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most normie relationships are transactional/0 empathy

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after my failed NTmaxxing for around 7-8 months with normies/NT girls, ive realized how little most of them take eachother seriously and have empathy for those who struggle

i remember one time a group i had slightly befriended talked shit about another normie the second he had left the car, that was the first time i ever saw anything like that as i had a good small group of incel friends who valued eachothers companies dearly.

in general most people only have surface level interactions about the same general stuff everyone does. when normies go out they talk about drinking, girls they fucked, whatever normie shit is currently going on in the media and to fit in with them you need to constantly adopt a persona that emulates that. you need to pretend to like shit you really dont give a fuck about, and even then if you cant offer the social circle anything they willl quickly dispel you.

unless you are extremely attractive or have some kind of unmatched social status 99% of normie relationships were transactional. in the beginning, i used to get excited whenever a girl from my NTmaxxing texted me, but without fail it was always in relation to helping her out with something before just enjoying eachothers company. it was always about if i could give them a ride, if i could buy them alcohol, or if i had something else of value to them.

not to mention, most people forget the intricate details about you as they have too much going on in thier own lives to remember or care about. while i remember the exact sentences people utter me like it just happened 5 minutes ago, most normies cant seem to remember anything deep or personal about you and if you open up to them about your problems irl they saw something along the lines of "thats crazy bro". they cant really relate and dont give a fuck, and forget what you said the next second lol

the only way of getting sex is to find some social circle full of young people that has women in it and emulate how everyone acts in it, and understand what is the right thing to say and what isnt. unless ur a chad (which 95% of men arent) or have social status, both of which i said before, prepare for ther relationship to be transactional. the majority of girls who dont follow NT party scenes are taken, there is a great post on here called "my year of normalfagmaxxing" that explains this perfectly, so its a no go to just keep interacting with just 1 girl at a time. the small minority of girls you will approach in this context that ARENT taken will usually have no interest in you due to them knowing you are frauding who you really are. you need to organically be someone similar and not outright ugly for this to work, as well as be NT of course.

and the real fucked up part about what i said above is, is that even if you do decide to do this, you are ultimately living a lie. this is not who you are as a person because you are becoming someone that you arent and most people of average intelligence can at least detect something is off with you. an off comment, something you say that doesnt make them quite feel the right way, it can be anything but the thought that you do not belong lingers.

ultimately most of yous are too far gone to fit in with normal people. the sad thruth is that if you have found this website you are incompatible with normal people and find it difficult to relate to them in a meaningful way. thats the saddest part of it all.
 
I agree, but it's not just normies. It's you guys too to a certain degree. We're truly alone. No one cares about anyone.
 
I agree, but it's not just normies. It's you guys too to a certain degree. We're truly alone. No one cares about anyone.
i don’t personally think so. i think people who don’t have many close relationships besides their family tend to value their friends more and enjoy just being with them way more than normies do. this is how my social circle was anyways
 
i don’t personally think so. i think people who don’t have many close relationships besides their family tend to value their friends more and enjoy just being with them way more than normies do. this is how my social circle was anyways
WAS?

People with less options are going to be more receptive to you because they're desperate. Yes they'll probably be nicer but they're still going to be useless for you, they won't be helpful. Not that they COULD have been.

But I'm talking about the incel community, there's a lot of social conservatives here living in a fantasy thinking that it would actually be enjoyable to spend your life working to support a woman, etc. even in this community if you say stuff like drugs are going to make you more unhappy they won't care etc.
 
I agree, but it's not just normies. It's you guys too to a certain degree. We're truly alone. No one cares about anyone.
based monerocel
 
WAS?

People with less options are going to be more receptive to you because they're desperate. Yes they'll probably be nicer but they're still going to be useless for you, they won't be helpful. Not that they COULD have been.

But I'm talking about the incel community, there's a lot of social conservatives here living in a fantasy thinking that it would actually be enjoyable to spend your life working to support a woman, etc. even in this community if you say stuff like drugs are going to make you more unhappy they won't care etc.
helpful in what way? if you mean helpful in living a nice fufilling life they are def helpful
 
remember one time a group i had slightly befriended talked shit about another normie the second he had left the car, that was the first time i ever saw anything like that as i had a good small group of incel friends who valued eachothers companies dearly.

Absolute facts especially this part. This is one of the things I DETEST about normies and the reason I avoid them. They will literally talk shit about someone the INSTANT they leave the room. A conscious human being realizes "damn they're gonna talk shit about me too". These people have no souls. They're mindless automatons always looking to put someone down to lift themselves up. Worthless meatsacks and crabs in a bucket. This is why I want to Illuminati maxx. 95% of people are just drones going along with the normie program.
 
Absolute facts especially this part. This is one of the things I DETEST about normies and the reason I avoid them. They will literally talk shit about someone the INSTANT they leave the room. A conscious human being realizes "damn they're gonna talk shit about me too". These people have no souls. They're mindless automatons always looking to put someone down to lift themselves up. Worthless meatsacks and crabs in a bucket. This is why I want to Illuminati maxx. 95% of people are just drones going along with the normie program.
the funniest part about inceltears is that the crab in bucket mentality not only applies to incels (which i agree) but also to normies. they sabotage eachother and pray that the other fails constantly
 
Good post, I don't see the dynamics of normies spoken much on this forum. Most just say they aren't compatible with them but not the reasons for it, this sums up why I can't ever interact with normies .. I don't act like them, think like them, have the same interests in them and in no way shape or form compatible with them.
thanks for the reply man.

not only that, but you haven’t developed alongside them, you just cannot relate to them like they relate to eachother.
 
Absolute facts especially this part. This is one of the things I DETEST about normies and the reason I avoid them. They will literally talk shit about someone the INSTANT they leave the room. A conscious human being realizes "damn they're gonna talk shit about me too". These people have no souls. They're mindless automatons always looking to put someone down to lift themselves up. Worthless meatsacks and crabs in a bucket. This is why I want to Illuminati maxx. 95% of people are just drones going along with the normie program.
 
Absolute facts especially this part. This is one of the things I DETEST about normies and the reason I avoid them. They will literally talk shit about someone the INSTANT they leave the room. A conscious human being realizes "damn they're gonna talk shit about me too". These people have no souls. They're mindless automatons always looking to put someone down to lift themselves up. Worthless meatsacks and crabs in a bucket. This is why I want to Illuminati maxx. 95% of people are just drones going along with the normie program.

Absolute facts
 
after my failed NTmaxxing for around 7-8 months with normies/NT girls, ive realized how little most of them take eachother seriously and have empathy for those who struggle

i remember one time a group i had slightly befriended talked shit about another normie the second he had left the car, that was the first time i ever saw anything like that as i had a good small group of incel friends who valued eachothers companies dearly.

in general most people only have surface level interactions about the same general stuff everyone does. when normies go out they talk about drinking, girls they fucked, whatever normie shit is currently going on in the media and to fit in with them you need to constantly adopt a persona that emulates that. you need to pretend to like shit you really dont give a fuck about, and even then if you cant offer the social circle anything they willl quickly dispel you.

unless you are extremely attractive or have some kind of unmatched social status 99% of normie relationships were transactional. in the beginning, i used to get excited whenever a girl from my NTmaxxing texted me, but without fail it was always in relation to helping her out with something before just enjoying eachothers company. it was always about if i could give them a ride, if i could buy them alcohol, or if i had something else of value to them.

not to mention, most people forget the intricate details about you as they have too much going on in thier own lives to remember or care about. while i remember the exact sentences people utter me like it just happened 5 minutes ago, most normies cant seem to remember anything deep or personal about you and if you open up to them about your problems irl they saw something along the lines of "thats crazy bro". they cant really relate and dont give a fuck, and forget what you said the next second lol

the only way of getting sex is to find some social circle full of young people that has women in it and emulate how everyone acts in it, and understand what is the right thing to say and what isnt. unless ur a chad (which 95% of men arent) or have social status, both of which i said before, prepare for ther relationship to be transactional. the majority of girls who dont follow NT party scenes are taken, there is a great post on here called "my year of normalfagmaxxing" that explains this perfectly, so its a no go to just keep interacting with just 1 girl at a time. the small minority of girls you will approach in this context that ARENT taken will usually have no interest in you due to them knowing you are frauding who you really are. you need to organically be someone similar and not outright ugly for this to work, as well as be NT of course.

and the real fucked up part about what i said above is, is that even if you do decide to do this, you are ultimately living a lie. this is not who you are as a person because you are becoming someone that you arent and most people of average intelligence can at least detect something is off with you. an off comment, something you say that doesnt make them quite feel the right way, it can be anything but the thought that you do not belong lingers.

ultimately most of yous are too far gone to fit in with normal people. the sad thruth is that if you have found this website you are incompatible with normal people and find it difficult to relate to them in a meaningful way. thats the saddest part of it all.
the last part is especially true. if you are not truly NT (no one here is) then all relationships you have will be transactional and you will never feel how ntfags feel
 
the last part is especially true. if you are not truly NT (no one here is) then all relationships you have will be transactional and you will never feel how ntfags feel
it definitely feels more transactional if you have never experienced a genuine connection with someone before. no one here can understand that, not even me really
 
The market of non-NT girls is getting smaller and smaller
 
But I'm talking about the incel community, there's a lot of social conservatives here living in a fantasy thinking that it would actually be enjoyable to spend your life working to support a woman, etc.

I never got the social conservatives here, in that model toilets treat you as a slave and if she divorces you'll become legally an indentured serf because you now have to provide for her until she finds another slave.

Toilets didn't marry Betabuxxers because they needed them to survive (she still had her own job and a family that was there for her), they married them for extra money.

There are socially conservative places out there today and the toilets behave identical on Tinder.

Any Conservative Incel isn't truly Blackpilled.
 
The market of non-NT girls is getting smaller and smaller
The market is almost non existent seeing as non-NT foids have no problems in dating
 
Good post by OP, with normies everything is transactional. Normies use kiss up, kick down, they kiss up to Chad to get a handout and kick down people like us for status. Normies are parasites.
 
Relationships are transactional in general.
 

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