I would assume most incels suffer from one form of mental illness or another. Personally, years of isolation and a history of abuse has given me post traumatic stress, social anxiety, and chronic depression. At the very minimum, an incel would become rejection averse through the very fact he's been rejected repeatedly.
An incel could maxx out every stat, infinite showers. Let's say a mentalcel who was Chad underneath all his flab lost the weight and began taking more chances socially. So he does the normie copes like barhopping or joining a meetup. He even gets attention from women and they approach him, but his mental illness destroys any chances of intimacy.
The core fear is of the woman inevitably abandoning him. Years of rejection and abuse crushes any sense of self worth. Taking the blackpill, the mentalcel conforms to the superficiality and vanity of modern society by lookmaxxing but understands these things are temporary and will go with age. He is embarrassed of his past steeped in isolation, worried if exposed to an interested female she would be embarrassed to share him with her friend hivemind.
By understanding female nature, he knows the woman can never truly "love" him. Just like cock carousel riding roasties with tons of Chad pump and dump trauma, the incel carries his own form of baggage that destroys his pair bonding mechanism. He will always feel a phony, constantly questioning his identity and worth. Looksmaxxing is a cope that circumvents any sort of self actualization. The incel exchanges a hollowed, shocked and traumatized self to a co-dependent who is held together by female validation.
What I'm trying to say is, we've all lost our innocence and because of this we can never truly love or trust. It was over before it began frens.
An incel could maxx out every stat, infinite showers. Let's say a mentalcel who was Chad underneath all his flab lost the weight and began taking more chances socially. So he does the normie copes like barhopping or joining a meetup. He even gets attention from women and they approach him, but his mental illness destroys any chances of intimacy.
The core fear is of the woman inevitably abandoning him. Years of rejection and abuse crushes any sense of self worth. Taking the blackpill, the mentalcel conforms to the superficiality and vanity of modern society by lookmaxxing but understands these things are temporary and will go with age. He is embarrassed of his past steeped in isolation, worried if exposed to an interested female she would be embarrassed to share him with her friend hivemind.
By understanding female nature, he knows the woman can never truly "love" him. Just like cock carousel riding roasties with tons of Chad pump and dump trauma, the incel carries his own form of baggage that destroys his pair bonding mechanism. He will always feel a phony, constantly questioning his identity and worth. Looksmaxxing is a cope that circumvents any sort of self actualization. The incel exchanges a hollowed, shocked and traumatized self to a co-dependent who is held together by female validation.
What I'm trying to say is, we've all lost our innocence and because of this we can never truly love or trust. It was over before it began frens.
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