Serious Looking for a feasible way out

[Freixel]

I wish I could reach that mental state that many autistic people or strange people have in which they hyperfocus on an activity or a hobby and don't care about anything else, not relationships or anything. It can be anything, art, training, video games, studying, ect.

It is the only solution I see to today's relational-sexual problem for men, that the sexual desire for women disappears completely or remains buried somewhere in the subconscious and that we do not look for them or feel a need for them or a lack of love... only coldness and indifference.

I wish I could put all my attention on a hobby and forget about women completely, without it affecting me psychologically.

I believe that if you don't commit suicide before you can reach this mental state in your 30's.

 

[AchromaticAeronaut]

Have you had hobbies in the past that you were into?

 

[Freixel]

Have you had hobbies in the past that you were into?

Yes, but they ended up becoming repetitive and boring over time, I have read more than 500 pdfs and I train regularly

Exercise no longer makes me improve almost anything, the only possibility I have left is starvemaxxing to have abs

Video games are no longer the same as when I was younger.

 

[Shinichi]

Yes, but they ended up becoming repetitive and boring over time, I have read more than 500 pdfs and I train regularly

Exercise no longer makes me improve almost anything, the only possibility I have left is starvemaxxing to have abs

Video games are no longer the same as when I was younger.

I’m right there with you. I’m lost a lot of weight and gained some muscle this year but around may/June my mood went into the shitter. Got super anxious and would almost tear up over anything that would go wrong. I think it was from the finasteride pills I was talking for hair growth. Stop taking them but only felt marginally improvement in mood. All I can think about is how I’m 27 with no gf and no real way to communicate to women effectively.

 

[WhereIsHamudi]

I believe that if you don't commit suicide before you can reach this mental state in your 30's.

On what basis do you believe this?
You can never escape the blackpill. Even if you are done with the blackpill, the blackpill isn't done with you.
I believe it will haunt you until your death.

 

[Freixel]

I’m right there with you. I’m lost a lot of weight and gained some muscle this year but around may/June my mood went into the shitter. Got super anxious and would almost tear up over anything that would go wrong. I think it was from the finasteride pills I was talking for hair growth. Stop taking them but only felt marginally improvement in mood. All I can think about is how I’m 27 with no gf and no real way to communicate to women effectively.

Leanmaxxing is hell

 

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On what basis do you believe this?
You can never escape the blackpill. Even if you are done with the blackpill, the blackpill isn't done with you.
I believe it will haunt you until your death.

he is just saying the cope can overpower the truth I think.
I mean there are many incels out there who don't rope because they have good copes
a cope a day keeps the rope away

 

[Caichan]

good copes

what are them

 

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what are them

depends
none for me

 

[Punished Watcher]

Autistic fixation come naturally. If you don't naturally hyperfixate on things, I don't think you will. I have a friend who's got that kind of 'tism, so much so that he considers himself volcel. He's never even showed a modicum of interest in women, so I think I believe him.

 

[RandomGuy]

Try music or porsche car hobby, but wear the same hat

Magnus Walker


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[Lonelyus]

Buddy i just become 26 and i remember 23 like it was yesterday,

Time moves so fast in a single direction,
Moving with the present racing from the past (VnVnation)

 

[Rapistcel]

I wish I could reach that mental state that many autistic people or strange people have in which they hyperfocus on an activity or a hobby and don't care about anything else, not relationships or anything. It can be anything, art, training, video games, studying, ect.

It is the only solution I see to today's relational-sexual problem for men, that the sexual desire for women disappears completely or remains buried somewhere in the subconscious and that we do not look for them or feel a need for them or a lack of love... only coldness and indifference.

I wish I could put all my attention on a hobby and forget about women completely, without it affecting me psychologically.

I believe that if you don't commit suicide before you can reach this mental state in your 30's.

Too much hardworking culture tor me