Copy pasta, written by this one Muslima from the middle east whose secret blog I found. I don't agree with everything she says but antifeminism and blaming foids, beckies, and stacies for school shooters is incredibly based:
Often I wonder why if most western ladies hate m
n do they want to date them. I mean hate them for who they really are when they take their mask off and call it misogyny. There seems to be complete hatred between the mainstream of the sexes & for a while as someone who hated neither I was caught in the middle. With my aspergers I never understood if you don’t even like people for who they really are and find it offensive why are you so desperate to want to hang out with these awful creatures and not use a vibrator instead?
When I went from tomboy to feminine I had empathy for gentlemen and some common interests. This made me irresistible. I am not on team woman because whenever I was in trouble until I got married it was always gentlemen there for me & ladies who caused most of that trouble. I am like Erdogan though, only on team Me, Myself and I. I look out for my self interest. When I was asked why aren’t you for women trying to manipulate me against my self interest I said “what do I get out of it? How much are you paying me and what exactly are you offering?”
I never got the entitlement from rude western ladies who were mean to me for being male identified and autistic why should I be on team women without them paying my bills.
Truth be told the worst misogyny I have seen is in the West. So why the misogyny? Due to the misandry of little boys since childhood and cultural confusion. When you don’t have clear gender roles you will have confusion, hate and resentment. This FreeDUMB and sexual liberation isn’t worth it. It just made the old misogyny worse.
A little bit of empathy and you can understand the other gender and only then can you for a profound bond by accepting people as they are and not what you wish they are or what they pretend to be.
The main culprit of western misogyny is Prom. Prom must be destroyed and abolished. Why not have a debutante ball instead. Prom grooms children and leads to school shootings.
Want to reduce misogyny in the West? Bam prom and prom dates. Call it a graduation ball. Anyone bringing a prom date or aiding and abetting such a barbaric misogynistic child groom cultural practice belongs in gain for the same sentence as possessing kiddy prawnography.
SEXUALIZING CHILDREN IS WRONG
Countries that do that have misogyny.
How does that work. Western media & culture promotes dating in high school while the rest of the world discourages it and they wonder why they have high school shootings.
American high school is about child sax not learning and that is the problem. American media is not censored. If you can homeschool do so.
So American media defines masculinity as pressuring 12 years old boys to swindle 12 years old girls to have sex for free without being able to have the finances to afford a family of she gets pregnant but if Epstein or Bill Clinton who can afford to pay for children sired get her pregnant they go to jail? That is so messed up.
How come Epstein island is a crime but broke dusty teenage boys impregnating high school girls is encouraged in America. Make that make sense!
So 12 year old boys with no resources who live with mom and dad are pressured to “become
M
n “ by finessing and swindling pre teen girls to give kitty
cat for free. This is the cause of the pyschological life long trauma that leads to misogyny. So you can’t swindle anyone out of anything by being a gentleman. So they feel betrayed by their parents or worse single mothers and made a fool of.
When you have resources being a gentleman gets you a high value wife but when you have nothing to off it’s being a simp.
When you have resources you are a gentleman but when you are polite while broke living with your parents, you are a simp.
To swindle girls out of free kitty
cat & thus fit the western masculine ideal - one must be a bad boy and select for pick me doormats.
As they are vulnerable and confused during puberty boys are shocked to see being a gentleman and listening to their parents prevents them getting laid. Of course they have no resources to off. They see the bad rebellious kids are the ones having all the sax. The girls they like complain about the same bad boys and keep dating them while friend-zoning them. These boys feel hurt and betrayed by their parents.
Being 30 with resources is a long way from 12 or 13 years old.
So the teachers say boys should be put on medication for being rambunctious and invalidate the kids, telling boys masculine behaviour is toxic. Yet when they listen to the teacher and simp, they are mocked by girls.
If Bill Gates starts tricking (gifting) with Hermès bags it’s hot. If a pimpled school kid is simping as in does your homework in homes of looking at your bra it’s gross. If Tom Cruise appears with roses that is hot. A pimped weak 12 years old boy
smaller than you brings flowers
in hopes of seeing your underwear? Pass!
It’s not that the parents were lying by not telling their son to act like a sociopath and jerk .. just the advice is untimely and age 30 when most acquire resources sounds like forever.
So these thirteen years olds boys feel traumatized by betrayed by their parents and teachers. The students at the top of the school social dominance hierarchies in America are making out, doing intense kissing in public to advertise they get laid in private. Those who don’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend are lower in the school hierarchy. Boys without a girlfriend are treated like garbage. It still is for the better because boys with a girlfriend usually get her pregnant.
Most future providers are smart so are late bloomers. Thus were traumatized and bullied in high school for not being able to swindle girls giving free kitty cat and having no nudes to show their friends after school.
So the boys learn of the “red pill” which is basically how society and people of the opposite gender say you should act isn’t how you should really act. Red pill is you will get hurt listening to people’s words, watch their actions. I found the concept useful to understand western society and luxury beliefs where plutocrat elites say one thing and live the other. With the whole FreeDUMBDUMB culture, “anything goes but not anything works”. As a result you see a lot of hypocrisy in the name of worshipping the FreeDUMB god. In the West people say how they wish things were but usually live the opposite because their ideals are impractical, unsustainable and contrary to nature.
It’s the bad boys who get free kitty cat from Pickmeishas. And that is the only way to get laid with no resources and being too young for any commitment.
So when boys rebel against the school system and their parents they switch on the leadership sexual attractor. So they get hooked on this Andrew Tate who changes their fortune from being bullied at the bottom of the middle school status hierarchy to the king of the middle school by swindling pick mes out of giving free sax. This ruins their ability to pair bond when they have the resources to start a family.
Then dating is confusing because of K & R strategy. When boys are young they look for an easy fast girl to pump and dump. When they become financially established they want a wife who is hard to get and loyal. At 20 they are an f boy and at 30 they are crying where have the feminine virgins gone! When they look to marry a low body count makes it more likely to establish paternity.
The nature is boys are pump & dump dusty r strategy, acquire resources and then become monogamous and legacy oriented. Females start with legacy but with a high body count perminantly switch to R strategy.
Now this is biology and science. The same science that says people are born gay.
If males voice these biological facts backed by science in their own words western ladies will call them vile misogynists but will not date those simps who agree with them in hopes of getting laid.
A simp is a wimp being nice in hopes of getting laid and his bills paid. Avoid drama and don’t be his sugar mama.
You see the problem with America sexualizing children then banning providers like Epstein and Bill Clinton dating them? I don’t believe normalizing teenagers dating older helps anyone.. just desexualize and have high school end at 16 because it’s not like they learn much there. In Russia not only did high school end at 16 but they were taught calculus more advanced than the US. Trapping young adults into children because of education does more harm than the good the education teaches.
It’s important to stop pushing sex on people who don’t have resources to raise kids and throw anyone who does this in jail for years especially pop singers and record producers. And give anyone who protests that a life sentence.
You have to pick between Dumbocracy or protecting your kids. If you chose Dumbocracy don’t be complaining that you have nasty red pill misogynists.
I got feedback from gentlemen that my writing on hypergamy made them feel a lot better about their most traumatic years in high school and middle school- that there was nothing wrong with them because they didn’t have money as a kid. They were just meant to make it big later in life and be a great provider while the popular kids have not gone far in life. This whole thing of swindling a girl out of sex and getting free consistent sex by pretending to like her and calling her your “girlfriend” is not something a lot of gentlemen enjoy as ideal of masculinity.
The pressure on pimpled 13 year old boys to be sexual when they are just learning to be social traumatizes them. Also parents are to blame allowing boyfriends and girlfriends and saying they are cute little adults. Kids can hang around in groups with adult supervision and pairing up before financial support should be strongly discouraged.
This hypogamous love culture is deeply traumatizing to young boys and produces mass shootings and misogynists out of late bloomers. As an autist late bloomer I can completely empathize with their pain because kids are mean. If you are not popular in high school kids can be so cruel.
If you are intelligent your brain develops then your social skills. So this leads to being abused in the unnatural institution of Prussian style schools that haven’t evolved from the age of Bismarck. For introverts and intelligent children schooling is a trauma.
So on top of this trauma add feminist teachers & parents who call boys toxic and bad for doing what the culture tells them to do: get laid without money.
The moment ladies all close legs to those who engage in intimate relationships with those who can’t raise children and yes SHAME pickmeishas who do so - then you will get rid of the misogyny. That puts the ball in our court. Tell young ladies to not date boys because they just want to get laid until they get established and have the resources to carry a family. Then they love you for real and not pretending to for consistent ball emptying.
The unestablished financially is a boy even at 70. You need to be financially established and carry a family.
Girls dating for feelings leads to a culture of misogyny because what except toxicity would attract an unhealed teenager? Most people were not raised in perfect families and have healing and inner work to do so they stop sexually validating toxicity and friend zoning or sexually invalidating healthy behaviour.
Boys in a culture that defines masculinity as getting laid instead of being a provider protector will do what it takes to get laid. So if most ladies use shaming to demand high standards and high end dates, all these high school boys will be finding weekend jobs to take girls out. If she gets pregnant he can work full time and go to high school part time. I honestly don’t support sexualizing children so avoiding artists that promote that and walking away, boycotting hypogamous music and culture helps.
If a girl wants a financially stable gentleman before she risks him impregnating her, she is not a gold digger - nor does him having beauty and body count standards make him a misogynist.
Biology is confusing. Most animals are either R strategy- live fast spread seed die young or K legacy strategy. Humans are a rare animal that does both.
When males are poor they are wired to be promiscuous, live fast, spread their seed. That doesn’t make them misogynist. It just makes you an idiot to sleep with someone broke. Calling broke dusties misogynists for being broke only makes you mad. It gives unhealed energy. Judgment makes one angry.
Accept poverty makes the brain dusty. Stop calling males misogynists for following biology or you are a gold digging shameless hussy for not wanting to raise children in poverty. Just understand poverty makes males toxic and not being financially established makes it not worth it for women to date unestablished males.
Stop calling them misogynist. Poverty is anti female so don’t date broke.
It’s better to be broke by yourself than be broke with a broke male. If he is not financially established don’t go near him or he will hurt you. It’s like covering yourself with steaks tied to you in the savanna in Africa and walking into the lion’s den. Then complaining that the lions are trying to eat you.
Broke boys be the way they be. Just stop dating broke. Stop calling then misogynists. If ladies stop entertaining broke boys they will get out of poverty and stop the hate. Stop dating before 25. Seriously.
Secondly gentlemen go from R strategy when they have no resources, spray and prey because it maximizes chance of infant survival to legacy strategy when they have the resources to have a family. Calling ladies flouseys or hohoho’s or thots when they have resources is not misogyny. In a society where we don’t shame gays it’s time we stop shaming gentlemen for existing.
The fact is studies show at very high body counts gentlemen are much less likely to establish paternity for children they provide for. Gentlemen don’t mind step children but they do mind being cheated on and cuckholded in a marriage.
With life long alimony in the West, western gentlemen are extremely picky and care about things like not having a high body count far more than the Middle East.
Western males go for chasing camel toe of thotties in yoga pants to they get financially established and overnight these ladies disgust them and they become offended by their existence. When they created the thotties by pushing young girls to sleep with them in exchange for deceiving them being in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. This is not misogyny.
Feminists are so mean to me, and they the majority of western ladies. Imagine boys raised that these female abusers are the norm, they bully them at school as fellow students and teachers and they are supposed to date these bullies and form families with them?
You know how mean feminists are to us. Imagine a world where everyone was a Kevin Sameuls or Andrew Tate level actual woman hater, your father, and in school all your teachers were Kevin Sameuls supporting males. You are expected to only date misogynists and the only break from this abuse is finding a spouse abroad or becoming rich and thus attracting a healthy masculine gentleman. Everyone says what do you bring to the table except tits, you are worthless. You are shamed & brutally verbally for not being masculine but the second you stop acting or dressing feminine you are treated like garbage. If you listen to what the verbal abusers ask of you, sure the verbal abuse stops but you are treated far worse than just being verbally abused. Imagine classrooms don’t accommodate your learning and you can’t leave to the bathroom if you have a period emergency and made to bleed all over yourself then made fun of and punished for it, for not following the school’s hygiene requirements. Imagine all the teachers teach theories where everything is the fault of femininity and the matriarchy like they do of masculinity and the patriarchy… if you date someone who can afford to raise children your professors call you a dirty capitalist pig. You are taught everything is the fault of your gender.
That nightmare I described is what it is like to be male in the west. As a male identified autist I only had some abuse under the hands of western feminists as an adult.
A little empathy goes a long way. If he doesn’t act like someone from a Jane Austen novel it doesn’t mean he hates the other gender.
The abuse adolescent boys receive in western culture.. it’s a shock they don’t all hate ladies. That is what the chaos of the sexual revolution & freedom leads to.
Traditional gender roles and hypergamy will heal the rift between the two genders. Let’s stop judging and name calling because it doesn’t stop bad behaviour but increases our blood pressure.
Let’s stop using the word misogynist all together because it only raises our boood pressure. the reality is if we are honest most assholes don’t hate women. The only misogynist I can think of for real is Kevin Sameuls who seems to have gotten bitter in inner child therapy about his mother and blamed her for everything without the dialectical behavioural therapy tools to calm down.
If we are honest we conflate a lot of jerks with misogyny because of our hurt pride and wounded hearts. Most jerks in the West understand Pickmeishas will put out for free if they have bad boy sex appeal. If we shamed Pickmeishas from not giving free kitty and not dating for love, doing the inner work - the jerks would disappear. Shaming is an effective political power tool used by feminists so we should not be ashamed to use it. For those who say it doesn’t work - look at PETA. I am against shaming friends and family- yes it’s counter productive up close. Be compassionate with people close to you but shame your enemies and political opponents before they shame you.
Shaming hypogamous feminists is very easy. Just exist. They will attack you and ask them what is in it for her to be a sugar mama for a financially challenged dusty loser. Ask them what are they getting out of dating brokeys then ask is it really love if you low key resent him? Would you not be happier on your own or dating up? But for dating up you have to cater … choices, choices.
Honestly most that we call misogynists are just confused lads who are trying to make sense of the sexual revolution and are trying to cater to what ladies respond to.
So we have more power than we think. The male gender is driven by the standards we set. Stop judging them. Make high standards for yourself and the gentlemen you entertain. Learn how to act low body count. Fake it until you make it. Dress classy, and make yourself a prize. Don’t hang out with gentlemen who treat you anything less than a queen. Say you are a traditional lady and act like one but kick anyone beneath your high standards to the curb.
The moment ladies stop having sex with broke
m
n you will see being a gentleman become the norm.
Broke gentlemen are genetically wired to cheat, have harems and be a baby mama factory. I don’t care how handsome he is, if he is not financially established to carry a family, stay away.
When gentlemen stop struggling that is when most geniunely want love for real.
When they are struggling they just want to bang. Do I call my computer wiring bad or misogynist? My tv cable? Is my phone misogynist if the battery needs to be renewed because it dies fast? No. It’s not helpful. Struggling gentlemen are genetically wired to pump and dump & be a bad boy, r strategy. Am I going to call it misogyny? No. I just tell my friends to avoid dating unestablished gentlemen. Don’t date broke. And those broke gentlemen who rise above their biology and don’t do dusty behaviour? My respect to them and finding such a person is winning the lottery.
Let’s stop calling everything misogyny. Let’s understand why western gentlemen are not pro women and finding a decent match will not be easy because a lack of traditional gender roles.
Just because the West is a confusing West doesn’t mean everyone is bad.
Jealous Johns and Bitter Bobs are what you watch out for. Most jerks are not misogynists aka woman haters- they simply in high school saw that bad boys who swindled girls out of a free kitty
cat were the most popular and think that is what grown ladies really like.
Most gentlemen aim to please. Male dominance is an act. It’s not real. They are the submissive gender who will do whatever we ladies require them to do with our actions and gain access to us. We hold the power.
We ladies have to be the prize for gentlemen to be champions. They will do the craziest things to gain our favour in spite all the abuse our gender puts them through.
Be the most attractive and seductive you can be from looks, emotionally with inner work, intellectually etc - be Hermès luxury and charge Hermes prices. Don’t give yourself out for love like cheap trash.
If you stop dating for love, start dating to build a family, look amazing and have high standards.. you start a revolution. Gentlemen will see you don’t respond to bad boy behaviour so they will adjust their courtship ritual to win that prize. Then ladies will see you are happy and start copying you. This way slowly but surely through our hypergamous behaviour we start a quiet revolution of replacing jerks with gentlemen.
See the word misogynist is disempowering implying that gentlemen- the gender who stops wars if we go on sex strike- have the power. Instead we ladies have the power in our actions to be the most desirable, set high standards and ignore those who don’t meet them.
Often I wonder why if most western ladies hate m
When I went from tomboy to feminine I had empathy for gentlemen and some common interests. This made me irresistible. I am not on team woman because whenever I was in trouble until I got married it was always gentlemen there for me & ladies who caused most of that trouble. I am like Erdogan though, only on team Me, Myself and I. I look out for my self interest. When I was asked why aren’t you for women trying to manipulate me against my self interest I said “what do I get out of it? How much are you paying me and what exactly are you offering?”
I never got the entitlement from rude western ladies who were mean to me for being male identified and autistic why should I be on team women without them paying my bills.
Truth be told the worst misogyny I have seen is in the West. So why the misogyny? Due to the misandry of little boys since childhood and cultural confusion. When you don’t have clear gender roles you will have confusion, hate and resentment. This FreeDUMB and sexual liberation isn’t worth it. It just made the old misogyny worse.
A little bit of empathy and you can understand the other gender and only then can you for a profound bond by accepting people as they are and not what you wish they are or what they pretend to be.
The main culprit of western misogyny is Prom. Prom must be destroyed and abolished. Why not have a debutante ball instead. Prom grooms children and leads to school shootings.
Want to reduce misogyny in the West? Bam prom and prom dates. Call it a graduation ball. Anyone bringing a prom date or aiding and abetting such a barbaric misogynistic child groom cultural practice belongs in gain for the same sentence as possessing kiddy prawnography.
SEXUALIZING CHILDREN IS WRONG
Countries that do that have misogyny.
How does that work. Western media & culture promotes dating in high school while the rest of the world discourages it and they wonder why they have high school shootings.
American high school is about child sax not learning and that is the problem. American media is not censored. If you can homeschool do so.
So American media defines masculinity as pressuring 12 years old boys to swindle 12 years old girls to have sex for free without being able to have the finances to afford a family of she gets pregnant but if Epstein or Bill Clinton who can afford to pay for children sired get her pregnant they go to jail? That is so messed up.
How come Epstein island is a crime but broke dusty teenage boys impregnating high school girls is encouraged in America. Make that make sense!
So 12 year old boys with no resources who live with mom and dad are pressured to “become
M
When you have resources being a gentleman gets you a high value wife but when you have nothing to off it’s being a simp.
When you have resources you are a gentleman but when you are polite while broke living with your parents, you are a simp.
To swindle girls out of free kitty
As they are vulnerable and confused during puberty boys are shocked to see being a gentleman and listening to their parents prevents them getting laid. Of course they have no resources to off. They see the bad rebellious kids are the ones having all the sax. The girls they like complain about the same bad boys and keep dating them while friend-zoning them. These boys feel hurt and betrayed by their parents.
Being 30 with resources is a long way from 12 or 13 years old.
So the teachers say boys should be put on medication for being rambunctious and invalidate the kids, telling boys masculine behaviour is toxic. Yet when they listen to the teacher and simp, they are mocked by girls.
If Bill Gates starts tricking (gifting) with Hermès bags it’s hot. If a pimpled school kid is simping as in does your homework in homes of looking at your bra it’s gross. If Tom Cruise appears with roses that is hot. A pimped weak 12 years old boy
It’s not that the parents were lying by not telling their son to act like a sociopath and jerk .. just the advice is untimely and age 30 when most acquire resources sounds like forever.
So these thirteen years olds boys feel traumatized by betrayed by their parents and teachers. The students at the top of the school social dominance hierarchies in America are making out, doing intense kissing in public to advertise they get laid in private. Those who don’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend are lower in the school hierarchy. Boys without a girlfriend are treated like garbage. It still is for the better because boys with a girlfriend usually get her pregnant.
Most future providers are smart so are late bloomers. Thus were traumatized and bullied in high school for not being able to swindle girls giving free kitty cat and having no nudes to show their friends after school.
So the boys learn of the “red pill” which is basically how society and people of the opposite gender say you should act isn’t how you should really act. Red pill is you will get hurt listening to people’s words, watch their actions. I found the concept useful to understand western society and luxury beliefs where plutocrat elites say one thing and live the other. With the whole FreeDUMBDUMB culture, “anything goes but not anything works”. As a result you see a lot of hypocrisy in the name of worshipping the FreeDUMB god. In the West people say how they wish things were but usually live the opposite because their ideals are impractical, unsustainable and contrary to nature.
It’s the bad boys who get free kitty cat from Pickmeishas. And that is the only way to get laid with no resources and being too young for any commitment.
So when boys rebel against the school system and their parents they switch on the leadership sexual attractor. So they get hooked on this Andrew Tate who changes their fortune from being bullied at the bottom of the middle school status hierarchy to the king of the middle school by swindling pick mes out of giving free sax. This ruins their ability to pair bond when they have the resources to start a family.
Then dating is confusing because of K & R strategy. When boys are young they look for an easy fast girl to pump and dump. When they become financially established they want a wife who is hard to get and loyal. At 20 they are an f boy and at 30 they are crying where have the feminine virgins gone! When they look to marry a low body count makes it more likely to establish paternity.
The nature is boys are pump & dump dusty r strategy, acquire resources and then become monogamous and legacy oriented. Females start with legacy but with a high body count perminantly switch to R strategy.
Now this is biology and science. The same science that says people are born gay.
If males voice these biological facts backed by science in their own words western ladies will call them vile misogynists but will not date those simps who agree with them in hopes of getting laid.
A simp is a wimp being nice in hopes of getting laid and his bills paid. Avoid drama and don’t be his sugar mama.
You see the problem with America sexualizing children then banning providers like Epstein and Bill Clinton dating them? I don’t believe normalizing teenagers dating older helps anyone.. just desexualize and have high school end at 16 because it’s not like they learn much there. In Russia not only did high school end at 16 but they were taught calculus more advanced than the US. Trapping young adults into children because of education does more harm than the good the education teaches.
It’s important to stop pushing sex on people who don’t have resources to raise kids and throw anyone who does this in jail for years especially pop singers and record producers. And give anyone who protests that a life sentence.
You have to pick between Dumbocracy or protecting your kids. If you chose Dumbocracy don’t be complaining that you have nasty red pill misogynists.
I got feedback from gentlemen that my writing on hypergamy made them feel a lot better about their most traumatic years in high school and middle school- that there was nothing wrong with them because they didn’t have money as a kid. They were just meant to make it big later in life and be a great provider while the popular kids have not gone far in life. This whole thing of swindling a girl out of sex and getting free consistent sex by pretending to like her and calling her your “girlfriend” is not something a lot of gentlemen enjoy as ideal of masculinity.
The pressure on pimpled 13 year old boys to be sexual when they are just learning to be social traumatizes them. Also parents are to blame allowing boyfriends and girlfriends and saying they are cute little adults. Kids can hang around in groups with adult supervision and pairing up before financial support should be strongly discouraged.
This hypogamous love culture is deeply traumatizing to young boys and produces mass shootings and misogynists out of late bloomers. As an autist late bloomer I can completely empathize with their pain because kids are mean. If you are not popular in high school kids can be so cruel.
If you are intelligent your brain develops then your social skills. So this leads to being abused in the unnatural institution of Prussian style schools that haven’t evolved from the age of Bismarck. For introverts and intelligent children schooling is a trauma.
So on top of this trauma add feminist teachers & parents who call boys toxic and bad for doing what the culture tells them to do: get laid without money.
The moment ladies all close legs to those who engage in intimate relationships with those who can’t raise children and yes SHAME pickmeishas who do so - then you will get rid of the misogyny. That puts the ball in our court. Tell young ladies to not date boys because they just want to get laid until they get established and have the resources to carry a family. Then they love you for real and not pretending to for consistent ball emptying.
The unestablished financially is a boy even at 70. You need to be financially established and carry a family.
Girls dating for feelings leads to a culture of misogyny because what except toxicity would attract an unhealed teenager? Most people were not raised in perfect families and have healing and inner work to do so they stop sexually validating toxicity and friend zoning or sexually invalidating healthy behaviour.
Boys in a culture that defines masculinity as getting laid instead of being a provider protector will do what it takes to get laid. So if most ladies use shaming to demand high standards and high end dates, all these high school boys will be finding weekend jobs to take girls out. If she gets pregnant he can work full time and go to high school part time. I honestly don’t support sexualizing children so avoiding artists that promote that and walking away, boycotting hypogamous music and culture helps.
If a girl wants a financially stable gentleman before she risks him impregnating her, she is not a gold digger - nor does him having beauty and body count standards make him a misogynist.
Biology is confusing. Most animals are either R strategy- live fast spread seed die young or K legacy strategy. Humans are a rare animal that does both.
When males are poor they are wired to be promiscuous, live fast, spread their seed. That doesn’t make them misogynist. It just makes you an idiot to sleep with someone broke. Calling broke dusties misogynists for being broke only makes you mad. It gives unhealed energy. Judgment makes one angry.
Accept poverty makes the brain dusty. Stop calling males misogynists for following biology or you are a gold digging shameless hussy for not wanting to raise children in poverty. Just understand poverty makes males toxic and not being financially established makes it not worth it for women to date unestablished males.
Stop calling them misogynist. Poverty is anti female so don’t date broke.
It’s better to be broke by yourself than be broke with a broke male. If he is not financially established don’t go near him or he will hurt you. It’s like covering yourself with steaks tied to you in the savanna in Africa and walking into the lion’s den. Then complaining that the lions are trying to eat you.
Broke boys be the way they be. Just stop dating broke. Stop calling then misogynists. If ladies stop entertaining broke boys they will get out of poverty and stop the hate. Stop dating before 25. Seriously.
Secondly gentlemen go from R strategy when they have no resources, spray and prey because it maximizes chance of infant survival to legacy strategy when they have the resources to have a family. Calling ladies flouseys or hohoho’s or thots when they have resources is not misogyny. In a society where we don’t shame gays it’s time we stop shaming gentlemen for existing.
The fact is studies show at very high body counts gentlemen are much less likely to establish paternity for children they provide for. Gentlemen don’t mind step children but they do mind being cheated on and cuckholded in a marriage.
With life long alimony in the West, western gentlemen are extremely picky and care about things like not having a high body count far more than the Middle East.
Western males go for chasing camel toe of thotties in yoga pants to they get financially established and overnight these ladies disgust them and they become offended by their existence. When they created the thotties by pushing young girls to sleep with them in exchange for deceiving them being in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. This is not misogyny.
Feminists are so mean to me, and they the majority of western ladies. Imagine boys raised that these female abusers are the norm, they bully them at school as fellow students and teachers and they are supposed to date these bullies and form families with them?
You know how mean feminists are to us. Imagine a world where everyone was a Kevin Sameuls or Andrew Tate level actual woman hater, your father, and in school all your teachers were Kevin Sameuls supporting males. You are expected to only date misogynists and the only break from this abuse is finding a spouse abroad or becoming rich and thus attracting a healthy masculine gentleman. Everyone says what do you bring to the table except tits, you are worthless. You are shamed & brutally verbally for not being masculine but the second you stop acting or dressing feminine you are treated like garbage. If you listen to what the verbal abusers ask of you, sure the verbal abuse stops but you are treated far worse than just being verbally abused. Imagine classrooms don’t accommodate your learning and you can’t leave to the bathroom if you have a period emergency and made to bleed all over yourself then made fun of and punished for it, for not following the school’s hygiene requirements. Imagine all the teachers teach theories where everything is the fault of femininity and the matriarchy like they do of masculinity and the patriarchy… if you date someone who can afford to raise children your professors call you a dirty capitalist pig. You are taught everything is the fault of your gender.
That nightmare I described is what it is like to be male in the west. As a male identified autist I only had some abuse under the hands of western feminists as an adult.
A little empathy goes a long way. If he doesn’t act like someone from a Jane Austen novel it doesn’t mean he hates the other gender.
The abuse adolescent boys receive in western culture.. it’s a shock they don’t all hate ladies. That is what the chaos of the sexual revolution & freedom leads to.
Traditional gender roles and hypergamy will heal the rift between the two genders. Let’s stop judging and name calling because it doesn’t stop bad behaviour but increases our blood pressure.
Let’s stop using the word misogynist all together because it only raises our boood pressure. the reality is if we are honest most assholes don’t hate women. The only misogynist I can think of for real is Kevin Sameuls who seems to have gotten bitter in inner child therapy about his mother and blamed her for everything without the dialectical behavioural therapy tools to calm down.
If we are honest we conflate a lot of jerks with misogyny because of our hurt pride and wounded hearts. Most jerks in the West understand Pickmeishas will put out for free if they have bad boy sex appeal. If we shamed Pickmeishas from not giving free kitty and not dating for love, doing the inner work - the jerks would disappear. Shaming is an effective political power tool used by feminists so we should not be ashamed to use it. For those who say it doesn’t work - look at PETA. I am against shaming friends and family- yes it’s counter productive up close. Be compassionate with people close to you but shame your enemies and political opponents before they shame you.
Shaming hypogamous feminists is very easy. Just exist. They will attack you and ask them what is in it for her to be a sugar mama for a financially challenged dusty loser. Ask them what are they getting out of dating brokeys then ask is it really love if you low key resent him? Would you not be happier on your own or dating up? But for dating up you have to cater … choices, choices.
Honestly most that we call misogynists are just confused lads who are trying to make sense of the sexual revolution and are trying to cater to what ladies respond to.
So we have more power than we think. The male gender is driven by the standards we set. Stop judging them. Make high standards for yourself and the gentlemen you entertain. Learn how to act low body count. Fake it until you make it. Dress classy, and make yourself a prize. Don’t hang out with gentlemen who treat you anything less than a queen. Say you are a traditional lady and act like one but kick anyone beneath your high standards to the curb.
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Broke gentlemen are genetically wired to cheat, have harems and be a baby mama factory. I don’t care how handsome he is, if he is not financially established to carry a family, stay away.
When gentlemen stop struggling that is when most geniunely want love for real.
When they are struggling they just want to bang. Do I call my computer wiring bad or misogynist? My tv cable? Is my phone misogynist if the battery needs to be renewed because it dies fast? No. It’s not helpful. Struggling gentlemen are genetically wired to pump and dump & be a bad boy, r strategy. Am I going to call it misogyny? No. I just tell my friends to avoid dating unestablished gentlemen. Don’t date broke. And those broke gentlemen who rise above their biology and don’t do dusty behaviour? My respect to them and finding such a person is winning the lottery.
Let’s stop calling everything misogyny. Let’s understand why western gentlemen are not pro women and finding a decent match will not be easy because a lack of traditional gender roles.
Just because the West is a confusing West doesn’t mean everyone is bad.
Jealous Johns and Bitter Bobs are what you watch out for. Most jerks are not misogynists aka woman haters- they simply in high school saw that bad boys who swindled girls out of a free kitty
Most gentlemen aim to please. Male dominance is an act. It’s not real. They are the submissive gender who will do whatever we ladies require them to do with our actions and gain access to us. We hold the power.
We ladies have to be the prize for gentlemen to be champions. They will do the craziest things to gain our favour in spite all the abuse our gender puts them through.
Be the most attractive and seductive you can be from looks, emotionally with inner work, intellectually etc - be Hermès luxury and charge Hermes prices. Don’t give yourself out for love like cheap trash.
If you stop dating for love, start dating to build a family, look amazing and have high standards.. you start a revolution. Gentlemen will see you don’t respond to bad boy behaviour so they will adjust their courtship ritual to win that prize. Then ladies will see you are happy and start copying you. This way slowly but surely through our hypergamous behaviour we start a quiet revolution of replacing jerks with gentlemen.
See the word misogynist is disempowering implying that gentlemen- the gender who stops wars if we go on sex strike- have the power. Instead we ladies have the power in our actions to be the most desirable, set high standards and ignore those who don’t meet them.
