Blackpill More men being incels is tremendous cope. Most men are not incels and never will be.

[WeirdPanda]

There's a lot of cope research some of you guys try to make and anecdotes from the fact that we as a group are getting more and more vocal everyday, but that doesn't mean we are a large group itself. Especially when you consider that so many of these same people who reverberate our points are sexhavers and normies with friend groups and a social life.

I'm not saying that inceldom itself cannot increase, but it's not increasing as much as you think it is. All you have to do is look through most of the blackpill, incel spaces that exist outside of this site. They're completely regulated, censored, filled to the brim (vast majority) with blackpilled zoomers, normies and NTmoggers who just view it as a passing trend--one that even foids (particularly the young kind) are playing along with because they are attracted to dark triad guys and bad boys, not "losers". These same people who adopt our culture and use it to blend in and become a sort of cool or whatever. The only thing that comes out of this is people starting to realize that looks actually matter, but it was never and still isn't about us.

And the men out there that are harassing women and terrorizing them? It's not us, it's (mostly) sexhavers who've had their actions validated all the way up to now. All of this is nothing more than a power fantasy, and this forum is replete of power fantasies like that. All of this is just copium. I'd wager that we are still only a small percentage of the male population in the world--and I doubt that it will ever grow any larger.

I personally think it takes a kind of personality that just isn't very common to be able to see through the foid worship that most humans tend to have. I honestly refuse to believe anything other than this.

 

[Kamanbert]

Incel as affiliation yes but as an effective state of being ? I think it might be underestimated

 

[WeirdPanda]

Incel as affiliation yes but as an effective state of being ? I think it might be underestimated

Most people get to have sex atleast once in their lives. Less so if you count autistic people (and by people it's also a majority men). Even as a state of being; it's certainly not as common as some people here make it out to be. The world incel nowadays, in the progressive vocab, has shifted to be a catch-all for the manosphere.

I don't doubt the manosphere is growing, but there aren't more incels.

 

[Allah (Real)]

I think its very similar to "Mean World Syndrome" where people who watch the news over-estimate homicides and such. People in these spaces generally over-estimate the percentage of incels within the general population

 

[WeirdPanda]

I think its very similar to "Mean World Syndrome" where people who watch the news over-estimate homicides and such. People in these spaces generally over-estimate the percentage of incels within the general population

I never understood how other incels could think there are a lot of men out there like us. Back when I was in highschool everyone, and I mean everyone was surrounded or in a group with other girls and often talked to girls one-on-one every damn time. The only exceptions were me and the sped kids, and the quiet kids who I would take notice of sometimes yet they were still very few.

If the adult world is an extension of highschool, then how do people still think this?

 

[wereq]

Most people get to have sex atleast once in their lives. Less so if you count autistic people (and by people it's also a majority men). Even as a state of being; it's certainly not as common as some people here make it out to be. The world incel nowadays, in the progressive vocab, has shifted to be a catch-all for the manosphere.

I don't doubt the manosphere is growing, but there aren't more incels.

What if a guy last had sex 5 years ago for 10 minutes (not with hooker), and has not gotten any since then? Isn't he effectively an incel?

 

[wereq]

40 to 50% of men are essentially incel today. They get humiliated by women and go through life without getting any emotional support, affection, companionship, or intimacy.

 

[WeirdPanda]

What if a guy last had sex 5 years ago for 10 minutes (not with hooker), and has not gotten any since then? Isn't he effectively an incel?

I honestly don't think so. I think a person like this is more like a volcel.

 

[wereq]

I honestly don't think so. I think a person like this is more like a volcel.

JFL! What if he's just not getting any matches or interest from women?

 

[Mihailo Toloto]

What if a guy last had sex 5 years ago for 10 minutes (not with hooker), and has not gotten any since then? Isn't he effectively an incel?

 

[WeirdPanda]

40 to 50% of men are essentially incel today. They get humiliated by women and go through life without getting any emotional support, affection, companionship, or intimacy.

Not many men get humiliated by women... from what I've seen it's mostly the autistic or the very unattractive ones. Most men are just invisible.

JFL! What if he's just not getting any matches or interest from women?

Even then, just the fact that he got sex means that he could problably try to work on some other stuff to make himself more attractive and slay.

 

[Zaraj11]

Sad but true, there will be no incel rebellion

 

[Foid FuckER]

I honestly don't think so. I think a person like this is more like a volcel

technically involuntary celibate but i wouldn't call any sexhaver an incel. Incel is when you've NEVER had any sexual or romantic experience, thats that

 

[wereq]

Even then, just the fact that he got sex means that he could problably try to work on some other stuff to make himself more attractive and slay.

Stop saying redpill bs. The odds are stacked against most men, and virtually all women find men disgusting and unattractive.

Pew Research says 63% of young men from age 18 to 29 are incel! You think these men are volcel or not trying hard enough?

 

[WeirdPanda]

Stop saying redpill bs. The odds are stacked against most men, and virtually all women find men disgusting and unattractive.

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Pew Research says 63% of young men from age 18 to 29 are incel! You think these men are volcel or not trying hard enough?

I already specified that it's mostly cope research. Being an incel is existing and never being able to get sex (non-paid), so if you managed to get sex but go under cold spells then that means you're not trying hard enough.

Most guys I see outside can talk to girls. I can't even do that. Most girls hate me, infantilize me or whatever just from one single chat. I get ghosted after every first conversation I have with one online. Also being single doesn't mean they haven't had sex.

 

[wereq]

Most guys I see outside can talk to girls.

Just because you can't doesn't mean that you get to set the standard for what is considered incel. My dad had sex a few times when I was born, but since then he's remained sexless for 30 years. My mom and dad slept in separate beds. My dad is 5'4, low T, unattractive, and autistic. He has no social life, no friends, nothing. Is he incel? By your definition, no, but he pretty much checks out all the boxes of inceldom.

 

[WeirdPanda]

Just because you can't doesn't mean that you get to set the standard for what is considered incel. My dad had sex a few times when I was born, but since then he's remained sexless for 30 years. My mom and dad slept in separate beds. My dad is 5'4, low T, unattractive, and autistic. He has no social life, no friends, nothing. Is he incel? By your definition, no, but he pretty much checks out all the boxes of inceldom.

Then why don't you make a poll about it then? I guarantee you most people here agree with my standard of inceldom.

 

[wereq]

Then why don't you make a poll about it then? I guarantee you most people here agree with my standard of inceldom.

Everyone here agreed that my dad is an incel despite having had sex a few times before my birth.

 

[WeirdPanda]

Everyone here agreed that my dad is an incel despite having had sex a few times before my birth.

Really? When did you ask this? I'd honestly like to see it.

And everyone is a bit too big, I doubt that everyone else agrees with that notion.

 

[Fluoxymesterone]

Not incels but most men aren't really loved. They are just placeholders / betabux until the foid can latch onto a better man

 

[WeirdPanda]

Not incels but most men aren't really loved. They are just placeholders / betabux until the foid can latch onto a better man

The difference between an incel and a normie is larger than you think, buddyboyo. Normies get to be a part of soyciety with actual value, incels do not.

 

[Fluoxymesterone]

The difference between an incel and a normie is larger than you think, buddyboyo. Normies get to be a part of soyciety with actual value, incels do not.

I know, but more normies accept incel views on women because they see how they are being fooled. Many betabux men are mysoginistic and such

 

[WeirdPanda]

I know, but more normies accept incel views on women because they see how they are being fooled. Many betabux men are mysoginistic and such

That doesn't mean I have to like them or view myself as an ally of them. I still resent these men for their privilege and refuse to be put in the same category as them. I don't want these people to speak for me.

 

[Fluoxymesterone]

That doesn't mean I have to like them or view myself as an ally of them. I still resent these men for their privilege and refuse to be put in the same category as them. I don't want these people to speak for me.

Same. I just thougt this is what they usually mean when they say more men are incels. I don't think anyone seriously suggests that the majority of males are virgins

 

[WeirdPanda]

Same. I just thougt this is what they usually mean when they say more men are incels. I don't think anyone seriously suggests that the majority of males are virgins

Of course, but that's not what the incel word means and I don't want people to associate me with these people.

 

[wereq]

Really? When did you ask this? I'd honestly like to see it.

And everyone is a bit too big, I doubt that everyone else agrees with that notion.

Invite him here.

He should be allowed to join.

Soon this forum will be full of dadcels

Sign him up to .is

Get him here! We need ur fukken dad here nigga. At all costs

I'd support allowing him indefinitely. Most curry dads are incels in that they never get attraction-based sex, they only use their dicks to make babies. It's asexual reproduction in a sense, and I'm honestly not fully convinced most of our dads have even done P-in-V rather than just nutting in a syringe and having their wife inject it.

Plus, I think he's literally mentioned his dad is a cuck, and was forced to reconcile with the guy who cucked him. His suffering is arguably greater than most of us on this forum

 

[WeirdPanda]

Honestly I disagree. I sincerely doubt that I'm the only one here who wants this to be a strictly closed community.

There is an ENTIRE realm of difference between a person like your dad and me who could never even raise a family.

 

[wereq]

That doesn't mean I have to like them or view myself as an ally of them. I still resent these men for their privilege and refuse to be put in the same category as them. I don't want these people to speak for me.

So you don't want to empathize with the suffering of your fellow men but expect them to understand your situation? You fallacy lies in your thinking that you're the only special delicate creature that is being ravaged by nature out here.

 

[WeirdPanda]

So you don't want to empathize with the suffering of your fellow men but expect them to understand your situation? You fallacy lies in your thinking that you're the only special delicate creature that is being ravaged by nature out here.

JFL if you think they're suffering. Their situations don't seem like suffering to me? I only sympathize in this regard with those who I can clearly see have it bad like I do.

 

[wereq]

Most girls hate me, infantilize me or whatever just from one single chat. I get ghosted after every first conversation I have with one online.

That happens to a lot of borderline incel/low tier normie men too.

 

[WeirdPanda]

That happens to a lot of borderline incel/low tier normie men too.

Never seen it (in real life), and if seen then the foids don't really go out of their usual way to do it.

 

[wereq]

JFL if you think they're suffering. Their situations don't seem like suffering to me? I only sympathize in this regard with those who I can clearly see have it bad like I do.

Ok since you're so narrow minded and stooped into victim mentality, don't expect any sympathy from other men who might be a bit better off than you but also suffering quite a bit.

 

[wereq]

Never seen it (in real life), and if seen then the foids don't really go out of their usual way to do it.

If this is the case, where does the 80-20 rule come from?

 

[The Reaver]

JFL if you think they're suffering. Their situations don't seem like suffering to me? I only sympathize in this regard with those who I can clearly see have it bad like I do.

Bro if a dude gets sex once somehow by the devil's own luck and then goes without it for 30 years, do you not think he qualifies as an incel? Also @wereq is curry so his dad was prolly in an arranged marriage. Even trucels can get a wife via arranged marriage (although this is changing very fast; even in India, arranged marriage has become sort of like Tinder).

 

[WeirdPanda]

If this is the case, where does the 80-20 rule come from?

That's just the case for dating apps, and well I thought you were referring to me saying that I've been infantilized and hated in real life. I know that online I'm not the only man being ghosted.

Most of these men are not really attractive but not particularly ugly or not autistic.

 

[WeirdPanda]

Bro if a dude gets sex once somehow by the devil's own luck and then goes without it for 30 years, do you not think he qualifies as an incel? Also @wereq is curry so his dad was prolly in an arranged marriage. Even trucels can get a wife via arranged marriage (although this is changing very fast; even in India, arranged marriage has become sort of like Tinder).

Depends on what the devil's own luck is. If it's arranged marriage then I can see why that would qualify someone as incel. However he didn't tell me that. That's also not common in the culture I live in.

 

[wereq]

Most of these men are not really attractive but not particularly ugly or not autistic.

Well you have to be attractive to get accepted by women. And your social media and online dating presence decides your worth entirely because people live online now.

 

[WeirdPanda]

Well you have to be attractive to get accepted by women. And your social media and online dating presence decides your worth entirely because people live online now.

Not true at all, atleast where I live. Here in Brazil I see quite a lot of average men managing to get a few LDRs and even marriages. Not with very attractive foids though, these are reserved for very high status or above average men.

Most people have social media presence. They are also very ingrained with social communities which open a lot of doors for these average men.

 

[the kurdish loner]

There's a lot of cope research some of you guys try to make and anecdotes from the fact that we as a group are getting more and more vocal everyday, but that doesn't mean we are a large group itself. Especially when you consider that so many of these same people who reverberate our points are sexhavers and normies with friend groups and a social life.

I'm not saying that inceldom itself cannot increase, but it's not increasing as much as you think it is. All you have to do is look through most of the blackpill, incel spaces that exist outside of this site. They're completely regulated, censored, filled to the brim (vast majority) with blackpilled zoomers, normies and NTmoggers who just view it as a passing trend--one that even foids (particularly the young kind) are playing along with because they are attracted to dark triad guys and bad boys, not "losers". These same people who adopt our culture and use it to blend in and become a sort of cool or whatever. The only thing that comes out of this is people starting to realize that looks actually matter, but it was never and still isn't about us.

And the men out there that are harassing women and terrorizing them? It's not us, it's (mostly) sexhavers who've had their actions validated all the way up to now. All of this is nothing more than a power fantasy, and this forum is replete of power fantasies like that. All of this is just copium. I'd wager that we are still only a small percentage of the male population in the world--and I doubt that it will ever grow any larger.

I personally think it takes a kind of personality that just isn't very common to be able to see through the foid worship that most humans tend to have. I honestly refuse to believe anything other than this.

No revolution for your face

 

[wereq]

Not true at all, atleast where I live. Here in Brazil I see quite a lot of average men managing to get a few LDRs and even marriages or relationships.

Well, they are NTmaxxed I guess.

 

[WeirdPanda]

Well, they are NTmaxxed I guess.

Do you think they are an exception? Or maybe this is more common than you think? I somehow doubt that's the case only down here.

 

[wereq]

Do you think they are an exception? Or maybe this is more common than you think? I somehow doubt that's the case only down here.

They are becoming more and more of an exception where I live. I used to see low tier normie curries with girls a few years back but not don't see much of this anymore.