Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

Looks aside. People lose interest in me fast in conversations.

_meh

_meh

Grey(ogre)cel
★★★★★
Joined
Oct 23, 2022
Posts
9,451
Online time
1h 52m
There's this tall pretty boy Chad (who's an acquaintance of mine at "work"). Sometimes he comes to me and talks (usually when no one is around), and I have to larp or pretend to be a normie to keep up with him. He's the guy that likes talking and socializing and is very extroverted. I just keep asking questions upon questions to keep the conversation going because I don't know what else to say, but fortunately or luckily, normies, Chads, and women have no issue talking about themselves (and oh boy, oh boy, do they love talking about themselves lol) for most of the conversation, which makes it easier. I always thought it was a little weird and narcissistic, but I'm just like now, "Cool, it makes my life easier if I don't have to talk much" (since there's hardly anything interesting going on in my life).

I can't ignore him because I'd look bad (considering I already physically look bad enough). However, when they have nothing left to say, they expect me to say something (sometimes there would be a pause in between, which makes it awkward). Okay, when I then start talking about myself (when I have nothing left to say), they then just start nodding, and sometimes there were times where they would just look away during the conversation when I'm talking (I can already tell that they lose interest fast). However, it does showcase that people love to talk about themselves more. More than what the other person has to say? Whatever I guess. Maybe it's just a normie thing. Also, I guess hypocritically I'm doing that thing now, but I'm just not the best at articulating myself and my thoughts.

Has anyone experienced this?
 
Don't worry bro gobble up mainstream media and keep yapping like them.
 
There is this ginger in my linear algebra class
 
Yeah I experience this pretty much word for word all the time, but now when the conversations reached this point
However, when they have nothing left to say, they expect me to say something (sometimes there would be a pause in between, which makes it awkward)
I just end the conversation there to save my self from the embarrassment of this part
Okay, when I then start talking about myself (when I have nothing left to say), they then just start nodding, and sometimes there were times where they would just look away during the conversation when I'm talking (I can already tell that they lose interest fast)
unless ik the person will get mad or take it personally, honestly its improved my interactions with normies a lot because its true that they just want to talk ab themselves and dont actually gaf ab what you have to say or anything ab anyone elses lives really.
 
I ignore people and often walk away
 
There's this tall pretty boy Chad (who's an acquaintance of mine at "work"). Sometimes he comes to me and talks (usually when no one is around), and I have to larp or pretend to be a normie to keep up with him. He's the guy that likes talking and socializing and is very extroverted. I just keep asking questions upon questions to keep the conversation going because I don't know what else to say, but fortunately or luckily, normies, Chads, and women have no issue talking about themselves (and oh boy, oh boy, do they love talking about themselves lol) for most of the conversation, which makes it easier. I always thought it was a little weird and narcissistic, but I'm just like now, "Cool, it makes my life easier if I don't have to talk much" (since there's hardly anything interesting going on in my life).

I can't ignore him because I'd look bad (considering I already physically look bad enough). However, when they have nothing left to say, they expect me to say something (sometimes there would be a pause in between, which makes it awkward). Okay, when I then start talking about myself (when I have nothing left to say), they then just start nodding, and sometimes there were times where they would just look away during the conversation when I'm talking (I can already tell that they lose interest fast). However, it does showcase that people love to talk about themselves more. More than what the other person has to say? Whatever I guess. Maybe it's just a normie thing. Also, I guess hypocritically I'm doing that thing now, but I'm just not the best at articulating myself and my thoughts.

Has anyone experienced this?
This is me, but only because I cannot concentrate or reciprocate
 

Similar threads

XtremeMax
Replies
8
Views
723
St3v3Cel
St3v3Cel
Spooky_Heejin
Replies
23
Views
1K
lifeisfucked215
lifeisfucked215
markye
Replies
38
Views
751
Rapistcel
Rapistcel
Zeref
Replies
8
Views
429
Zeref
Zeref

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top