if you're attracted to someone, you're attracted to them, it's that simple. online, women are passing over men that they would be naturally attracted to in real life, because they have chads messaging them left, right and center. i've had some girls who i thought were out of my league giving ioi's to me irl and i know for a fact these girls wouldn't give me the time of day online, i even question myself if they are just messing with my head, because i have become so used to and conditioned to my continual online dating failures. online really isn't an accurate picture of reality. if online was the only version of reality that i had ever experienced, then i'd think and truly believe and convince myself im the ugliest incel in the world and it would be OVER. a lot of online only 'incels' would change their perception on reality once they start getting ioi in the real world, unless you are genetically and objectively butt ugly, then it really is over.