Obviously, men initiate relationships, toilets only ask out the top 1% of men but men ask out whatever sticks.
My explanation for why you see so many non-Chad's in relationships is because they're (the Normies) all going for toilets on our level.
I'm not just talking about looks here, mentalceldom is a real thing for sub-Chad's and the NTpill is absolutely brutal, unless you're a Chad you're not going to actively receive choosing signals and you'll have to do the pursuing. If you're Autistic you'll be filtered out because you can even ask for a date because of your awkward conversation skills, I don't don't even get HOW I have any friends.
Yesterday I just heard that a Wuhan friend's 2 year old son is already diagnosed with Autism, she's Chinese but her son looks almost 100% White with blonde hair, though he has slanted eyefolds, his father is a tall (6'6~6'7) blonde haired blue eyed nerdy White statusmaxxed guy with 0 friends, despite her teaching at an American University she immigrated to Germany to ride this Dutchman's dick, despite her teaching in the Whitest part of America. This just shows that JBD (Just be Dutch) is stronger than a mere JBW (Just be White) because of how tall everyone is here.
Anyhow, the kid will later probably have to go Gookmaxxing , or even worse, Afromaxxing to ascend. There is a 0% chance he'll be able to partner up here.
I went to a special school in the Netherlands and while almost all boys with ADHD now have relationships (ADHDpill), of the Autists only a minority do. One guy got a Saigonese girlfriend through JBW and she earned like 5 times as much money than him, but she dumped him a few years ago.