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Made a post on Kijiji about wanting to meet a friend "NO SEX, Drugs, Alcohol or anything. Just healthy, fun activities"

BabyFacedIncel

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All the guys who messaged, one I talked with on the phone was clearly gay probably having a fetish of trying to convert a straight guy.
I ended up having one femoid who liked what I posted and we met at a coffee shop, when I got off work. Decent looking, she said hi and we walked and talked for about 10, 15 minutes and she was just talking about how she plays tennis and I said id like to learn. Anyway before we split she said "Get back to me we will make plans for tennis sometime"

I texted her once. No reply, a few days later, no reply. So even when I make a post basically saying "I do not want sex" Femoids STILL have to find the guy attractive to even consider as a friend.
 
I see these posts by gay guys on craigslist all the time. Nothing sexual, just looking to bro-out. I always wonder if it is worth the risk. I'm pretty unattractive so maybe they wouldn't try nothing. Then again, hetero sex talk is bad enough to deal with, I don't want to hear about how big the last load was he has taken.
 
>Went out with a female
 
You have to recognize that women choose friends like they choose clothes. If you're too ugly to fuck, you're too ugly to be her friend as well because she wants a beta orbiter, and she wants the best looking beta orbiters possible so that guys who are more attractive than her already decent male friends will one-up them and win her.

A woman's friend group exists to boost her status. Friends for women are like cars or suits for men.
 
Damn, you are lowinhibmaxxed to be able to do that.
 
Before assuming it was cause of looks...
What were the topics of conversation?

What did you say vs what did she say? Curious.
 
Before assuming it was cause of looks...
What were the topics of conversation?

What did you say vs what did she say? Curious.

Basically she said she liked my post and was also looking for someone for fun activities. She pulled out a pack of cigarettes and said sorry I smoke, I said thats okay, I do too and pulled out my pack too and we kind of laughed. Then she just talked about how she liked playing tennis and I talked about how I miss sports from HS but want to get back into them, she mentioned playing tennis saying we could/would play. It was a 10 minute walk with no awkward pauses or anything I dont quite remember all what was said as it was a few years ago now. It just came up in my mind
 
Basically she said she liked my post and was also looking for someone for fun activities. She pulled out a pack of cigarettes and said sorry I smoke, I said thats okay, I do too and pulled out my pack too and we kind of laughed. Then she just talked about how she liked playing tennis and I talked about how I miss sports from HS but want to get back into them, she mentioned playing tennis saying we could/would play. It was a 10 minute walk with no awkward pauses or anything I dont quite remember all what was said as it was a few years ago now. It just came up in my mind

Yeah that does seem like it went pretty well doesn't it. Girls are weird.

I understand where you're coming from and I've been in situations like those a TON of times. Feels like shit. Every time. Despite not wanting to take it personally, it's hard not to.

Sometimes the girls choose not to follow up with situations like these because maybe she worries about what her friends and fam would think of the guy.

Do you work on yourself at all like trying to dress better, exercise actively, groom yourself frequently? I find that helps, despite countless people telling me it doesn't I see the result in the real world.
 
Youre supposed to wait a week before texting to not come off as desperate. You fucked up op. Thats what redpill said anyway
 
I see these posts by gay guys on craigslist all the time. Nothing sexual, just looking to bro-out. I always wonder if it is worth the risk. I'm pretty unattractive so maybe they wouldn't try nothing. Then again, hetero sex talk is bad enough to deal with, I don't want to hear about how big the last load was he has taken.
 

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