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Most men lose enthusiasm for life, enduring tedious work and hope for the future as they reach age 25+

mylifeistrash

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There's a good reason most men become fat as shit, don't bother to take care of their bodies, have a blank, apathetic look on their faces and just stop giving a fuck about appearances.

After repeating the grind for X amount of years, eventually, even the biggest bluepill soy men realize their life is not going to change but only get worse.

And boom, just like that, they're dead inside. Too scared to kill themselves so they let their body and mental health decline, hoping for an early death.

Nothing wrong with any of this shit. It's the life cycle of most men, except before the smart phone era, this was how men ended up past age 40 or so. Now it hits very early on and you have young men just wanting to fucking die.
 
I want to die and I'm only 21
 
Most of life's pleasures are enjoyed in youth. After it's over, you are living as-is, with no milestones in the future to press you forward. You come to grips with life as not something which is leading toward something (the next goal or period of maturation), but nothing, being death.

And this is all compounded by the rise is restlessness, weakness, ugliness which associates with aging. You take on a visage of death long before it claims you.
 
A lot of men after 25 turn into NPC zombies.
 
A lot of men after 25 turn into NPC zombies.

The worst part about getting older is it becomes so much harder to enjoy your copes. Video games, movies, music just don't seem to have the appeal they did when you were young and hopeful.

My body is in great shape and I have lots of energy but my brain just wants to fucking check out of life.
 
Just today I was thinking about how the fact older men tend to get fatter may have to do not only with slower metabolism and all that but also with losing interest for going outside.

I loved aimless long walks when I was young, but nowadays I'm basically a hikikomori unless I HAVE to go somewhere. Just going somewhere near already feels like drudgery.
 
There's a good reason most men become fat as shit, don't bother to take care of their bodies, have a blank, apathetic look on their faces and just stop giving a fuck about appearances.

After repeating the grind for X amount of years, eventually, even the biggest bluepill soy men realize their life is not going to change but only get worse.

And boom, just like that, they're dead inside. Too scared to kill themselves so they let their body and mental health decline, hoping for an early death.

Nothing wrong with any of this shit. It's the life cycle of most men, except before the smart phone era, this was how men ended up past age 40 or so. Now it hits very early on and you have young men just wanting to fucking die.
Very true, it's so bad now it's actually amazing.

I've also seen men start self-destructing after they actually get with a woman, it's like, nah, you can't hide away from reality, even if a guy SAYS he is happy with his ugly cock carousel wife that's 5 years older than him, he still lets his body fall apart and starts looking like absolute shit.
 
Just today I was thinking about how the fact older men tend to get fatter may have to do not only with slower metabolism and all that but also with losing interest for going outside.

I loved aimless long walks when I was young, but nowadays I'm basically a hikikomori unless I HAVE to go somewhere. Just going somewhere near already feels like drudgery.

Being fat actually increases your metabolism / RMR . They're fat because they eat more and have less self-control.

Of course who has self-control when your life is total dog shit?
 
I remember killing myself in gym and cardio thinking I would get into the CFL at least. Then the more I did the more I realized everything is connected, in every aspect of life. You can't be a failure in every day then be allowed to exceed at something no matter how hard you try. lol

yeah, I've been at the apathetic point since my early teens though. Nonstop, told I'm either angry looking or depressed looking since I was 12.

Im scared of after life too otherwise I would check out right away
 
You have to cope extremely hard to the point of becoming pretty much schizophrenic. This is the only way to endure it and fend suicide off as an oldcel.
 
Most of life's pleasures are enjoyed in youth. After it's over, you are living as-is, with no milestones in the future to press you forward. You come to grips with life as not something which is leading toward something (the next goal or period of maturation), but nothing, being death.

And this is all compounded by the rise is restlessness, weakness, ugliness which associates with aging. You take on a visage of death long before it claims you.

And all those pleasures are for Chads and girls only.
 
Just today I was thinking about how the fact older men tend to get fatter may have to do not only with slower metabolism and all that but also with losing interest for going outside.

I loved aimless long walks when I was young, but nowadays I'm basically a hikikomori unless I HAVE to go somewhere. Just going somewhere near already feels like drudgery.
Yeah, most guys need some kind of 'mission' like a good gym or a well stocked shop, I like going to a mall nearby because then I can pick from 500 drink flavors and every fruit imaginable, plus the cashiers are old ladies so there's zero pressure, requires money to burn though.
 
The worst part about getting older is it becomes so much harder to enjoy your copes. Video games, movies, music just don't seem to have the appeal they did when you were young and hopeful.

My body is in great shape and I have lots of energy but my brain just wants to fucking check out of life.

Yes, its called anhedonia, I lost all pleasure from my hobbies, I can't enjoy video games, drawing, music, movies, etc.

I think most men in my age in the past would be raising a family and too busy to care about just killing time with entertainment. But here I am childless and even if I managed to get a girl she would probably be a 30+ year old who already fucked 500 dudes
 
There's a good reason most men become fat as shit, don't bother to take care of their bodies, have a blank, apathetic look on their faces and just stop giving a fuck about appearances.

After repeating the grind for X amount of years, eventually, even the biggest bluepill soy men realize their life is not going to change but only get worse.

And boom, just like that, they're dead inside. Too scared to kill themselves so they let their body and mental health decline, hoping for an early death.

Nothing wrong with any of this shit. It's the life cycle of most men, except before the smart phone era, this was how men ended up past age 40 or so. Now it hits very early on and you have young men just wanting to fucking die.
Is this a summary of my life? Although I'm just 25 yearcel I can easily predict that my life will have the same ending as the one you wrote in this thread.
 
This is why i plant food trees.
 
It's not even SMV. It's just the rat race.


When I saw this webpage, I wanted to kill myself. If there are these many guys achieving this at such young ages, that means by the time I'm 30, I like most people have already lost the race long ago.

I have come to accept that your life is already largely decided on the day you were born. And any remaining bits are done in your youth. Once you're an adult, it's almost impossible to change your fate for the better apart from hitting the rare jackpot.
 
You have to cope extremely hard to the point of becoming pretty much schizophrenic. This is the only way to endure it and fend suicide off as an oldcel.
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It’s only going to get worst. Oldcels had it easy compared to the zoomers that are coming of age right now. Hypergamy is increasing and the destruction of our copes is happening everyday. Good sex robots are decades away.

I was lucky enough to have had a childhood with no cellphones or social media, kids now have tablets at 2 years old.
 
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It’s only going to get worst. Oldcels had it easy compared to the zoomers that are coming of age right now. Hypergamy is increasing and the destruction of our copes is happening everyday. Good sex robots are decades away.

I was lucky enough to have had a childhood with no cellphones or social media, kids now have tablets at 2 years old.
Kids get exposed to hardcore porn since childhood. Young teenagers and even little girls are already trying what they see in those porn vids with MiniChads.
 
and they keep slaving away and keep the lighths burning
 
Another 25 pill.
 
I would say for me it was around 30. Before 30 I still had some possibilities for a career that eventually fizzled out.
 
It only gets worse when you get old
 
Just today I was thinking about how the fact older men tend to get fatter may have to do not only with slower metabolism and all that but also with losing interest for going outside.

I loved aimless long walks when I was young, but nowadays I'm basically a hikikomori unless I HAVE to go somewhere. Just going somewhere near already feels like drudgery.
Same man. I feel like a fugitive avoiding the cops.
 
High IQ, suifuel thread.

How old are you @mylifeistrash ?
 
High IQ, suifuel thread.

How old are you @mylifeistrash ?

nearly 32

observations from seeing all my friends / family get fat, look like shit, give up on life

even the women
 
Bro I felt like this at age 19 and haven't stopped since.
 
After repeating the grind for X amount of years, eventually, even the biggest bluepill soy men realize their life is not going to change but only get worse.
What's the grind? Studying? Wagecucking? Wanting to have a relationship? Because I guarantee you that it's their bluepill dissolving that makes them more miserable. The blackpill sinks in late so they resent their life for having simped and betabuxxed for women.
 
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What's the grind? Studying? Wagecucking? Wanting to have a relationship? Because I guarantee you that it's their bluepill dissolving that makes them more miserable. The blackpill sinks in late so they resent their life for having simped and betabuxxed for women.

That's a good point. I wish governments were honest about the dating situation so men could plan their lives out better and we wouldn't have a sham economy based on false hopes and pyramid schemes.
 
In grade-school you can tell yourself that it will get better in high-school. In high-school that it will get better in college. In College that adult life and work is when it finally gets better. But once you are in your thirties you can no longer lie to yourself, because you have no more changes in environment to hope for. A new job will be like the old one, moving to a new city will not change your circumstances. When we are younger we can still believe that it is our environment and lack of options that are holding us back. Once we get older we realise we are the problem.
When we are young we think we have a long future to look forward to, when we get older we look back and see a short youth behind us. At twenty we can still tell ourselves that we have time, lots of time. At thirty we look back and see how quickly our youth passed by.
 
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This shit fucking enrages me. People say you should "dream" of getting a good job. For what? So I can work for some boss and waste my prime years slaving away. I already had a shitty childhood, and now things are suddenly gonna get better? People are being fucking selfish when they say this shit.
 
just work hard bro. your dream job will come when you put the hours in :soy: :soy: :soy: :soy: :soy: :soy: :soy:


just be a corporate wagecuck for your boss bro who reaps all your rewards bro:feels::feels::feels::feels::feels:
 
All these 25pills just as I turned 25 over 2 weeks ago. :feelsrope:
 
This shit fucking enrages me. People say you should "dream" of getting a good job. For what? So I can work for some boss and waste my prime years slaving away. I already had a shitty childhood, and now things are suddenly gonna get better? People are being fucking selfish when they say this shit.


In theory no one is going to have a good job because you compete globally for wages, so you're always up against genetically elite and the desperate.

Only those who have political connections and corruption and get easy high paying jobs.
 
All these 25pills just as I turned 25 over 2 weeks ago. :feelsrope:
it keeps getting worse. like 1 or 2 people on here have said it doesnt but they must be rich and on drugs idk
 
Thank you, women
You liked equality so much that you made everything inequal
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In theory no one is going to have a good job because you compete globally for wages, so you're always up against genetically elite and the desperate.

Only those who have political connections and corruption and get easy high paying jobs.

Yeah and once theyre in the jobs its pretty much impossible for them to lose it unless they seriously fuck up in a big way. That job will only become available to those with connections, nobody from the outside, and generally only available if the person who locked it in moves away or moves up.
 
Men grow apathetic as they start to realize that their wife will never truly be attracted to them, she won't enjoy sex, it'll always be a chore to her.
 
Yeah and once theyre in the jobs its pretty much impossible for them to lose it unless they seriously fuck up in a big way. That job will only become available to those with connections, nobody from the outside, and generally only available if the person who locked it in moves away or moves up.

Jobs created by government corruption, regulations and laws.

Stemcels will say shit like "Bro just get a degree and get a high paying google job", but google employs mostly contractors, only a few of their jobs are high paying engineer positions.

Translated, stemcels say "bro just have a top 2% IQ and get a google job".
 
This is so fucking spot on, are you an oldcel?
 
Jobs created by government corruption, regulations and laws.

Stemcels will say shit like "Bro just get a degree and get a high paying google job", but google employs mostly contractors, only a few of their jobs are high paying engineer positions.

Translated, stemcels say "bro just have a top 2% IQ and get a google job".

Doing well in STEM is pretty damn hard
 
nearly 32

observations from seeing all my friends / family get fat, look like shit, give up on life

even the women
Lol ohh you are, all i can say is just hope society burns to the fucking ground
 
There's a good reason most men become fat as shit, don't bother to take care of their bodies, have a blank, apathetic look on their faces and just stop giving a fuck about appearances.

After repeating the grind for X amount of years, eventually, even the biggest bluepill soy men realize their life is not going to change but only get worse.

And boom, just like that, they're dead inside. Too scared to kill themselves so they let their body and mental health decline, hoping for an early death.

Nothing wrong with any of this shit. It's the life cycle of most men, except before the smart phone era, this was how men ended up past age 40 or so. Now it hits very early on and you have young men just wanting to fucking die.
The worst part about getting older is it becomes so much harder to enjoy your copes. Video games, movies, music just don't seem to have the appeal they did when you were young and hopeful.

My body is in great shape and I have lots of energy but my brain just wants to fucking check out of life.
So true, i really need the courage to rope, or i will become even older and more apathic :feelsbadman::feelscry::feelsrope:
 
That's a good point. I wish governments were honest about the dating situation so men could plan their lives out better and we wouldn't have a sham economy based on false hopes and pyramid schemes.
I believe 80% to 85% of the global economy is based on betabuxxing women. They don't want men to realize its hopeless because then they would crash the system like the hikkis in Japan are doing.
 

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