Serious Most males in relationships are NOT betabux

[Fontaine]

It is absurd to still believe in the concept of "betabux" in the 21st century. All women have their own career, all women have well-off parents who can support them, and all women can easily benefit from a variety of government aids in case of financial troubles.

I'm talking about developed countries obviously

The "betabux" theory is a transparent cope designed to deny three realities:

- Love / affection exist
- Most males are in relationships, and in most of these relationships, the female is happy and doesn't cheat
- Money won't save you

 

[itsmemario]

100% agree, they focus on a group of negative example and project that to everyone, it's a cope nothing more.

 

[TheSecondComing]

There is no shortage of stories from the cucked site known as Reddit of betabuxx stories. It happens, doesn't mean that it's the standard or on the opposite end of the spectrum, some rare thing that is a myth.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

The main form of betabuxxing now is chores. She always sends him on chores, he always has to do stuff for her. Fix this, buy that, do this. He's like her little slave, always working to please the queen while she browses tinder.

 

[itsmemario]

The main form of betabuxxing now is chores. She always sends him on chores, he always has to do stuff for her. Fix this, buy that, do this. He's like her little slave, always working to please the queen while she browses tinder.

cope

 

[rudolfhess]

The main form of betabuxxing now is chores. She always sends him on chores, he always has to do stuff for her. Fix this, buy that, do this. He's like her little slave, always working to please the queen while she browses tinder.

This. Most women in relationships at least entertain in the back of their minds the idea of cheating in the future, which is microcheating in and of itself. Love isn't an on/off switch, it's a spectrum, and almost no relationships are at the most affectionate end of that spectrum

 

[shadowsoulz125]

The main form of betabuxxing now is chores. She always sends him on chores, he always has to do stuff for her. Fix this, buy that, do this. He's like her little slave, always working to please the queen while she browses tinder.

Cope

 

[RodgersSecondAdvent]

Most males get divorced, cucked and cheated on. Your theory falls flat.

 

[IsolationHurts]

The "betabux" theory is a transparent cope designed to deny

that being incel is the worst life possible.
Lets be real here.... some want to believe that everyone is a cuck/betabuxer and that being one is worse than being an incel just to feel better about themselves. Being incel should be something to be proud, something that only the strong and smart incels do, not like those weak and retarded cucktears users kek What a fucking cope.

 

[Gremlincel]

This is in direct conflict with one of the main findings of the blackpill, that is, that it is in a females nature to desire to breed and reporduce with the superior male at the top of the hierarchy, but at the same time allowing the lesser males to be, more or less, her servants, in return for sex, affection, or hell, even the slightest attention such as a glance, or a 'thank you'. That's just how men are, most of us can't but want nothing more than that, it's in our nature to selflessly care for females, and to find their mere attention to be gratifying. But, these are outdated biological mechanisms.
You would deny this?

 

[itsmemario]

Most males get divorced, cucked and cheated on. Your theory falls flat.

This is in direct conflict with one of the main findings of the blackpill, that is, that it is in a females nature to desire to breed and reporduce with the superior male at the top of the hierarchy, but at the same time allowing the lesser males to be, more or less, her servants, in return for sex, affection, or hell, even the slightest attention such as a glance, or a 'thank you'. That's just how men are, most of us can't but want nothing more than that, it's in our nature to selflessly care for females, and to find their mere attention to be gratifying. But, these are outdated biological mechanisms.
You would deny this?

Cope, cope and more cope...

 

[Angry_runt]

This is in direct conflict with one of the main findings of the blackpill, that is, that it is in a females nature to desire to breed and reporduce with the superior male at the top of the hierarchy

That's not what the black pill is.

 

[Gremlincel]

Cope, cope and more cope...

Stop spamming cope. You're just coping because you want to believe once you lookmax you'll enter a relationship, get to show off your big dick, then you'll have caught her and won her love forever, problems solved.
The reality you deny is harder to accept than the reality you defend. Even if we are wrong, we are not coping, since accepting this does not make our lives easier. On the other hand if we are right, logically, you are coping, since you were imagining things were better than they were which gave you peace of mind.

That's not what the black pill is.

Well, that's true. Call it what you will, then. Looks theory? Hypergamy? IDK.

 

[Brahcel]

Cope, cope and more cope...

I think both are right. I saw my friend do all the chorus while she hnust played on fb. Lol. Then she left him with he lost his job

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Out of all of the couples that I've known that lived together, I've only known one where the woman paid part of the bills (still less than half). In every other couple the man paid the rent 100 percent.

Hell, I once knew a guy who made less money than his girlfriend and he paid the rent (100 percent). He was 5 years younger and at least a solid 3 points higher than her on the looks scale.

 

[itsmemario]

Stop spamming cope. You're just coping because you want to believe once you lookmax you'll enter a relationship, get to show off your big dick, then you'll have caught her and won her love forever, problems solved.
The reality you deny is harder to accept than the reality you defend. Even if we are wrong, we are not coping, since accepting this does not make our lives easier. On the other hand if we are right, logically, you are coping, since you were imagining things were better than they were which gave you peace of mind.

No, i think even if i looksmax it will be extremely hard to get someone and even harder to keep someone, and yeah there a lots of cucking and cheating and devources, but thinking that good normal relationships don't exist is only a dumb cope.

 

[Fontaine]

Out of all of the couples that I've known that lived together,

Don't take it the wrong way, but are you sure your sample size is high enough?

 

[Angry_runt]

It is absurd to still believe in the concept of "betabux" in the 21st century.

The threshold for betabux has simply been shifted higher and the proportion of women seeking guys to betabux is lower. Thirty, forty years ago you could be an ugly betabux if you had a decent engineering career... and almost every woman needed a guy like that. These days you need at least average looks for that and you'll get lower quality women. If you're ugly in 2018 a merely decent career won't save you. In fact it's getting even worse... look at guys like Louis CK and Weinstein and guys like that - they are rich and had immense power in their fields and still they had to resort to the kinds of things they did.
The same dynamic is being played out only the numbers have changed.

 

[Masterkief9]

that being incel is the worst life possible.
Lets be real here....some want to believe that everyone is a cuck/betabuxer and that being one is worse than being an incel just to feel better about themselves. Being incel should be something to be proud, something that only the strong and smart incels do, not like those weak and retarded cucktears users kek What a fucking cope.

High IQ response.

 

[itsmemario]

Don't take it the wrong way, but are you sure your sample size is high enough?

Yeah, these anecdotal evidences don't mean more than when someone tells about an ugly 5'2 guy who fucks like a chad.

Out of all of the couples that I've known that lived together, I've only known one where the woman paid part of the bills (still less than half). In every other couple the man paid the rent 100 percent.

Hell, I once knew a guy who made less money than his girlfriend and he paid the rent (100 percent). He was 5 years younger and at least a solid 3 points higher than her on the looks scale.

 

[Robtical]

Foids can get their own job, but most of them would rather be with a man who makes 50k+ to take care of them so they can sit on their lazy asses. They don't usually make that decision until they pass 30, when they realize their life is going nowhere and they want to raise a family. When do you see 22 year old 5's with their 22 year old 5 looksmatch? They almost never settle for their looksmatch unless the foid is about to hit the wall, so she can be a stay at home mom and cuck her hubby for the rest of her life.

 

[Gigacel]

You are absolutely correct hence as betabuxers decrease incels increase. We live in a society where betabuxing is no longer enough and the importance has shifted onto looks for men. Many guys here would LOVE to betabux a foid, but that’s just not feasible anymore. I would love that money and a career is all that’s needed to find a wife. At least it would be hell of a lot easier

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Don't take it the wrong way, but are you sure your sample size is high enough?

Let me ask you...with couples that cohabit, do you honestly believe that in the majority of them, the woman pays half of the bills?

Or is this just another one of your contrarian bait threads?

 

[Mainländer]

Women aren't as crazy about sex as men. Most of those relationships are just convenience to them.

 

[Robtical]

You are absolutely correct hence as betabuxers decrease incels increase. We live in a society where betabuxing is no longer enough and the importance has shifted onto looks for men. Many guys here would LOVE to betabux a foid, but that’s just not feasible anymore. I would love that money and a career is all that’s needed to find a wife.

According to that they'll still all be chasing the top 5% chads, since they don't need the betabuxxers anymore, and they're not having meaningful relationships with their sub6 looksmatches.