When puberty hits and sexual hierarchy develops, the people who are at the top hold the top, and a pyramid forms where those people can hang out with people who are at there level and below; who they hang out with, date, whatever the fuck. The higher you are on this pyramid, the more opportunity you have to hang out with people even below you, because people of the same gender will want to use you for their own benefit (i.e., access to sex and more social opportunity); correspondingly, the less attractive you are, the less people hang out with you.
This starts a giant snowball of shit where you're only form of access for social opportunity - bouncing off of social interaction, learning behavioral norms, learning what's socially acceptable and what's not, learning what is right and wrong, how to act - is with people who are at your level of attractiveness, who, if they aren't fucked up themselves, will bounce off and learn from fucked up people unacceptable behavior.
This continues forever. Sure, social status is more complicated than that - after all, a lawyer will have higher status than the former cool kid garbage man. But while looks don't correspond with economic success that much (intelligence is a higher predictor of that), you can't undo decades of looks-based and dominance-based social behavior that are engrained into your very being. Chad will always act like a chad, a nerd will always act like a nerd.
This even applies online. On the internet, incels, low tier normies, normies, high tier normies, chadlites, chads will seek out content that they find relatable to what they are used to. A low tier normie or incel won't find someone like Logan Paul or Jake Paul that relatable, because they will find that the behavioral patterns are totally different from the people they are used to hanging out with. They will rather find shit like Oneyplays, Game Grumps, Vaush, Ben Shapiro, iDubbbz / H3H3, usually shit that predominately locks off the topics of sex, romance, and relationships or are a very minimal part of it, and other similar shit relatable. Likewise, a high tier normie, chadlite, chad, will find that "frat bro" celebrity, over bubbly, plausible deniability dick bragging with sex related drama heavily relatable, along with relationship drama every fucking 40 seconds, so shit like Logan Paul, Jake Paul, Rice Gum - I don't know who the fuck is even popular these days - relatable.
Sure, you can totally change your personality at some level. You can get new clothes, work on the way you talk, adjust your posture, work on your humor, wear new cologne, and fit a scene or style. But the ingrained behavior of what you find interesting lingers forever.
I used video games throughout my life to find joy, because of complete social isolation, and would attract weirdos who had bizarre senses of humor. While I've worked on myself, have embraced a dark aesthetic, am more confident, and many people find me endearing to talk to, I still love old video game shit (like I love retro video game consoles and have a Gamecube right now) and will watch old AVGN shit, and my sense of humor is still fucking weird. That's engrained, I can't undo those preferences.
This starts a giant snowball of shit where you're only form of access for social opportunity - bouncing off of social interaction, learning behavioral norms, learning what's socially acceptable and what's not, learning what is right and wrong, how to act - is with people who are at your level of attractiveness, who, if they aren't fucked up themselves, will bounce off and learn from fucked up people unacceptable behavior.
This continues forever. Sure, social status is more complicated than that - after all, a lawyer will have higher status than the former cool kid garbage man. But while looks don't correspond with economic success that much (intelligence is a higher predictor of that), you can't undo decades of looks-based and dominance-based social behavior that are engrained into your very being. Chad will always act like a chad, a nerd will always act like a nerd.
This even applies online. On the internet, incels, low tier normies, normies, high tier normies, chadlites, chads will seek out content that they find relatable to what they are used to. A low tier normie or incel won't find someone like Logan Paul or Jake Paul that relatable, because they will find that the behavioral patterns are totally different from the people they are used to hanging out with. They will rather find shit like Oneyplays, Game Grumps, Vaush, Ben Shapiro, iDubbbz / H3H3, usually shit that predominately locks off the topics of sex, romance, and relationships or are a very minimal part of it, and other similar shit relatable. Likewise, a high tier normie, chadlite, chad, will find that "frat bro" celebrity, over bubbly, plausible deniability dick bragging with sex related drama heavily relatable, along with relationship drama every fucking 40 seconds, so shit like Logan Paul, Jake Paul, Rice Gum - I don't know who the fuck is even popular these days - relatable.
Sure, you can totally change your personality at some level. You can get new clothes, work on the way you talk, adjust your posture, work on your humor, wear new cologne, and fit a scene or style. But the ingrained behavior of what you find interesting lingers forever.
I used video games throughout my life to find joy, because of complete social isolation, and would attract weirdos who had bizarre senses of humor. While I've worked on myself, have embraced a dark aesthetic, am more confident, and many people find me endearing to talk to, I still love old video game shit (like I love retro video game consoles and have a Gamecube right now) and will watch old AVGN shit, and my sense of humor is still fucking weird. That's engrained, I can't undo those preferences.
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