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Adultery is a form of rape. I am a male rape victim. Going through that was toture. It changed me in the years after, completely altered my sense of self and left me broken for several years, but in the moment was the worst violation I could imagine. I dabbled in hard drugs, refused to use my birth name, because the person i was, was weak and probably deserved it in my eyes. Years went by and I got my life together. Dated a girl for 4 years. Got engaged. Then she cheated on me. I don't know how to describe this new low. I didn't leave her because there was no "me" left to do so. No will power, nor energy, nor desire to live. I wanted to die. To kill. Murder became the only thing I cared about and I became obsessed. It was the only concept that made me feel strong. Years passed again, this time without any healing. I married her while wishing she had been raped rather than coerced. Dark thoughts were all I knew. We divorced 4 years later and I was free, but it had changed me even more than being molested as a child. You see the cheating violated me in exactly the way being molested did, but on a deeper, more personal level.
So yes; make it illegal on pain of death. I'll start gathering stones.
http://www.debate.org/opinions/should-adultery-be-made-illegal