It is a universal and transhistorical experience that the more men interact with women the less they think of them. The men with the most positive and idealized views of women are the ones who have no access to them. Everyone already knows this and feminists can write you countless essays about how the attitude of sexually active men towards women is one of utter disdain and disregard; what's actually interesting and worth commenting on is that this applies to women too and most women are horrified by the idea that their daughters will grow up to be similar to themselves
