Mentality inceldom treating?

[kantero]

How i can free myself from it? I maybe not attractive, but im not ugly. Yes, im young, look somewhat feminine and immature, but it mustn't make me a social retard, creepy autist who is scared of society. I'm tired of it. How can i be "easier" and stop bitching myself too hard? It may be strange to ask smth like that here, but i really think that it's exaggerated about me. I shouldn't be autist at least.

 

[Hunter]

nofap and NTmaxx by socialising more

 

[murder5]

How i can free myself from it? I maybe not attractive, but im not ugly. Yes, im young, look somewhat feminine and immature, but it mustn't make me a social retard, creepy autist who is scared of society. I'm tired of it. How can i be "easier" and stop bitching myself too hard? It may be strange to ask smth like that here, but i really think that it's exaggerated about me. I shouldn't be autist at least.

I would advise travelling as much as possible.

Your mental state is linked to your immediate environment.

This is my own thinking but environmental = enviro (surrounding) mental = (mental state of mind)

Hence, your environment. And you can change it. Travel to someplace cheap. For no reason.

I am English but I have a house in Florida ($12k) and I come here and my mind and thoughts all change. I'm still single, but you know, it gives me scope to reflect on who I am in that other life in England.

Part of the problem as I see it is not being in a dynamic environment. If you travelled you might accidently meet someone. Instead of bashing your head against a wall in a bar every weekend or whatever, take the money and visit some stupid place, and see what happens. At worst, you will find yourself reflecting on your life in a different way, at best you will have a eureka moment and figure things out. You'll get an idea that I cant suggest because I don't know you.

 

[kantero]

I would advise travelling as much as possible.

Your mental state is linked to your immediate environment.

This is my own thinking but environmental = enviro (surrounding) mental = (mental state of mind)

Hence, your environment. And you can change it. Travel to someplace cheap. For no reason.

I am English but I have a house in Florida ($12k) and I come here and my mind and thoughts all change. I'm still single, but you know, it gives me scope to reflect on who I am in that other life in England.

Part of the problem as I see it is not being in a dynamic environment. If you travelled you might accidently meet someone. Instead of bashing your head against a wall in a bar every weekend or whatever, take the money and visit some stupid place, and see what happens. At worst, you will find yourself reflecting on your life in a different way, at best you will have a eureka moment and figure things out. You'll get an idea that I cant suggest because I don't know you.

My family have some money troubles and im 17 and im from not really good country, post-soviet. Don't know what i can do about this at this moment

 

[_incelinside]

I'm in a very similar situation to you

 

[jackbud]

nofap and NTmaxx by socialising more

nofap doesn't work

 

[IsolationHurts]

If you have some money, try a therapist. Sometimes it works. Also:

NTmaxx by socialising more

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Exercise
Socialize

 

[Hunter]

nofap doesn't work

it does for some

 

[kantero]

What nt and nt max mean?

 

[jackbud]

What nt and nt max mean?

neurotypical

 

[Diet_Choke]

How i can free myself from it? I maybe not attractive, but im not ugly. Yes, im young, look somewhat feminine and immature, but it mustn't make me a social retard, creepy autist who is scared of society. I'm tired of it. How can i be "easier" and stop bitching myself too hard? It may be strange to ask smth like that here, but i really think that it's exaggerated about me. I shouldn't be autist at least.

Go outside more, be social more, clean your room, bathe regularly, take care of yourself.

"Fake it till you make it."

 

[kantero]

Go outside more, be social more, clean your room, bathe regularly, take care of yourself.

"Fake it till you make it."

Socium isn't really interesting if it isn't friendly for you, but i'm not the one, who know nothing about interests and mainstream things. I'm in connect with socium somewhat but i don't interact with it, kek.
I bathe and clean my room actually, but what i should implement in life is - more exercising, more perfect diet and my bigest problem now is that i don't know how exactly i will earn money. This is just how i actually grown up, i wasn't that type who want to go to the cinema etc everyday, im not that kind of people, despite that i know i was too shy when i was younger.

 

[kantero]

neurotypical

thanks