Serious Mistraetments of parents and solutions

[Johny.speiz]

I have a buddy, that has true concerns with his parents, he's an Incel and very lonely. So, basically most of his only social interactions are with his parents, and with me occasionally. He barely never go out of home.
He's in his 20's, and most of the family life is peaceful. He told me he loves them a lot, but at the same time, he have outbursts of rage and, that he could literally kill his parents, because he lose control of himself. When he's out of home, he can't stop calling calling his parents. He already hit and sent to the hospital his mother many times, threatened with a weapon his father. He's under psychiatric treatment, and take psychotropics. He's not a drug addict, sometimes drink too much or abuse psychotropics. Police had to intervene many times, arresting him once eventually. They beat the hell out of him onetime.
Last time, he told me that he could take his weapons and use it against his parents, and then wish for a suicide by cop. He talk normally with me, he's very confident to me, and a nice person, overall.
It's a totally crazy situation for me, taking into fact, that 95% of the time they all love each other, as he told me.
His rage outbursts come mostly from frustrations and defeating, he in these dramatic situation accuse his parents that he was born and is an Incel, which he mistreat his parents with occasionally, verbally. But truly dramatic situation happens very rarely, once or less per year. They love each other overall, but he could hate them so much when certain conditions are reunited and harming them. I want to help this pal, I don't want to see him being killed, or worse killing his parents, to be behind bars for decades or to be killed by cops.

Please, someone, Incel or professional specialist help me and advise me what to do?

 

[acnescarcel]

going to a therapist does nothing besides some random guy saying just don't be mad br0 and giving him meds. he should just smoke weed when he feels mad

 

[Johny.speiz]

give him a room

I would like so, but I barely have place in my studio. Adding, that he's always willing to live with his parents.
He lived a few times in my place, lying on the floor on a small air-bed, but he left soon after. He says that he has a large room there with his parents, with all his stuff.

 

[incels.REEEE]

he should just smoke weed when he feels mad

alcohol better

Not for me. Alcohol is a depressant.

 

[REkrul]

What is with mental illness threads today, what is going on?

 

[Johny.speiz]

What is with mental illness threads today, what is going on?

Pardon?
Many people suffer from mental illnesses nowadays, even when in cure, it don't always help.

 

[REkrul]

Pardon?
Many people suffer from mental illnesses nowadays, even when in cure, it don't always help.

Ye, I'm pretty sure by some classifications we all here are mentally ill, but this is just... Honestly in these kind of situations you shouldn't expect much help from strangers, because they're unacquainted with the what's actually going on and all the relations. All these cases are unique and requires first hand experience in the "now", so the most objective person in judging the situation is going to be you.
What I tried to say is that there have been at least 4 threads today with or about mentally ill people.

 

[WillyBlogAndFriends]

Lol mentalcels are supposed to be killed off in nature due to behaviors that get them killed.

Let him die already the natural way, getting yourself killed

 

[Johny.speiz]

Ye, I'm pretty sure by some classifications we all here are mentally ill, but this is just... Honestly in these kind of situations you shouldn't expect much help from strangers, because they're unacquainted with the what's actually going on and all the relations. All these cases are unique and requires first hand experience in the "now", so the most objective person in judging the situation is going to be you.
What I tried to say is that there have been at least 4 threads today with or about mentally ill people.

I tried at least to convince him to give his weapons away, but he love them pretty much, he won't. He told me that even if his guns were taken away, he has a cache or could get one easily. He does have a collection of knifes, telescopic batons, tonfas and samurai swords, as well.

Lol mentalcels are supposed to be killed off in nature due to behaviors that get them killed.

Let him die already the natural way, getting yourself killed

No, I don't want to let him die "the natural way", what does it mean by the way? He's on quite good health condition, taking apart the mental health, which is terrible, and he's young. I barely see how he can kill me, being his only buddy, not living with him, and caring about him.
Btw., even in the hypothesis I get killed, I don't care that much thinking to rope often. I want really to help someone, my buddy, and try make things better for him, and to erase, or at least divert him from this insane scenario of him.

As a matter of fact, I won't be posting here if I was indifferent to this drama. Seeking help and solutions.

 

[Johny.speiz]

Ye, I'm pretty sure by some classifications we all here are mentally ill, but this is just... Honestly in these kind of situations you shouldn't expect much help from strangers, because they're unacquainted with the what's actually going on and all the relations. All these cases are unique and requires first hand experience in the "now", so the most objective person in judging the situation is going to be you.
What I tried to say is that there have been at least 4 threads today with or about mentally ill people.

That's true, all the "strangers" professionals he have seen, diagnosed and gave his psychotropic meds, didn't really help. The police? What would they do? Finding charges, eventually locking up him away in traumatic conditions, beating him. I don't trust in this BS. He already went to the psych ward, and said it was terrible. I'm actively working at looking for him a good psychiatric-therapist, that is willing to help him and is competent at what he's doing, not all these incompetents he met for years and didn't help an ounce.

What else could I do, right now, to avoid dramatic situations from happening again according to you?

 

[Johny.speiz]

I hope I'm wrong, because from what I see, very few people want to help another in-distress Incel here.

Your comments are welcome, so please, some opinions or advice from you.

 

[Ecstasy]

He won't chance this behaviour if he does not see his errors himself. You know him better than us, you have to find out how to communicate with him. Do you know if he regrets his ourbursts afterwards? If yes this is where you should start. Only fucking madmen wouldn't care about hurting their family.

He also needs a cope. It is hard to get high inhib incels into social stuff so if the gym isn't something for him maybe riding a bike alone somewhere or another sporty activity will do.

 

[Six]

Lol mentalcels are supposed to be killed off in nature due to behaviors that get them killed.

Let him die already the natural way, getting yourself killed

Are not you a mentalcel.

 

[Blacktarpill]

he should just smoke weed when he feels mad

 

[Incellectual]

going to a therapist does nothing besides some random guy saying just don't be mad br0 and giving him meds. he should just smoke weed when he feels mad

weed doesn't always help but it sure is better than therapy

 

[WillyBlogAndFriends]

Are not you a mentalcel.

I'm 5'3.5 and ethnic

Ask @Zesto

 

[Zesto]

I'm 5'3.5 and ethnic

Ask @Zesto

Can confirm.