JFL Man discovers his girlfriend misses Chad and kept love letters from him (and also sent another guy nudes)

[PhineasSpear]

Didn't know what to post today but I found this.

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1s20ar0/how_do_i_21m_proceed_in_a_relationship_with_my/

She and her ex were together almost 3 years, so when they broke up it obviously took her time to get over it and I was there to listen to her purely as just a friend, this unfortunately progressed into the time in which we were dating and I eventually had to tell her that as her boyfriend I was uncomfortable talking about her ex.

the unfortunate part is that she kept 2 love letters he wrote to her, she currently has them displayed on a mural on her wall (the mural is very well done, an eclectic mix of cards, pictures, and papers she has collected over several years and she's had it on display for a long time), the letters are in cards and I'm really not sure whether or not she knows that I know what they are, but I've ignored it in order for her to maintain the mural wall she loves. I've even given her cards for holidays or special occasions that also have letters written in them, but those cards are currently sitting in a drawer because she says they "don't fit the vibe of the mural."

Brutal.

Another problem I've noticed is with her diary, I understand its private but I've seen her friends pick it up and she calmly asks them to please put her diary down, I accidentally picked it up one day and she yelled at me about touching it, which really caught me off guard due to her sudden overreaction.

Wonder what's in the diary

After a while I found myself alone in her room, with permission, and I once again stumbled across the diary, being curious about why she was so defensive that day I opened it, the contents have absolutely broken me, the first entry I flipped to was dated less than a month into us dating and it was her confessing that she sent nudes to another guy and was feeling remorseful for doing so

The part that really broke me is a series of entries dated to only around a month and a half ago that state she is beyond happy being with me but unsure if I am really the right guy for her and that she still holds a lot of love in her heart for her ex.

She mentions the ex in most of the entries over the course of 2 weeks saying she really loves him, the worst entry was, and this is a direct quote, "It's okay to love him still and know we were great together. And it's okay we're not together right now. But the ending did leave some room for hope and for reconnection. But I don't know" and then she drew a little heart to end the entry.

Over.

I really don't want to break up with her, I love her more than I've ever loved someone in my life, but I really don't know if there's any other way to go about it, I'm hoping that someone in here might give me hope that my relationship isn't dead and that there's still a chance for her and I to be together.

And of course he's in denial.

 

[Needle]

 

[anon65]

Boomers who say "Just start a friendship with a woman and maybe it will blossom into a romantic relationship" need to be endlessly pounded by a stampede of elephants into sand until their lungs are completely filled with sand grains and they are suffocating while their lungs are being ripped apart by the coarse material and their blood mixes with the granules to form red sand in minecraft.

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

if u were the right guy for her she would be sending those nudes to your personal phone you fucking retard

behind the scenes of sub-chads relationships is a fucking brutal reminder mere relationship status doesnt mean shit.
sub 8s cannot know true ascension
its only their turn to entertain the whore while she actively searches for a satisfying option

 

[PPEcel]

Boomers who say "Just start a friendship with a woman and maybe it will blossom into a romantic relationship" need to be endlessly pounded by a stampede of elephants into sand until their lungs are completely filled with sand grains and they are suffocating while their lungs are being ripped apart by the coarse material and their blood mixes with the granules to form red sand in minecraft.

 

[VanGobbel]

Just ascend boyos

 

[VanGobbel]

Brutal.

Willingly cucked himself. Muh frendship to bf weasel kek

Wonder what's in the diary

Poetry about Chad's dick, balls, cum and asshole and how she loved all of it all the time. (Won't give her current "bf" more than 5 minutes missionary if he's lucky)

Over.

Never began. This is what awaits every youngcel trying to "ascend". Especially as a friendship cuck aiming to convert into romance.

 

[t3mcel]

Never began. This is what awaits every youngcel trying to "ascend". Especially as a friendship cuck aiming to convert into romance.

fool me once... he aint wrong it never began

 

[Initium]

One more reason to only get with a virgin. Less potential problems.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

He’s a cuck.

 

[RottingMentalIago]

I think it’s hilarious how she has love letters from Chad on the wall but won’t even put his cards on the wall and instead dumps them in the drawer. He is such a cuck lmao.

 

[Erenincel]

Boomers who say "Just start a friendship with a woman and maybe it will blossom into a romantic relationship" need to be endlessly pounded by a stampede of elephants into sand until their lungs are completely filled with sand grains and they are suffocating while their lungs are being ripped apart by the coarse material and their blood mixes with the granules to form red sand in minecraft.

This

 

[Doroth]

Lmao dudes a retard in denial on the chair while she’s fantasizing about exes penis and sending nudes to chad since she’s “unsure” about her options? ‍

 

[Doroth]

LMAO CHAD GETS A MURAL HE GETS A DRAWER LOOOOOL

 

[ogercel]

He should konour hill her, thats if this isnt some kind of cuck erotica.

 

[TooSomething]

This is what you will get as a man, when you get into a relationship with a non-virgin foid.

Even if you are a Chad, not every foid you will have a relationship with will be a virgin.
She too will still reminisce about her ex / exes.

It is very simple, ascension is ONLY possible with a virgin foid who stays with you.

If you just manage to fuck a virgin foid it does not mean much either.

Ascension is when you get with a teen virgin foid in your teens and stay together and build a life together, with children, through thick and thin.

THAT is ascension. Everything else is bullshit.

Even if you get voluntary sex from a foid in you thirties or fourties, you are FAR AWAY from ascension.

 

[TooSomething]

if u were the right guy for her she would be sending those nudes to your personal phone you fucking retard

behind the scenes of sub-chads relationships is a fucking brutal reminder mere relationship status doesnt mean shit.
sub 8s cannot know true ascension
its only their turn to entertain the whore while she actively searches for a satisfying option

This is fucking brutal.

 

[razielkillerofgods]

This is what you will get as a man, when you get into a relationship with a non-virgin foid.

Even if you are a Chad, not every foid you will have a relationship with will be a virgin.
She too will still reminisce about her ex / exes.

It is very simple, ascension is ONLY possible with a virgin foid who stays with you.

If you just manage to fuck a virgin foid it does not mean much either.

Ascension is when you get with a teen virgin foid in your teens and stay together and build a life together, with children, through thick and thin.

THAT is ascension. Everything else is bullshit.

Even if you get voluntary sex from a foid in you thirties or fourties, you are FAR AWAY from ascension.

True. Ascending in a short term relationship would just be a fluke and then when its over you probably can't find anyone again for the rest of your life. You basically end up like Raymond Thots and Mind

 

[TooSomething]

I think it’s hilarious how she has love letters from Chad on the wall but won’t even put his cards on the wall and instead dumps them in the drawer. He is such a cuck lmao.

"It's okay to love him still and know we were great together. And it's okay we're not together right now."

If this isn't enough evidence that she considers going back to him then this cuck deserves it all.
One way or another, their "relationship" is doomed to fail.

 

[TooSomething]

True. Ascending in a short term relationship would just be a fluke and then when its over you probably can't find anyone again for the rest of your life. You basically end up like Raymond Thots and Mind

I know this Raymond guy. It is so over for him. Now more than ever, since he started complaining about it on youtube.

 

[razielkillerofgods]

I know this Raymond guy. It is so over for him. Now more than ever, since he started complaining about it on youtube.

When its over, complaining is the only thing you got left. At least it makes normiefags mad. And it exposed how much of an incel in denial Griffin Gayming is. He makes fun of incels and dogpilles on their channels yet he is a fat soy faggot. Griffin Gaming reminds me of IT fags and I wouldn't be surprised if he posts on there too.

 

[St3v3Cel]

The evil of women knows no bounds. It is all too typical.

 

[Halloween]

The evil of women knows no bounds. It is all too typical.

only if you’re subchad

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

only if you’re subchad

not only. if u commit to only one woman as a chad she would get the levreage in relationship and cheat on u with better looking chad

 

[ItsOverMan]

Love letters. Imagine getting a love letter from a woman. It's something I can't imagine like I can't imagine what sex is like.

 

[Jordon Peterson9900]

Didn't know what to post today but I found this.

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1s20ar0/how_do_i_21m_proceed_in_a_relationship_with_my/



Brutal.

Wonder what's in the diary



Over.

And of course he's in denial.

Ragefuel

 

[StarvingSlayer]

This type of shit makes me questions whether normies might have it worse than us. At least we are blackpilled enough to understand what’s going on, but these fucking fags have to be cucks in denial for months on end just have their girl taken by some chad

 

[StarvingSlayer]

The amount of self humiliation is baffling, most of the time they even cope with thinking they are the problem jfl

 

[electricSon90]

"Average couple" final boss

 

[FoidsEnshittifyAll]

if youve read any amount of victorian era romances, you know even virgin teen toilets can be ABSOLUTELY CHAD-WIDOWED by a Chad interacting with them, even for a short while; even if no sex involved. once imprinted by Chad , she can't settle for less... .

 

[Izayacel]

I think it’s hilarious how she has love letters from Chad on the wall but won’t even put his cards on the wall and instead dumps them in the drawer. He is such a cuck lmao.

 

[Izayacel]

My PartnERs cards didnt Fit the vibe "

But chads apparently does

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Another reason why it's better to have a virgin with zero partners.

 

[Rick prime]

I know this Raymond guy. It is so over for him. Now more than ever, since he started complaining about it on youtube.

Pretty sure he’s a federal asset baby via his weird enabling father

 

[Rick prime]

When it’s over, complaining is the only thing you got left. At least it makes normiefags mad. And it exposed how much of an incel in denial Griffin Gayming is. He makes fun of incels and dogpilles on their channels yet he is a fat soy faggot. Griffin Gaming reminds me of IT fags and I wouldn't be surprised if he posts on there too.

Raymond literally punches down on trucels though jfl, anyone who takes his claims seriously prolly shouldn’t have access to a credit card. Griffin gayming I sa boomer assmongold wannabe

 

[fukurou]

virgin or cope.

 

[parbate2025]

Didn't know what to post today but I found this.

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1s20ar0/how_do_i_21m_proceed_in_a_relationship_with_my/



Brutal.

Wonder what's in the diary



Over.

And of course he's in denial.

"Permission"
"Privacy"
Just lol
He deserved all of that

 

[TooSomething]

Pretty sure he’s a federal asset baby via his weird enabling father

Explain please. I have not watched his videos in a while.

 

[yeetbender_]

Boomers who say "Just start a friendship with a woman and maybe it will blossom into a romantic relationship" need to be endlessly pounded by a stampede of elephants into sand until their lungs are completely filled with sand grains and they are suffocating while their lungs are being ripped apart by the coarse material and their blood mixes with the granules to form red sand in minecraft.

 

[nihilum]

Average relationship in 2026.