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Most of us wouldn't survive the Chad lifestyle

Hibrihteselle

Hibrihteselle

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Being a chad, you need to constantly engage with normies and maintain an active lifestyle focused on gaining validation from them, both online and in real life.
This involves, for example, constantly posting updates about your "interesting" lifestyle across all of your social media. In contrast, incels live - or forced to live - a more secluded and solitary lifestyle, free from the pressure of constant social engagement.

Being a chad come with the burden of being obliged to excel in everything: careless/cool driving, swimming, pool ball, gambling, casino games, drinking, dancing, flirting, and even conforming to normie musical tastes. This lifestyle leaves little room for personal freedom, as societal expectations dictate your actions. On the other hand, as a shunned incel, there are no expectations for you to be good at anything. This lack of social pressure grants you more freedom to choose your hobbies and live life on your terms.

“A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.”
 
If you were born as chad you would be used to it
 
He doesn't has to do anything, he does what he wants. And everything comes easily for chads, how much effort has Jeremy Meeks invest in his success, basically 0, all he needs to do is to show up.
 
“A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.”
Uggo cope
 
If we were Chad, the lifestyle would come easy since Chads are handed an easy life because of the halo effect
 
i wish i was chad so i could fuck teen noodle whores
 
He doesn't has to do anything, he does what he wants. And everything comes easily for chads, how much effort has Jeremy Meeks invest in his success, basically 0, all he needs to do is to show up.
 
He doesn't has to do anything, he does what he wants. And everything comes easily for chads, how much effort has Jeremy Meeks invest in his success, basically 0, all he needs to do is to show up.
This
 
Chads are able to do what they want though.
 
Cope harder + Dnr faggot
 
He doesn't has to do anything, he does what he wants. And everything comes easily for chads, how much effort has Jeremy Meeks invest in his success, basically 0, all he needs to do is to show up.
True, but being the center of attention in the media and among countless people demands too much mental resilience. I simply can't handle that with my current state of mind. I prefer living a bystander lifestyle.
 
I wouldn't give a crap what normies thought about me if I was chad and could still get puss
 
True, but being the center of attention in the media and among countless people demands too much mental resilience. I simply can't handle that with my current state of mind. I prefer living a bystander lifestyle.
if ur a real chad then you'll be NT and have a strong mind. u don't need to seek out fame, you'll still get women. sure some fame will come to u by default but with ur strong secure mind you wont get any anxiety.
 
they're born into it
 
if ur a real chad then you'll be NT and have a strong mind. u don't need to seek out fame, you'll still get women. sure some fame will come to u by default but with ur strong secure mind you wont get any anxiety.
They are born with that mindset or developed it because they didn't have to face the rejection and mockery I endured. If I were to swap bodies with Meeks at this very moment, I wouldn't be able to handle it. Having so many people monitoring every move and taking pictures without permission would make me collapse under the pressure almost instantly.
 
They are born with that mindset or developed it because they didn't have to face the rejection and mockery I endured. If I were to swap bodies with Meeks at this very moment, I wouldn't be able to handle it. Having so many people monitoring every move and taking pictures without permission would make me collapse under the pressure almost instantly.
i get what u mean but why meeks? why a celebrity? what if u just swapped with a common chad, quit their job, got an incel friendly one, and was able to use tinder like an uber eats app? most chads are a little popular in their given area but by no means are celebrities.
 
i get what u mean but why meeks? why a celebrity? what if u just swapped with a common chad, quit their job, got an incel friendly one, and was able to use tinder like an uber eats app? most chads are a little popular in their given area but by no means are celebrities.
That's my point: being a chad inevitably makes you popular and limits your freedom as a consequence. You can truly be yourself only when living a life of solitude.
I may be overdosing copium as others have mentioned, or perhaps they want be popular, but I wouldn't enjoy being popular myself.
 
That's my point: being a chad inevitably makes you popular and limits your freedom as a consequence. You can truly be yourself only when living a life of solitude.
I may be overdosing copium as others have mentioned, but I wouldn't enjoy being popular, or perhaps they want be popular, I don't.
I wouldn't either but u can still mostly live a life of solitude. u could be the asshole chad who turns down everyone's offer to hang out. u can be the stingy chad who refuses large scale dates with a girl (like amusement parks and such) and still have a plethora of pussy awaiting u.
 
That's my point: being a chad inevitably makes you popular and limits your freedom as a consequence. You can truly be yourself only when living a life of solitude.
I may be overdosing copium as others have mentioned, or perhaps they want be popular, but I wouldn't enjoy being popular myself.
ive thought about this too but at the end of the day its a copium take
ive thought of just about everything and ive concluded that there is just no downside to being a chad
 
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Being a chad come with the burden of being obliged to excel in everything
no lol

chad is already chad, he isn't 'obliged' to excel in things. normies are, because they need crutches to make up for not being chad
 
I wouldn't either but u can still mostly live a life of solitude. u could be the asshole chad who turns down everyone's offer to hang out. u can be the stingy chad who refuses large scale dates with a girl (like amusement parks and such) and still have a plethora of pussy awaiting u.
And even then, Chad will still come across as cool and intriguing, causing the women he rejected to pursue him even more or unironically label themselves as femcels. What a cosmic circus we live in.
 
'oi vey goyim think of the poor chads'

average GrAY thread
 
Chad worship so hard you have to be a foid
 
it's not my job to show anything, the seers see and the blind ask.
If you make an accusation, you must provide evidence to support it. Hiding behind a facade of intellectualism is merely a way to avoid such responsibility.
 
If you make an accusation, you must provide evidence to support it. Hiding behind a facade of intellectualism is merely a way to avoid such responsibility.
Except nothing is intellectual here, I'm just not interested in showing it if you can't see it, plus users above have pointed it out already.
 
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Yapper
 
that reads like shit. chads life is very tough walking into random places and foids drooling and teeheeing for him
 

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