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This is more of a venting post, no replies necessary but appreciated! 
I just had another lurking, feminist woman discuss with me on Discord.
(Yes, I'm not a "rapist murderer". Most of us aren't...)
The topic of "free meaningless sex" comes up quite often. In my opinion the whole concept of it is flawed.
I will just list key points below. Have fun!
Here are some questions/responses for thought:
Does the fact that you get "free meaningless sex", not mean that you're desired?
This is a common question that especially Femcels always end up deflecting on. If a woman is desirable to a man, especially in terms of looks. The man wants to have intercourse with her. It could be an ONS but wanting to have sex with you at all, still means that you are somewhat attractive and desirable to that man, doesn't it?
"You don't understand. We want someone to love and care for us, not just sex!"
If a loving relationship is your end goal, then why bother with meaningless sex at all? Any man that just wants sex, often makes it blatantly obvious that he does so. Do you really expect a man that wants to come or invite you over to his place during the early dating stage, to not only want sex and ignore your afterwards?
"There is no way for a woman to know this! All men are professional liars!!!"
Starving men/women of sex is an old practice that has existed since forever. The easiest and most logical way to make sure that a man is genuinely interested in you (or woman in my case), would be to be reserved with sex. Only porn addicted men or promiscuous women, wouldn't be able to wait for it and move on in my opinion.
Isn't it your own fault if you get used for sex, if you allow it to happen?
Unless you get raped, there is no way that you can't just refuse to have sex. It's called consent for a reason. Religious people have been doing it for decades.
"Most women don't even orgasm or enjoy casual/meaningless sex!"
Why engage in something that you don't truly enjoy? I'm not stupid and aware that women mainly get off with clit stimulation. Any man that just wants an ONS, obviously wouldn't bother stimulating you so again. What's the point of having meaningless sex, if you don't get anything out of it?
"We women just need casual/meaningless sex to feel validated sometimes..."
Not much to add to this. Female lurkers that say this pretty much admit that sex has meaning because it validates them. This is usually the point where I end the conversation because the same points are just being repeated over and over again.
(Responses have been anonymized as promised. I always keep my word!)
I just had another lurking, feminist woman discuss with me on Discord.
(Yes, I'm not a "rapist murderer". Most of us aren't...
)The topic of "free meaningless sex" comes up quite often. In my opinion the whole concept of it is flawed.
I will just list key points below. Have fun!
Here are some questions/responses for thought:
Does the fact that you get "free meaningless sex", not mean that you're desired?
This is a common question that especially Femcels always end up deflecting on. If a woman is desirable to a man, especially in terms of looks. The man wants to have intercourse with her. It could be an ONS but wanting to have sex with you at all, still means that you are somewhat attractive and desirable to that man, doesn't it?
"You don't understand. We want someone to love and care for us, not just sex!"
If a loving relationship is your end goal, then why bother with meaningless sex at all? Any man that just wants sex, often makes it blatantly obvious that he does so. Do you really expect a man that wants to come or invite you over to his place during the early dating stage, to not only want sex and ignore your afterwards?
"There is no way for a woman to know this! All men are professional liars!!!"
Starving men/women of sex is an old practice that has existed since forever. The easiest and most logical way to make sure that a man is genuinely interested in you (or woman in my case), would be to be reserved with sex. Only porn addicted men or promiscuous women, wouldn't be able to wait for it and move on in my opinion.
Isn't it your own fault if you get used for sex, if you allow it to happen?
Unless you get raped, there is no way that you can't just refuse to have sex. It's called consent for a reason. Religious people have been doing it for decades.
"Most women don't even orgasm or enjoy casual/meaningless sex!"
Why engage in something that you don't truly enjoy? I'm not stupid and aware that women mainly get off with clit stimulation. Any man that just wants an ONS, obviously wouldn't bother stimulating you so again. What's the point of having meaningless sex, if you don't get anything out of it?
"We women just need casual/meaningless sex to feel validated sometimes..."
Not much to add to this. Female lurkers that say this pretty much admit that sex has meaning because it validates them. This is usually the point where I end the conversation because the same points are just being repeated over and over again.
(Responses have been anonymized as promised. I always keep my word!)
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