tehgymcel420
Fesikhcel From Zabbaleen
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Hello, this story that you're about to read is one out of many reasons why I've left Islam and totally denounce it.
At the time this has happened I was about 15/16 years old and my turkish girlfriend was 14 at that time. We were and still are very good friends but something horrible happened that caused our relationship to weaken. We both are (well, I was) Muslim at that time when she met a german guy that she liked on some online gaming site. Keep in mind we live in secular germany, not in some Islamic country(!) At first she was just friends with him but 3 months later the guy told her that he loved her and wanted to be in a relationship with her. It took awhile till my Muslim friend said "yes" to a relationship because she always kept in mind that he had to convert if they wanted to eventually engage or even marry.
Me, being a good friend as always, promised her to keep this a secret and never told my parents NOR anybody else that may know about this. Many months have passed and she was always on the phone with that guy, and I must say, he was quite a gentleman. One day he even visited her despite living 6 hours away from us, they met at some random place and took selfies there and talked till he took his train back home again.
Time went by and she even told me she wanted to marry him in the future. I just thought that was silly because she was 15 at that time and had no clue how hard it would be to get him to convert. Despite the german guy willing to convert to Islam for her, her mother did not want to marry off her daughter to some german guy. I felt bad for her and supported her as much as I could, and tables have turned: all her family have found out about the relationship she had with that guy and THIS is where the story starts:
Her brother took her phone and brutally beated her and even pulled her by her hair. Ironically her brother was always seen with women but his sister having a boyfriend is a big NO NO! Her mother encouraged her sons to beat their sister for being a "whore" and having a boyfriend. At that same day she knocked on my door. I was shocked to see her in the situation she was in! Her hair looked messy and resembled the one of a homeless person, her mascara was all over her face and her eyes were red from crying. I told her "oh no, they found out, didn't they?" And she cried and said yes. I was the only friend she could seek refugee in.
We talked in my room and I tried to calm her down. I honestly felt so sad for her and she told me how bad her family treated her, SUDDENLY - I heard loud angry knocks on my door. Who was it? Her crazy mother! She screamed at the top of her lungs and blamed me for "whoring" her daughter to a german man. All I was doing was being a good friend and keep in my, she never lost her virginity to anybody. I was honestly surprised that my neighbors havent called the police because she was screaming like a maniac! My mother tried to calm her down by saying "Allah forgives your daughter. Don't worry, she will break up with this guy and will marry somebody who is good for her..." blablabla. We stood there for 1 HOUR and tried to calm her crazy mother down...
What has happened to my friend now, you may ask? She has a kurdish boyfriend now and she told me she'll never go for a german one because hell bent down on that day they found out about her relationship.