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Blackpill Most people don't make good friends after high school

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I was feeling particularly masochistic today and looked up some old "classmates". Now obviously they ranged from treated me like invisible to treating me like utter trash, I hated every single one of them so of course I am not their friend. But they're all now either late stage college or done with it now, and all these years later they're still mostly together with the exact same friend group they had since the first day of high school. I think this is a crucial moment in development, as most things that age are and if you missed the boat you're largely fucked to be honest. I thought at least some of them would branch off but no, from multiple high schools I've been at they're all still together with exact friend group. Nothing changes essentially, if you're fucked you're fucked and it only gets worse but if you're truly living a great life it only gets better for most cases.

I watched 2018 and first Halloween and Jason today so I coped with seeing normies get torn apart but thats just a hollow cope really. In reality the biggest cunts on the planet go on to live even better lives
 
Somehow could overcome it and made friends after school and college. But it became too hard after 30
 
i stick to small groups,big groups are useless and end up breaking fast
 
Yeah, the hardest thing I learnt after having left school 4 years ago is that the loneliness just gets worse and worse, it's so bloody difficult to make any sort of friends outside of school, no one wants to be friends with an ugly loser anyway but being an older ugly loser and trying to make friends is just impossible.
 
Yeah, the hardest thing I learnt after having left school 4 years ago is that the loneliness just gets worse and worse, it's so bloody difficult to make any sort of friends outside of school, no one wants to be friends with an ugly loser anyway but being an older ugly loser and trying to make friends is just impossible.

Yep that me .. im 28 , no freinds , no nothing .. just a dog ...just ......my fucking dog ...

Sometimes i go with my sister and her freinds to some events.. but .. nothing realy happen .. its not my freinds its hers.. and also i feel pathetic to go with her sometimes ..although i frame mog her friends ..but they height mog me .. and girlfreind mog me .. and social skills mog me ... so .. its ..not working very well
 
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What I realized is that I will never make real friends.I have too many mental problems and avoid any closer relationships,I've never been able to call someone my "best friend",everyone was like an acquaintance.Such is NTpill,it is my destiny to be lonely.
 
You can make "friends" in the job but they are not actually friends, you see them just in the job and you get on well with them or even can laught or make jokes, but at the end of the working day everyonesgoes to their homes and nobody talks eachother by whatsup or hang out together out of the job.
The only place you can make place is in high school or college, once you get a job or live by your own its over
 
Even worse if you had little to no friends in high school and your social skills stopped developing prior to it.

And only deteriorated more and more as time went on because of the isolation, leading you to develop aspieniess or autism.
 
i haven't had a friend since middle school
 
Even worse if you had little to no friends in high school and your social skills stopped developing prior to it.

And only deteriorated more and more as time went on because of the isolation, leading you to develop aspieniess or autism.

I can relate to that .. im basiclly a robot ..im trying sometimes to show emotions ..but still damage done
 
You can make "friends" in the job but they are not actually friends

But most likely even that is not possible. How do you want to make ''friends'' if you have to work hard in a low-level job?
 
most people drift apart from their friends but it doesn't matter for them?

because they can either slay or they found their gf and future wife in highschool or early in college.

we're both completely alone and pulling on our dicks.
 
didnt had friends in high school either
 
But most likely even that is not possible. How do you want to make ''friends'' if you have to work hard in a low-level job?
you can make friends but if the situation is shitty they will literally leave both the job and the city. now i have no one to encourage me to lift.
 
Gonna be honest this time no, I read it now though
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This phenomena is not limited to incels. It's a millennial thing, why do you think so many normies identify with Joker?
 
It is pretty hard to come back from such situation. We have no foundation whatsoever.
by the way, our postcounts are now squaring up for the most epic battle of all time
 
by the way, our postcounts are now squaring up for the most epic battle of all time

I have been here almost a year. It is truly over. Now we are doomed to enhance our messages.
 
Having friends as incel is overrated. Every time I hang out with them I either just stand without saying anything or make a fool out of myself. I always feel worse after meeting with them than before. Maybe it's different if your friends are incels too but mine are all high tier normies or chads. Pure suifuel seeing them getting attention from foids when you are ignored.
Also my friends make fun of me all the time. Just yesterday when I met with them they joked I dressed up on Halloween as a virgin. And I took it like a pussy I am and even laughed with them.
 
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Yep that me .. im 28 , no freinds , no nothing .. just a dog ...just ......my fucking dog ...

Sometimes i go with my sister and her freinds to some events.. but .. nothing realy happen .. its not my freinds its hers.. and also i feel pathetic to go with her sometimes ..although i frame mog her friends ..but they height mog me .. and girlfreind mog me .. and social skills mog me ... so .. its ..not working very well

Damn, I'm not sure I could even make it to 28 living like this. I hope you at least have a good relationship with your dog. Hang in there bro.
 
I didn't have friends at high school, I ate lunch on my own, can you imagine how humiliating that was? I remember a 13 year old curry girl laughed at me, a curry girl in my own country of Ireland laughing at me, I should have flushed her curry head down the toilet. I actually ate curry everyday at school.
 
I couldn’t make friends at community college
 
Lasting mutually beneficial friendships outside of religious practices is hard and rare.
 
most of them were with foids who ended up cheating on them filthy cunts.
 
Actually in my uni people made friends from day 1. That is because it's a sought-after school in a small country, so there are few people coming from many different places here, so few people knew each other. Then again, their ability to make personal connections with ease is just weird to me.
 
I had friends but I've ultimately decided to ghost them, as they were too versed with thug-like/nigger behaviour. I'm black myself, but the lifestyle that they lived just wasn't me at all in nature.
 
most people drift apart from their friends but it doesn't matter for them?

because they can either slay or they found their gf and future wife in highschool or early in college.

we're both completely alone and pulling on our dicks.
 
I had friends but I've ultimately decided to ghost them, as they were too versed with thug-like/nigger behaviour. I'm black myself, but the lifestyle that they lived just wasn't me at all in nature.
But being thug is fun.
 

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