn archive.

I can’t refute this part but not having things to do isn’t a realistic option unless you’re a NEET on disability in a first world country
Exactly, but at the same time, I still can't excuse it, because if you are searching online for ways to start an online career or make money, you'll find something that's up your alley at some point. If you choose to do nothing, when you literally have nothing to do in your life, you lose the right to complain about your life.
 
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You don't have to moderate anything, just have things to do (as a human should) and you'll naturally fap less.


You shouldn't if you've already went 1000 days, there's no reason to.


I don't, I just fap as much as I want to. Some days it's twice a day, other rare days it may be 3 (that's like once every few months), most days it's once before I go to sleep.

That's probably because I have things to do, but that doesn't give you or anyone an excuse, because there's literally and endless list of things to do if you just search for it online.

You can't go out of your way and refuse to find things to do, and then use that as an excuse to jerk off all day, and then blame masturbation for your problems :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:.

That doesn't make sense, the problem is that you do nothing all day, not masturbation. Because at the end of the day, if you stop masturbating, you're just going to spend all day doing nothing anyways, and you are still left with the core problem.
That's crazy that you mentioned this because I've actually been struggling to find things to fill my time with after starting nofap. I don't know what to do to fill the time between self improvement activities . If anything, nofap showed me that my life is actually quite boring and uneventful.

Although I do notice music and food tasting and sounding better. And things in general just feel slightly better. I think it's because it healed my dopamine transmitters. Idk. But that's the only benefit I've experienced so far.

It forced me to realise that my life is boring and I had to find some hobbies,jobs etc to fill in my time. So in a way,it kind of made me more productive.
 
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the problem is that you do nothing all day
I've actually been struggling to find things to fill my time with after starting nofap
This is why I think I was unable to maintain it when I managed a 48-day streak at 18, cos after college work was done I'd just sit at my computer and do nothing all day, so the urge was always itching at the back of my mind. Now that I have a lot more to do each day (by design), it could be more feasible for me to do better at nofap

For me, all forms of online stimulation are a pathway to procrastination and reduced concentration, so its not just porn, but also streaming, music, youtube, etc, but I know that I can't go full cold turkey right now, doing it in stages (limiting myself to an hour of leisure per day)

I think once you get in the rhythm of maintaining these good habits they should get easier as your brain builds new neural pathways that make this new daily routine seem normal to you, hopefully shouldn't take longer than a few months if I stick to it
 
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This is why I think I was unable to maintain it when I managed a 48-day streak at 18, cos after college work was done I'd just sit at my computer and do nothing all day, so the urge was always itching at the back of my mind. Now that I have a lot more to do each day (by design), it could be more feasible for me to do better at nofap

For me, all forms of online stimulation are a pathway to procrastination and reduced concentration, so its not just porn, but also streaming, music, youtube, etc, but I know that I can't go full cold turkey right now, doing it in stages (limiting myself to an hour of leisure per day)

I think once you get in the rhythm of maintaining these good habits they should get easier as your brain builds new neural pathways that make this new daily routine seem normal to you, hopefully shouldn't take longer than a few months if I stick to it
Personally I don't really think there's a reason to "forcefully" end a habit. It's better for it to end "naturally" because it's "outlived it's usefulness".

I'm only masturbating now because I don't have access to sex, I can't pay for it and I don't have access to the outlets to pay for it either (requires going to certain locations that I don't live close to).

So for now, I'll masturbate. The day when I can substitute masturbation with sex is the day I will stop. If anything that will result in a more natural change in habits, because I'm stopping one craving and I'm replacing it with a better alternative. Under those circumstances there won't be any "struggle", or any "suffering", and "self control" won't even be a factor.

To me, NoFap just complicates something that should be so simple. The problem is lacking "sexual resources", so you can try and solve it by trying to forcefully repress those urges, or you can try and solve it by working towards gaining access to said resources. The latter just makes more sense to me, there's no reason to starve yourself for sake of living up to some standard.

I don't know why so many men are treating not masturbating as some kind of "goal" or something. Goals usually have tangible benefits. There is no benefit to simply stop masturbating. If anything you are just taking on a burden.

To me this all just seems rooted in pride, because most of you "feel bad" because you masturbate. Whereas I don't feel anything about it. It's just an outlet for my sex drive from my perspective.

Reminds me of this video with Israel Adesanya:

View: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/GO62ztLhOT0


Making decisions when you are sexually frustrated and holding yourself back is the stupidest shit ever. You aren't operating on a clear mind.
 
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This is why I think I was unable to maintain it when I managed a 48-day streak at 18, cos after college work was done I'd just sit at my computer and do nothing all day, so the urge was always itching at the back of my mind. Now that I have a lot more to do each day (by design), it could be more feasible for me to do better at nofap

For me, all forms of online stimulation are a pathway to procrastination and reduced concentration, so its not just porn, but also streaming, music, youtube, etc, but I know that I can't go full cold turkey right now, doing it in stages (limiting myself to an hour of leisure per day)

I think once you get in the rhythm of maintaining these good habits they should get easier as your brain builds new neural pathways that make this new daily routine seem normal to you, hopefully shouldn't take longer than a few months if I stick to it

View: https://youtu.be/PZ7lDrwYdZc
watch this video, it really helped me out. Think it will help you too tbh.
 
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To me this all just seems rooted in pride, because most of you "feel bad" because you masturbate. Whereas I don't feel anything about it. It's just an outlet for my sex drive from my perspective.
It's not a guilt thing, it's just that it, along with other stimulants like music and youtube, consumed too frequently can get the way of my concentration, so I try to limit them to an hour a day so they don't snowball into the whole day - its a form of time management employing Pavlovian conditioning where you feel better about that part of the day when you can chill cos you did what you needed to throughout the day. I still jerk off, but only do it once a day now and without porn
 
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Personally I don't really think there's a reason to "forcefully" end a habit. It's better for it to end "naturally" because it's "outlived it's usefulness".

I'm only masturbating now because I don't have access to sex, I can't pay for it and I don't have access to the outlets to pay for it either (requires going to certain locations that I don't live close to).

So for now, I'll masturbate. The day when I can substitute masturbation with sex is the day I will stop. If anything that will result in a more natural change in habits, because I'm stopping one craving and I'm replacing it with a better alternative. Under those circumstances there won't be any "struggle", or any "suffering", and "self control" won't even be a factor.

To me, NoFap just complicates something that should be so simple. The problem is lacking "sexual resources", so you can try and solve it by trying to forcefully repress those urges, or you can try and solve it by working towards gaining access to said resources. The latter just makes more sense to me, there's no reason to starve yourself for sake of living up to some standard.

I don't know why so many men are treating not masturbating as some kind of "goal" or something. Goals usually have tangible benefits. There is no benefit to simply stop masturbating. If anything you are just taking on a burden.

To me this all just seems rooted in pride, because most of you "feel bad" because you masturbate. Whereas I don't feel anything about it. It's just an outlet for my sex drive from my perspective.

Reminds me of this video with Israel Adesanya:

View: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/GO62ztLhOT0


Making decisions when you are sexually frustrated and holding yourself back is the stupidest shit ever. You aren't operating on a clear mind.

Good point. Different things work for different people. If nofap dosen't do much for you then that's understandable. Tbf i would go the same route if I didn't notice any benefits.

I usually feel very sluggish and unmotivated after I fap. I guess nofap has some practical use for me. Apparently the semen from your prostate gland breaks down and reabsorbes into your blood stream. Which nourishes your body with nutrients. Leading to better health benefits.

So I feel more alive and energetic after a few weeks and my brain is more sensitive to dopamine. It's a good feeling. It also disciplined me and made me more productive.
 
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none of this shit matters. chad coomed twice a day to 2 dicks in one hole gangbang bukkake all throughout middle school then deflowered a normie's oneitis a week in high school
 
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I usually feel very sluggish and unmotivated after I fap. I guess nofap has some practical use for me.
Dude that's everybody, ejaculation literally triggers a response for you to get rest and sleep after you do it, because a lot of energy is SUPPOSED TO BE expended.

The brain releases oxytocin and vasopressin after an orgasm which make you sorta sleepy. That is the one and only reason you feel tired. You don’t "lose minerals" or "get depressed" or any other nonsense you've heard before.

This is why some people use masturbation as a sleep aid, myself included.

Apparently the semen from your prostate gland breaks down and reabsorbes into your blood stream. Which nourishes your body with nutrients. Leading to better health benefits.
You need to stay away from this NoFap bro-science nonsense lol.

Your body can't create more nutrients than what you put in, it can't violate the laws of nature and create something from nothing. Anything reabsorbed from your sperm will simply be used in the process to create new sperm over again.

The nutrients are recycled, it doesn't magically just "nourish your body" or anything like that.

It's like eating your finger nails. Your body just uses what you digest to grow your nails over, it simply recycles it, it doesn't "nourish" you or anything like that.

I don't know why I see so many people talking about not masturbating like it gives you superhuman abilities or something lol.


Here's a common sense question:
Why isn't there a female version of NoFap?

Women today masturbate a lot, a lot of women have sex toys, it's a norm for a woman to have one. Women can orgasm multiple times and keep going (they don't get the pain and soreness we do, nor do they get the refraction period where arousal isn't optimal). A woman can literally spend hours masturbating and a lot of women that don't have a "committed relationship" do this (not everyday obviously).

So why is it we don't see any forums filled with women talking about all the health benefits they gained when they stopped masturbating?

If anything women celebrate and encourage it on forums. I'm pretty sure you can find some pro female masturbation forums on reddit if you look. Not notice for men it's always anti-masturbation forums (NoFap forums and shit like "No Nut November").

NoFap is plagued with fabricated myths that revolve around male self loathing and shame, for not getting your orgasm "the right way" / "the manly way".

This is where all this nonsense is rooted.


Go and ask anyone in the NoFap community this simple question:
"If a man has sex as much as I masturbate, will he experience the same negatives I do from masturbation?"

They will tell you no, and that's because the core values of NoFap is about feeling ashamed for not "being a REAL man", it has no basis in science or logic. It's just about shaming men for not getting their orgasm "the right way".

Sex is many times more physically draining than masturbation, it's literally like exercising, but NoFappers will tell you that a man who has sex three times a day will be less drained of energy than a man who jerks off three times a day. When the guy who has sex has to sweat and use his whole body, and the guy that jerks off sits comfortably in a chair and uses a single hand lol.

It also disciplined me and made me more productive.
If it's helping with that keep at it, but always keep in mind it's just a placebo. Because if it really works the way you think, then when you finally start having a sex life, you'll become undisciplined and less productive.
 
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none of this shit matters. chad coomed twice a day to 2 dicks in one hole gangbang bukkake all throughout middle school then deflowered a normie's oneitis a week in high school
This. If NoFap logic made sense, then men who have active sex lives should be even more "drained" than guys who simply jerk off and only expend the energy of a single hand moving back and forth.
 
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I still don’t understand nofap copers, you’re just denying yourself a carnal pleasure in exchange for… muscles? For what? To impress a foid? If you’re here you probably have more than one issue than that. How anyone sees it as anything more than a :redpill: meme is beyond me
 

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