Venting Mother told me that women focus very much on a man's "career"... and says the amount of time I work will influence my chances .....

[TheGrayWolf]

• her and I both know, I have no chance. But that's not my point. In front of her, I pretend like I think I can get a gf — reason being, she desperately wants to talk me out of it (because she knows I can't get one anyway).
in the past she always mentioned how relationships are overrated and how you can be happy without one. she means well I guess, because as I said: she doesn't think I can get one anyway.

• she doesn't admit it but she wants me to work full-time in the future (but she doesn't want any money from me), and I strongly suspect she thinks I'll be too busy with my job to think about wanting, or desiring a gf.

• she says how I have no ambition, no drive (100% implied: career-wise).

• my dad is even worse when it comes to telling me to do "coping". this is just the most recent example.

 

[Hail]

no ambition, no drive (100% implied: career-wise).

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

Just slave away for a blown out roastie

 

[Fevet]

Just be a betabuxxer theory

 

[Apex.Koala]

she always mentioned how relationships are overrated and how you can be happy without one

Tough coming from the gender that can get into a relationship effortlessly

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Just slave away for a blown out roastie

yeahhh ... or none at all... work = life.

idk if it's dumb but my standards are high bc I can't get a gf anyway. I always thought/imagined a "gf" to be attractive both outside and inside. if I can't have any girl anyway (impossible with my looks, height and autism) I'll just keep on dreaming

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Tough coming from the gender that can get into a relationship effortlessly

she doesn't really believe it but tells me this because she knows I can't get a gf (my face, I'm 27 KHHV, no IRL friends, social anxiety, and my autism)

 

[you are no men]

Once you achieve something in your carerr.

You will be atleast 30 years old. You dont desire women that much at that age.

It would be cheaper and faster to go to prostitutes.... but police and STD is a threat.

IDK man. Fulltimejob wastes life alot.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Just be a betabuxxer theory

 

[PersonalityChad]

Your mom is an out of touch bluepiller.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Once you achieve something in your carerr.

You will be atleast 30 years old. You dont desire women that much at that age.

Not so sure

It would be cheaper and faster to go to prostitutes.... but police and STD is a threat.

where I'm from, prostitutes are legal. But that's not what I want.

IDK man. Fulltimejob wastes life alot.

I agree. That's what I'm saying.

 

[Kamanbert]

I see them tip toe around this so much.

On one hand they will often proudly affirm how le modern wahmen is succesful in life so they deserve the best and you're the scum of soyciety for not earning x amount of money/not having status.

On the other hand i see an increasing number of them backpedalling and saying how their financial/status standards are not a thing and that women are le good willing to give the pizza guy a chance, almost as if we were all collectively hallucinating.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Your mom is an out of touch bluepiller.

true, but at the same time she has always known it's over for me.

 

[SociallyStupid]

The only reason women want that men have a career is because it means they have a lot of money and can leech off of them. They don't, however, care if it's a legit career or a drug dealer career.

 

[curryboy420]

Your 27 like me, so I'll tell you now, it's over for us. Consider that all the girls you ever knew probably been fucked first at 14 then every year at least once. That means you get to compete with 13 past boyfriends in her head every day. And on top of that I am still poor. So I still cannot even compete or go outside to talk to women when I have no car or money for coffee or petrol or anything. These faggot guys got tons of money and opportunities from their dads. It's all about your family. Their families set them up to win, ours for failure. We are born to be slaves for the Jews. We never were meant for the 'chad' life of girlfriends and stuff. At best, arranged marriage at 35.

 

[Apex.Koala]

she doesn't really believe it but tells me this because she knows I can't get a gf (my face, I'm 27 KHHV, no IRL friends, social anxiety, and my autism)

I think I just know how it feels like because mine does the same thing, "you'll see, everything in your life will be ok, you will have a great girlfriend, a family, you will have a nice job, you will finally be happy" she has kept telling me years over years these same kinds of sentences and when I matured up and knew more about women, I realized that she had been gaslighting me and trying to comfort me in denial so I don't listen to her anymore when she's like this.

 

[SmhChan]

true, but at the same time she has always known it's over for me.

You have said the same thing countless times on this forum. Don't bother your parents with your self-pity. Just go and make the best out of your situation. Like what else do you want your mum to say? Any normie would say the same thing to avoid spelling out the uncomfortable truth.

 

[MassEffectKoala]

my parents hate me but i still rot at home no job

 

[Gott _mit _uns94]

Advice akin to take more sh0wers or h0ld frame bruhhh.

Chads can be literal homeless, drug addicted bums and w0men will still be with them.

 

[MassEffectKoala]

Advice akin to take more sh0wers or h0ld frame bruhhh.

Chads can be literal homeless, drug addicted bums and w0men will still be with them.

it is not fair i am nice guy but female dont care

 

[TheGrayWolf]

You have said the same thing countless times on this forum. Don't bother your parents with your self-pity. Just go and make the best out of your situation.

I know all this, and I wrote it.

Like what else do you want your mum to say? Any normie would say the same thing to avoid spelling out the uncomfortable truth.

Just say nothing, but don't actually try to talk me out of it. I am reacting with defiance. I know it's over for me but I won't admit that in words or actions towards my parents. I won't let my intelligence be insulted or my thinking be manipulated.

I'll remain defiant until the end.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

it is not fair i am nice guy but female dont care

Where you from?

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I think I just know how it feels like because mine does the same thing, "you'll see, everything in your life will be ok, you will have a great girlfriend, a family, you will have a nice job, you will finally be happy" she has kept telling me years over years these same kinds of sentences and when I matured up and knew more about women, I realized that she had been gaslighting me and trying to comfort me in denial so I don't listen to her anymore when she's like this.

Yeah, she's gaslighting you but basically giving the opposite message of my mother. My mother has always implied, and once directly stated, that I'll never have a gf. Both are gaslighting, and both are brutal.

 

[Ahnfeltia]

how is one supposed to have ambition for wageslaving most of your waking hours away only to betabuxx a foid that doesn't even really love you

 

[MassEffectKoala]

Where you from?

United states!

 

[TheGrayWolf]

how is one supposed to have ambition for wageslaving most of your waking hours away only to betabuxx a foid that doesn't even really love you

exactly!

also, my mother doesn't admit it but, she expects me to work full time (40-42 hrs/week), and just be happy without a gf. so basically, that my job is my life, and that I should just accept the other thing. I'll not have a life, bc outside of work I'll have to buy groceries, clean, etc etc. she told me if I don't work she'll want the money back she gifted me unto my savings-account.

btw, I'm 27.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

United states!

I'm German, also 27, and I understand you. women either had zero interest in me or were disgusted by me. and still are but I'm very rarely outside, and even more rarely where there are lots of people.

 

[Aegon Targaryen]

Just slave away for a blown out roastie

Just betabuxx for a woman that has had 900 cocks through her, will cheat on you, and divorce rape you. Sounds like a smart plan.

BTW this thread proves the "Mothers rather help their fellow foids, than their own sons" thing I spoke about a week ago. Never trust your mother theory has been proven.

 

[Apex.Koala]

Both are gaslighting, and both are brutal.

 

[Ahnfeltia]

also, my mother doesn't admit it but, she expects me to work full time (40-42 hrs/week), and just be happy without a gf. so basically, that my job is my life, and that I should just accept the other thing. I'll not have a life, bc outside of work I'll have to buy groceries, clean, etc etc.

My greatest nightmare too. Unfortunately money doesn't grow on trees and you kinda need it.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

We were gaslit.

However, unless you're lucky and get NEETbux, you need money to survive. As a lonely male, you don't need much. Try to find a better alternative working part-time, or some way of obtaining it. If Mom still demands you wageslave your life away to inherit her savings, then at least you tried doing what's best for yourself.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Just betabuxx for a woman that has had 900 cocks through her, will cheat on you, and divorce rape you. Sounds like a smart plan.

yup. good point. although my mother has always made it more or less clear that she doesn't think I can get a gf, has tried to talk me out of it for years. right, as if that would work. it's not about "logic", I can't help wanting a gf. I know I can't have one but I'll never admit to her that I know. I'm a defiant rebel I guess.

 

[Aegon Targaryen]

yup. good point. although my mother has always made it more or less clear that she doesn't think I can get a gf, has tried to talk me out of it for years. right, as if that would work. it's not about "logic", I can't help wanting a gf. I know I can't have one but I'll never admit to her that I know. I'm a defiant rebel I guess.

The desire from your mother for you to get a gf isn't based on love or appreciation for you, it's based on the fact that the hivemind needs a backup cuck for one of her whore buddies. Brutal reality but it's just female nature. They're a team of whores.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

We were gaslit.

However, unless you're lucky and get NEETbux, you need money to survive. As a lonely male, you don't need much. Try to find a better alternative working part-time, or some way of obtaining it. If Mom still demands you wageslave your life away to inherit her savings, then at least you tried doing what's best for yourself.

Good points. You're right, I'd want to work part-time (to cope and I'll have to do all the necessary stuff like groceries by myself), but she got mad when I said this and yeah, she would want the (her?) money back that's on my savings account atm, and probably inherit less.

 

[visioncel]

I see them tip toe around this so much.

On one hand they will often proudly affirm how le modern wahmen is succesful in life so they deserve the best and you're the scum of soyciety for not earning x amount of money/not having status.

On the other hand i see an increasing number of them backpedalling and saying how their financial/status standards are not a thing and that women are le good willing to give the pizza guy a chance, almost as if we were all collectively hallucinating.

Fucking real they will never settle on anything makes it hard it talk to bluepilled parents

 

[MassEffectKoala]

I'm German, also 27, and I understand you. women either had zero interest in me or were disgusted by me. and still are but I'm very rarely outside, and even more rarely where there are lots of people.

we are very similar heh you are same height as me and age and white. it is sad that females never care about people like us.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

The desire from your mother for you to get a gf isn't based on love or appreciation for you, it's based on the fact that the hivemind needs a backup cuck for one of her whore buddies. Brutal reality but it's just female nature. They're a team of whores.

I meant she literally knows I can't get a gf, and tries to mention the disadvantages of having a gf. She also thinks and hopes I'll be happy without a gf, and thinks that is possible. She has always said this, most of the time indirectly.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

we are very similar heh you are same height as me and age and white. it is sad that females never care about people like us.

indeed, bro, indeed.

 

[Kamanbert]

Fucking real they will never settle on anything makes it hard it talk to bluepilled parents

Many wouldn't even settle for broke Chad despite the BP community treating him like a god, they would still fuck him though of course but once they reach their 30's they go for the money

 

[TheGrayWolf]

My greatest nightmare too. Unfortunately money doesn't grow on trees and you kinda need it.

Exactly but I could survive working something like 70% instead of full-time. However when I mentioned this, and gave the reason that if I don't have a gf, I don't want to just "live to work", she got mad and said how I have no ambition and that she'll demand "her" money back.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Many wouldn't even settle for broke Chad despite the BP community treating him like a god, they would still fuck him though of course but once they reach their 30's they go for the money

All true but I'm not even sure if I'd "want" that kind of gf (not that I can have a gf at all). Well sure I want a gf but the thought that she only wants me bc of my "career" (I'll never have a career, or make a lot of money, just to be clear) is kinda disturbing. But still. Know what I mean?

 

[visioncel]

Many wouldn't even settle for broke Chad despite the BP community treating him like a god, they would still fuck him though of course but once they reach their 30's they go for the money

Realest shit ever spoke dude

 

[TheGrayWolf]

We were gaslit.

However, unless you're lucky and get NEETbux, you need money to survive. As a lonely male, you don't need much. Try to find a better alternative working part-time, or some way of obtaining it. If Mom still demands you wageslave your life away to inherit her savings, then at least you tried doing what's best for yourself.

I played €25 Euros in the lottery today (online). Enough that I could have an ultra-luxury lifestyle for 100 years. I won't win but it's exciting every now and again, and my hopes of winning are much higher than getting a gf.

 

[Kamanbert]

All true but I'm not even sure if I'd "want" that kind of gf (not that I can have a gf at all). Well sure I want a gf but the thought that she only wants me bc of my "career" (I'll never have a career, or make a lot of money, just to be clear) is kinda disturbing. But still. Know what I mean?

Yep but many men accept it anyway that's crazy to me but normal nowadays. I mean people often meet their "SO" past their 20's or reaching the end of it, that's not innocuous at all especially on the women's part given how easily they have access to sex when young. It's no love at all

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Yep but many men accept it anyway that's crazy to me but normal nowadays. I mean people often meet their "SO" past their 20's or reaching the end of it, that's not innocuous at all especially on the women's part given how easily they have access to sex when young. It's no love at all

 

[BricABrac]

Full time is only 40 hours. No one is too busy with just 40 hours.
Ambition just fucking laugh. What a joke. I see so many managers and high paid retards at my workplace "fail upwards" because no one wants to get rid of them, not because they add value to the business.

The universe was a mistake.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Full time is only 40 hours. No one is too busy with just 40 hours.
Ambition just fucking laugh. What a joke. I see so many managers and high paid retards at my workplace "fail upwards" because no one wants to get rid of them, not because they add value to the business.

The universe was a mistake.

Agree. But could you clarify "No one is too busy with just 40 hours." – too busy for what? To do other stuff?
I was just trying to say this isn't really a life for me. 40 hours of work. +a few hours of commuting per week. +necessary groceries, cooking etc. And all by myself. AND do any potential hobbies by myself? idk, I'd prefer to have a gf if I work 40 hours.

 

[SupremeAllah]

Yeah you'll get married and occasionally get some mediocre non-passionate sex with a woman who isn't attracted to you. You're better off just paying for a hooker, at least then she'll have to put effort into the sex and it's guaranteed sex.

Betabuxxing is the worst of both worlds.

 

[CEO of Simps]

the point is why should we do all this shit, when they can enter relationships with chads doing nothing

 

[MassEffectKoala]

indeed, bro, indeed.

I think i am roping at 30 if no females