I just noticed how I need to plan my outfits around having something loose covering my crotch area i.e. some oversized top
it's kinda ridiculous, I want to be able to wear leggings or tight shorts without having to put a potato sack on top to cover my penis area
why are bulges sexualized and why are we made to feel ashamed about them? it's a normal element of the anatomy, bulge-shaming is analogous to shaming women for having a visible outline of the tits - imagine the outrage if women were expected to wear binders and loose clothing to hide their curves and if they didn't, people would scream "pervert" or oogle their tits: and yet that's what we're doing to men
it starts right with puberty: boys are shamed to hell and back for any indication of an erection, my personal anecdote is that I hit puberty earlier and my penis seemed big when I changed for PE or during swimming classes, so everyone made fun of me for having a constant raging hard-on when it was literally just my flaccid penis size - erections just occur randomly (because penises inflating and deflating is literally what keeps them working) for various of reasons, you have no control over them and it's insanely egocentric to assume you're the one causing them (imagine if men went "ha, you whore, you're horny for me!" any time a girl blushed in their proximity)
I could understand the edge case of someone walking around with a constant hard-on, but men are shamed for any indication of having a penis and that's just ridiculous - on one hand, women care soooo much about men being hypersexual "real men", but on the other hand they also shame them for having male genitalia, fuck logic
it requires an entire essay to get to the root of, but it all ultimately stems from the societal view of male body and sexuality as "dirty", "disgusting", "impure", with the feminine body and sexuality being a standard of almost childish innocence - women are portrayed as reluctant to have sex, you need to encourage them and get them horny (the male being the agent doing this) and the penis is the desacrating element, introducing impurity, think of all the porn titles "tiny slut DESTROYED by a giant dick" - I doubt even men notice it, but removal of male agency, being reduced to to the body/genitalia (i.e. the girl isn't destroyed by a man with a huge dick, but rather the dick itself has an agency + men are usually portrayed as faceless genitalia floating from the edge of the screen) and being described as dirty, animalistic and impure (as opposed to the ever-virginal femininity) are super common and it's a clear dehumanizing shaming misandric agenda pushed on your minds
my goal is to free the penis because we deserve to wear whatever we want, it's not my fault I have a huge dick which may peek from underneath my clothes, form a bulge - I'm not ashamed of my body and the penis isn't inherently sexual, it's what YOU, the foids, make of it in your dirty minds - if women are allowed to wear revealing skintight clothing, so can I - if my penis (again, I'm talking about bulges stemming from regular flaccid or semi-flaccid penis, not exposing your hard-on to the world) is "indecent", so is your cleavage (which actually shows off parts of your organs, it's not even a fair comparison cos it'd be insane for men to e.g. expose a part of their balls - the more realistic comparison is a girl wearing a turtleneck sweater and getting shamed for having a visible outline of the boobs cos, duh, unless you wear a binder or literally a potato sack tier loose clothing, it will be visible and that's the expectation for the male penis)
I hate how women kvetch about being sexualized when men are literally shamed for reminding others that they do have a penis and are forced to wear boring niqab tier clothing - no wonder men aren't sexualized as much, because the mere thought of wearing revealing clothing (which just doesn't exist for men, it's already cross-dressing territory which is another hypocrisy cos women wear male clothing all the time) is such a huge social transgression that it doesn't happen and you can only sexualize a sexless blob of fabric so much (which women do anyway btw, I literally cover everything but my face, layers of clothing, not exposing even my neck, but I get harassed by the "normal well-adjusted people" because I dare to wear some pastel colors instead of my socially accepted choice of black and dark colors)
it's a neverending hypocrisy: the female body is glorified, celebrated and praised, while the male body is an object of shame, disgust and accusations of "perversions" (if a guy having a tiny, obviously flaccid, visible bulge in leggings makes you so hot and bothered, maybe you're the perverted one - it's just my anatomy, it's not inherently sexual, any body part can be sexual if you're creative, but if sex is "penis in vagina, input output repeat" for you, so you see these organs as inherently sexual in any situation, that's a YOU problem)
same goes for camel toes: female leggings keep getting made with stitching on the front instead of the sides, generating the camel toe, and no one cares about it (and they're right) because it's just anatomy, but if a guy wears leggings and you see some bulge: no no no, heckin inkwell pervert, crucify him - disgusting hypocrites
it goes alongside a general trend of women being able to wear more comfortable clothing, exposing more skin in the summer (cos it's fucking hot), while men are expected to dress extremely conservatively in an extremely limited range of styles (a common example is school outfits which often allow long pants for fall/winter and short (approximately knee length) skirts for summer for girls, while boys only get the long pants) - the whole misandry in fashion fiasco is for another subject, but think about it sometime
it's kinda ridiculous, I want to be able to wear leggings or tight shorts without having to put a potato sack on top to cover my penis area
why are bulges sexualized and why are we made to feel ashamed about them? it's a normal element of the anatomy, bulge-shaming is analogous to shaming women for having a visible outline of the tits - imagine the outrage if women were expected to wear binders and loose clothing to hide their curves and if they didn't, people would scream "pervert" or oogle their tits: and yet that's what we're doing to men
it starts right with puberty: boys are shamed to hell and back for any indication of an erection, my personal anecdote is that I hit puberty earlier and my penis seemed big when I changed for PE or during swimming classes, so everyone made fun of me for having a constant raging hard-on when it was literally just my flaccid penis size - erections just occur randomly (because penises inflating and deflating is literally what keeps them working) for various of reasons, you have no control over them and it's insanely egocentric to assume you're the one causing them (imagine if men went "ha, you whore, you're horny for me!" any time a girl blushed in their proximity)
I could understand the edge case of someone walking around with a constant hard-on, but men are shamed for any indication of having a penis and that's just ridiculous - on one hand, women care soooo much about men being hypersexual "real men", but on the other hand they also shame them for having male genitalia, fuck logic
it requires an entire essay to get to the root of, but it all ultimately stems from the societal view of male body and sexuality as "dirty", "disgusting", "impure", with the feminine body and sexuality being a standard of almost childish innocence - women are portrayed as reluctant to have sex, you need to encourage them and get them horny (the male being the agent doing this) and the penis is the desacrating element, introducing impurity, think of all the porn titles "tiny slut DESTROYED by a giant dick" - I doubt even men notice it, but removal of male agency, being reduced to to the body/genitalia (i.e. the girl isn't destroyed by a man with a huge dick, but rather the dick itself has an agency + men are usually portrayed as faceless genitalia floating from the edge of the screen) and being described as dirty, animalistic and impure (as opposed to the ever-virginal femininity) are super common and it's a clear dehumanizing shaming misandric agenda pushed on your minds
my goal is to free the penis because we deserve to wear whatever we want, it's not my fault I have a huge dick which may peek from underneath my clothes, form a bulge - I'm not ashamed of my body and the penis isn't inherently sexual, it's what YOU, the foids, make of it in your dirty minds - if women are allowed to wear revealing skintight clothing, so can I - if my penis (again, I'm talking about bulges stemming from regular flaccid or semi-flaccid penis, not exposing your hard-on to the world) is "indecent", so is your cleavage (which actually shows off parts of your organs, it's not even a fair comparison cos it'd be insane for men to e.g. expose a part of their balls - the more realistic comparison is a girl wearing a turtleneck sweater and getting shamed for having a visible outline of the boobs cos, duh, unless you wear a binder or literally a potato sack tier loose clothing, it will be visible and that's the expectation for the male penis)
I hate how women kvetch about being sexualized when men are literally shamed for reminding others that they do have a penis and are forced to wear boring niqab tier clothing - no wonder men aren't sexualized as much, because the mere thought of wearing revealing clothing (which just doesn't exist for men, it's already cross-dressing territory which is another hypocrisy cos women wear male clothing all the time) is such a huge social transgression that it doesn't happen and you can only sexualize a sexless blob of fabric so much (which women do anyway btw, I literally cover everything but my face, layers of clothing, not exposing even my neck, but I get harassed by the "normal well-adjusted people" because I dare to wear some pastel colors instead of my socially accepted choice of black and dark colors)
it's a neverending hypocrisy: the female body is glorified, celebrated and praised, while the male body is an object of shame, disgust and accusations of "perversions" (if a guy having a tiny, obviously flaccid, visible bulge in leggings makes you so hot and bothered, maybe you're the perverted one - it's just my anatomy, it's not inherently sexual, any body part can be sexual if you're creative, but if sex is "penis in vagina, input output repeat" for you, so you see these organs as inherently sexual in any situation, that's a YOU problem)
same goes for camel toes: female leggings keep getting made with stitching on the front instead of the sides, generating the camel toe, and no one cares about it (and they're right) because it's just anatomy, but if a guy wears leggings and you see some bulge: no no no, heckin inkwell pervert, crucify him - disgusting hypocrites
it goes alongside a general trend of women being able to wear more comfortable clothing, exposing more skin in the summer (cos it's fucking hot), while men are expected to dress extremely conservatively in an extremely limited range of styles (a common example is school outfits which often allow long pants for fall/winter and short (approximately knee length) skirts for summer for girls, while boys only get the long pants) - the whole misandry in fashion fiasco is for another subject, but think about it sometime
