Making the first step

[TomathonClancy]

So I thought I’d try being more social in public, at least with guys. But for some reason, it’s impossible to even interact with them. I speak in a very deep even tone that seems very serious, almost angry.

I’ve yet to initiate conversation with a single person in Union this year; the closest I’ve gotten was asking help from TA’s and one time where I asked a guy where the line to a food court started.

I can’t even imagine talking to girls. Every time I see one, I just clench my jaw, bite my cheeks (I remember a Brett Maverick video where he said it’d give he impression of hollow cheeks) and look the other way. I am worried that I’m going to get stuff like Bruxism if I continue this though.

How do I approach people? This is such an alien concept to me.

 

[Luxity]

Ask @uninstall he’s the cold approach God

 

[INeed4000Bucks]

Say hi, introduce yourself, and then ask people what they’re thoughts are on an aspect of whatever circumstance you’re in.
For example, you can ask someone how they think they did on whatever test you took. It works for me with guys. It works more often with guys than with girls for me. But just remember, it can work with any gender