RageFuel Making friends is just like finding a girlfriend

[vorinar]

People have to want to be friends with you. I’ve joined hobby clubs, gone outside bro, joined church despite not even being religious, talked to older neighbors, asked for social media and numbers at work, contacted people from high school, been to bars and clubs (also hit on foids and got thrown out), need I go on?

IT lurkers here, I’ve tried WAY WAY harder than anyone here and certainly harder than you bunch of ITers. And im no longer a 20 year old virgin, I’m a 28 year old virgin trucel.

 

[HONKLERMANIA]

elab with your experiences bruv

 

[JKlancecaster069]

As a sub5 male the only way you can possibly make "friends" is through shit like jestermaxxing which isn't worth it.

 

[vorinar]

elab with your experiences bruv add

I tried getting contact info from men and even women at work. I simply asked if they wanted to go anywhere or play video games. They all said they would, but they didn’t.

At church everyone had their little huddles and didn’t want me in. Neighbors just said “hi” if I spoke to them and then blew me off. At the hobby clubs I almost made friends but a foid lied and said I grabbed her ass, therefore getting me banned. Nobody there speaks to me anymore because they “believe women.”

Last, nobody from high school got back to me. Thats it.

 

[Grodd]

As a sub5 male the only way you can possibly make "friends" is through shit like jestermaxxing which isn't worth it.

 

[vorinar]

As a sub5 male the only way you can possibly make "friends" is through shit like jestermaxxing which isn't worth it.

I’m gonna try moneymaxxing. Money talks, everyone else walks. Even now that’s true

 

[TheJester]

People have to want to be friends with you. I’ve joined hobby clubs, gone outside bro, joined church despite not even being religious, talked to older neighbors, asked for social media and numbers at work, contacted people from high school, been to bars and clubs (also hit on foids and got thrown out), need I go on?

IT lurkers here, I’ve tried WAY WAY harder than anyone here and certainly harder than you bunch of ITers. And im no longer a 20 year old virgin, I’m a 28 year old virgin trucel.

You didnt try harder then me because I did all of these things and have multiple posts about friends.

Matter of fact is once you are 18+ friends dont come by easily and in fact at that age there are already no friends anymore.

Its all just for networking. A little capitalistic connection. Friendship never truely existed. Especially not for lonely men.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Past college age, you don't make "friends". It's just people nearby you talk with sometimes, or maybe a few people who share hobbies that you mingle with to fill time.

 

[vorinar]

Past college age, you don't make "friends". It's just people nearby you talk with sometimes, or maybe a few people who share hobbies that you mingle with to fill time.

True. All the way

 

[hustervista]

Making friends so hard in hs, normies just wanna vape and hit on girls its almost retarded

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

I had plenty of friends when I was in my teens and early 20s. I'm lucky to have been born when I was though, because your generation is mostly hyper-introverted homebodies with zero desire to make friends in real life. They just want to stay at home, scroll on social media, and watch netflix. They only go outside out of necessity (go to class, grocery shopping) or to do solo activities (eg. gym). Nobody really goes out with friends just to hang out...then again I don't even know where they'd go to hangout assuming they even wanted to since the hangout spots from back in my day (malls, arcades, etc.) are mostly gone. I know this is an iroooooonic reddit circlejerk meme phrase, but you were legitimately born in the wrong generation, OP.

Past college age, you don't make "friends". It's just people nearby you talk with sometimes, or maybe a few people who share hobbies that you mingle with to fill time.

Yeah that's true. While I didn't have any problems making friends in my teens and early 20s, I haven't made a single close friend since I was 25, and I'm in my late 30s now.

Making friends so hard in hs, normies just wanna vape and hit on girls its almost retarded

I take it you're a zoomer. Yeah, male zoomers seem to only be interested in dopamine hits, gym/self-improvement, politics, and women. They don't have any interest in male friends.

 

[Cincel]

I doubt I have had a friend at some point.
I have always been a piece of shit so it's not rare to me that.

 

[KillNiggers]

I had plenty of friends when I was in my teens and early 20s. I'm lucky to have been born when I was though, because your generation is mostly hyper-introverted homebodies with zero desire to make friends in real life. They just want to stay at home, scroll on social media, and watch netflix. They only go outside out of necessity (go to class, grocery shopping) or to do solo activities (eg. gym). Nobody really goes out with friends just to hang out...then again I don't even know where they'd go to hangout assuming they even wanted to since the hangout spots from back in my day (malls, arcades, etc.) are mostly gone. I know this is an iroooooonic reddit circlejerk meme phrase, but you were legitimately born in the wrong generation, OP.

This shit is straight up suifuel. Literally nobody wants to do shit anymore. The intenet is a fucking curse I wish didn't exist. Now zoomerfags don't want to do shit but constantly scroll on their gay little apps. Even in places like college EVERY SINGLE PERSON is on their phones. Not a single person I've seen wants to talk and if they do it's about what needs to be done in class. Only a select few discuss something who are good friends. This is just depressing. Your generation must've been way better than this crap. You have to know a every single meme or you are just left in the dust and people label you as some boomer.

 

[BSGMANLET]

People like us should just LDAR.
No point in trying cause you'll still end up in the same spot unless you get lucky.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

This shit is straight up suifuel. Literally nobody wants to do shit anymore. The intenet is a fucking curse I wish didn't exist. Now zoomerfags don't want to do shit but constantly scroll on their gay little apps. Even in places like college EVERY SINGLE PERSON is on their phones. Not a single person I've seen wants to talk and if they do it's about what needs to be done in class. Only a select few discuss something who are good friends. This is just depressing. Your generation must've been way better than this crap. You have to know a every single meme or you are just left in the dust and people label you as some boomer.

It's not just the internet. All sense of community has been destroyed. There's nowhere to go. Nobody cares. The only purpose for these young men is try getting women and wageslaving.

 

[hustervista]

It's not just the internet. All sense of community has been destroyed. There's nowhere to go. Nobody cares. The only purpose for these young men is try getting women and wageslaving.

Bro im tired of these women always gossiping and being toxic as shit, like i tried talking to a girl from another class and bitch started saying "ur a psycho" "i heard rumours about you but i wont tell you" like shit man girls so hard to talk to but then i see egomaniac skinny guy who vapes and always brags about doing kickboxing talking to them easy like wtf am i doing wrong?

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

This shit is straight up suifuel. Literally nobody wants to do shit anymore. The intenet is a fucking curse I wish didn't exist. Now zoomerfags don't want to do shit but constantly scroll on their gay little apps. Even in places like college EVERY SINGLE PERSON is on their phones. Not a single person I've seen wants to talk and if they do it's about what needs to be done in class. Only a select few discuss something who are good friends. This is just depressing. Your generation must've been way better than this crap. You have to know a every single meme or you are just left in the dust and people label you as some boomer.

Being a male zoomer sounds like an absolute nightmare. I was extroverted, social and low inhib in my youth, I can't imagine growing up in such a horrible social climate (if you can even call it that).

Your generation must've been way better than this crap.

Yes, but I'd argue it depends on which part of my generation. I graduated a little before myspace blew up and smartphones (although we had proto-smartphones like those early 2000s blackberries). I'd say 2006-2007 was when there was this cultural shift where the internet was becoming mainstream. So you have the older millennials who were born in the 80s who grew up without all this shit, then you have the 1990-1995 born millennials who were in middle or high school during this cultural shift. To me, those are basically zoomer-lite. Sort of like how the oldest members of gen X (the ones born in the mid to late 60s) are boomer-lite.

 

[universallyabhorres]

I had plenty of friends when I was in my teens and early 20s. I'm lucky to have been born when I was though, because your generation is mostly hyper-introverted homebodies with zero desire to make friends in real life. They just want to stay at home, scroll on social media, and watch netflix. They only go outside out of necessity (go to class, grocery shopping) or to do solo activities (eg. gym). Nobody really goes out with friends just to hang out...then again I don't even know where they'd go to hangout assuming they even wanted to since the hangout spots from back in my day (malls, arcades, etc.) are mostly gone. I know this is an iroooooonic reddit circlejerk meme phrase, but you were legitimately born in the wrong generation, OP.



Yeah that's true. While I didn't have any problems making friends in my teens and early 20s, I haven't made a single close friend since I was 25, and I'm in my late 30s now.



I take it you're a zoomer. Yeah, male zoomers seem to only be interested in dopamine hits, gym/self-improvement, politics, and women. They don't have any interest in male friends.

I really do respect you because you are an OG and sub4 but as someone who's 27 and Gen Z, I have to disagree. I have had the opportunity to interact with regular men who are all around 4.5-6/10 in looks during group therapy and I was completely ostracized due to being sub4. They were between 18-22 and all had friends who they hung out with multiple times a week and these people were all mentally ill. I don't know how successful the guys who were 4.5-5.5 were in getting women, but there were attractive guys above 5.5 who all had girlfriends or sex and were popular in group. I also plenty of average looking guys hanging with other guys or women in my college.

I never see ugly guys who have friends though. One of the ugly guys who's 3.5/10 like me I had to partner with in class and he couldn't find other people to partner with because of his looks. Anyway, he always kept to himself and rarely ever talked to anyone including me. He did have a rich online social life though I saw him on Discord and texting girls, not sure if they were online friendships or IRL, but there's no way he has a gf or has real friends.

Based on this being ugly is the only reason for people to not have friends. Maybe it was easier for uglier guys in your generation to make friends, but right now it's impossible, even other guys won't hang around someone who is ugly.

 

[justuseless]

Making friends is impossible

 

[Friezacel]

I had plenty of friends when I was in my teens and early 20s. I'm lucky to have been born when I was though, because your generation is mostly hyper-introverted homebodies with zero desire to make friends in real life. They just want to stay at home, scroll on social media, and watch netflix. They only go outside out of necessity (go to class, grocery shopping) or to do solo activities (eg. gym). Nobody really goes out with friends just to hang out...then again I don't even know where they'd go to hangout assuming they even wanted to since the hangout spots from back in my day (malls, arcades, etc.) are mostly gone. I know this is an iroooooonic reddit circlejerk meme phrase, but you were legitimately born in the wrong generation, OP.

Most normie guys do go outside. They just dont wanna go outside with losers like us

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Yeah, I’ve been into the same hobbies all my life and tried talking to many people into the same hobby. The conversations are always surface level and never lead to making friends. No matter how hard I try, people just don’t wanna interact with me

 

[Devilspawncel]

People have to want to be friends with you. I’ve joined hobby clubs, gone outside bro, joined church despite not even being religious, talked to older neighbors, asked for social media and numbers at work, contacted people from high school, been to bars and clubs (also hit on foids and got thrown out), need I go on?

IT lurkers here, I’ve tried WAY WAY harder than anyone here and certainly harder than you bunch of ITers. And im no longer a 20 year old virgin, I’m a 28 year old virgin trucel.

Yeah I've tried to soycialize with the normies at my school. The damning realization is that it's just too fucking late.

My peers are mature now; they have extra shit going on and have their lives ahead of them. They're not going to have that childish playfulness that makes bonding so easy (nuclear NT pill). You have to actually contribute to their pursuits in life or you are nothing to them. Making friends and learning to socialize is something you do in middle school at the latest. Otherwise you are gonna be that slow horse nobody places bets on.

genuine subhuman trait: ovER before highschool grajewation

 

[Devilspawncel]

Yeah, I’ve been into the same hobbies all my life and tried talking to many people into the same hobby. The conversations are always surface level and never lead to making friends. No matter how hard I try, people just don’t wanna interact with me

If you can't get em money or pussy, you are worth less than dirt to them

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

If you can't get em money or pussy, you are worth less than dirt to them

True

 

[SrutalBeggs]

yeah if you look like shit enough, you will be treated like shit by normfags