Blackpill Love from family doesnt matter love from outside the family matters

[iKillCucks]

Love from your family doesn't matter it is fucking worthless because they usually love you and value you unconditionally and even if they don't it doesn't matter either because YOU CANT FUCK YOUR FAMILY YOU CANT DATE YOUR FAMILY OR HAVE KIDS OR A FUTURE WITH THEM

Love and value is worthless and means nothing. Only when it comes from the outside source or outside humans does it matter

 

[Moustachcel]

high iq the family only pretends to love you

 

[Deleted member 60]

Mount Everest IQ. It only matters if your sister will fuck you.

 

[iKillCucks]

high iq the family only pretends to love you

Or they spit blue pilled non sense of how "oh you're so handsome" "there's some one for everyone just be yourself" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH yea okay

Mount Everest IQ. It only matters if your sister will fuck you.

And only if she's a stacy bro

 

[Moustachcel]

Mount Everest IQ. It only matters if your sister will fuck you.

stepsister helps brother with masturbation

 

[Spite]

Mount Everest IQ. It only matters if your sister will fuck you.

Imagine having a step-sister to fuck

 

[iKillCucks]

Imagine having a step-sister to fuck

Shed be getting railed out every night by me

 

[anon]

Validation from non-biased people matters the most.
My mom can call me handsome all she wants, I know she's biased and she's just trying to boost my confidence. Everyone knows this.

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

Truth. I have the same love from my family that most normies have, but I'm still miserable because the outside world despises me.

 

[StaroRavager]

The only people who ever cared about me were family and friends of the family jfl

 

[inklingPro 1980]

It matters. Of course as incels we desire love and acceptance from outside. But it's harder for us. That's a given. Why discount family? I'm so sock of everyone on this site looking at normie lives as the ulimate level. That shit doesn't help anybody. It doesn't change anything.

 

[Kirito3]

Love from your family is unconditional, and while it can be a useful support network, it ultimately provides no validation of your person/achievements and therefore, unlike non family love, contributes little to your esteem because of its unconditional nature.

On the other hand, non familial love is validating. They have no reason or pressure to love you- it's a choice. If they love you, you know you earned it and deserve it- based on your genetics, traits, achievements. They love you because you are you, not because you are family, which greatly contributes to esteem and sense of self worth.

Especially in modern western schools of thought, that value (supposedly) earned achievements over ones given on the onset, it can be very hard to find confidence and inner strength when nobody is out there to truly give you the stamp of approval on your life. The stamp of approval from family is a trivial participation award.

 

[iKillCucks]

It matters. Of course as incels we desire love and acceptance from outside. But it's harder for us. That's a given. Why discount family? I'm so sock of everyone on this site looking at normie lives as the ulimate level. That shit doesn't help anybody. It doesn't change anything.

Why discount family love ? Because it means absolutely nothing in terms of value, worth, and attractiveness. Its like having an appendix its just there but it does nothing and useless when it comes to actual functions and traits needed for survival and happy longevity.

 

[inklingPro 1980]

Why discount family love ? Because it means absolutely nothing in terms of value, worth, and attractiveness. Its like having an appendix its just there but it does nothing and useless when it comes to actual functions and traits needed for survival and happy longevity.

As per modern society. The same society that created inceledom. Society is fucked up dude. I don't know anything about your family but mine means a lot to me. It's one of the few things in my life that remains solid.

Of course it sucks being alone. I know my parents won't be here someday. Three of four siblings are married with family and have good jobs. No I'm not thrilled about that. But the ONE thing I want is a good job. I'd love to make real money. That's the source of my anger. They have dual incomes. I work for myself and still rent from parents at fucking 38. So I think I am understanding you. Only I want a real job more than anything. Without a degree you get shit wages if anything at all. That's what pisses me off.