motivation doesnt exist, your quality of life does tho

[inceloser]

the only times i was every motivated was when things were going okay for me. i had okay grades i guess, i still had 0 friends, no one texted me, but my parents finally werent on my ass for my grades and they even bought me a laptop for how good i did. (i paid for half of it but whatever i guess)
and ive been begging them for a laptop all my life
so yeah, i had hope that things would be alright. then after coping for so long, i realized im a joke. no amount of effort will ever fix my life. im a truecel, ill never be happy. i need to stop coping and telling myself that one day things will get better because they never will.

 

[Socio Cynical]

Motivation is only valid when you have something to look forward to. A lot of men worked absolutely backbreaking jobs solely because they had a kid to provide for and go home to.

 

[gummybearcel]

There is just nothing to work towards as an incel, so it follows that most of us are demotivated.
Love? Affection? Family? Forging connections? What are those?
The only option left is to become a wageslave, but what point is there in a career if you have nothing to work for?
NEET or rope is the only real salvation for a truecel.

 

[inceloser]

Motivation is only valid when you have something to look forward to. A lot of men worked absolutely backbreaking jobs solely because they had a kid to provide for and go home to.

yup. thats why people have kids, to give them a reason to do something