Venting Loneliness hurts more than sexual frustration IMO

[Deleted member 101]

At least it’s easier to deal with that.

But being lonely and feeling unwanted, not having people to share your life with, now that hurts. Even when you’re introverted.

Combine that with sexual frustration and it’s hell on earth. But the pain of being alone when you don’t want to (at least all the time), to me, hurts more than simply not being able to get laid. I can masturbate. And if the time comes where I am willing to, I can also see an escort. Even if it’s illegal where I am, or it costs a lot for a good one.

I care about my virginity, not because I can’t hook up with some slut that I’ll kick out the next day. I care about my virginity because it’s a massive reminder that I am alone and unwanted. I care less about sex itself than not being able to have sex with someone I enjoy spending time with, who feels the same way.

That’s just me, though.

 

[Deleted member 22466]

I don't want to have sex with anyone any more. I only fap like once a month. I just want someone to speak to and cuddle tbh.

 

[Deleted member 101]

I don't want to have sex with anyone any more. I only fap like once a month. I just want someone to speak to and cuddle tbh.

Same.
But I want sex with those two things combined, and none of them alone

 

[Deleted member 24160]

It's not just you man I've never hugged a girl, kissed a girl, or even held hands with a girl. I don't even care about sex I just want some affection.

 

[Napoleon de Geso]

Sex can be aquired by escortmaxxing or maybe even betabuxiing. But what cannot be bought for money is frens

 

[Deleted member 101]

Sex can be aquired by escortmaxxing or maybe even betabuxiing. But what cannot be bought for money is frens

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And even then going to an escort just sounds like another way of paying for someone to pretend to be your friend
Which is probably why I struggle to get myself to use them, because sex with someone who doesn’t really like you isn’t appealing to me tbh

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Absolutely correct at least if you have someone to cheer you up your life isn't as shittier.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Also I know women can’t be incel but look at lonely women

They’ll cope with loneliness by being pumped n dumped

Sure they’ll do it all the time but they still feel miserable that the Chads that fuck them won’t go out with them

I’m not trying to sympathize since I would take being desired sexually at the very least over what I’m at now, but even sex alone won’t make you happier

 

[thebuddhacel]

For me sexual frustration and loneliness is almost the same.

 

[Deleted member 101]

For me sexual frustration and loneliness is almost the same.

To me it’s not because if I only cared about sex I probably wouldn’t feel depressed all the time tbh
I’d think I’d have an easier time finding a “solution” to my issue if all I cared about was sex

 

[wasted12years]

I just want someone to speak to and cuddle tbh.

Only males want that. Foids could give two shits about that. They only care about chads dick.

 

[Deleted member 24081]

For me sexual frustration and loneliness is almost the same.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Only males want that. Foids could give two shits about that. They only care about chads dick.

Apparently Chads only want to brutally fuck women to and don’t care about cuddling and talking so I guess we only want love and affection because we’re low T

 

[wasted12years]

Apparently Chads only want to brutally fuck women to and don’t care about cuddling and talking so I guess we only want love and affection because we’re low T

I read some study on this forum a couple of weeks ago, it's proven that men care more about emotions, relationships alot more than women do.

 

[Deleted member 22466]

Only males want that. Foids could give two shits about that. They only care about chads dick.

Brutal truthpill ngl. Foids are incapable of feeling love in the same way a man can.

 

[Deleted member 101]

Brutal truthpill ngl. Foids are incapable of feeling love in the same way a man can.

Which is ironic as women want Chads to commit
Why do they want hot guys to commit to a relationship with them if they aren’t even capable of loving them? Shouldn’t they be happy with being pumped and dumped?

 

[Deleted member 20659]

Both hurt

 

[WawelDragon1683]

For me sexual frustration and loneliness is almost the same.

 

[TINMAN]

agreed

 

[Emba]

Confirmed :€

 

[FunkyMonk]

I prefer being alone, I always get someone who annoys the shit out of me for no reason. I just want peace and quiet. For me, sexual frustration hurts more.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

agreed

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

yes imagine cute loli gf who doesn't talk much, visits you after school, maybe you take a bath together or play some vidya or watch a jewish movie then she gives you a massage and you sleep together and you feel her heartbeat as she lays on you with her loli body

 

[Deleted member 101]

I prefer being alone, I always get someone who annoys the shit out of me for no reason. I just want peace and quiet. For me, sexual frustration hurts more.

I like being alone too but I don’t like being alone all the time
When I start to crave being with people I don’t have any way to answer that craving. It’s even worse when you feel uncomfortable around people even though you wanna be social with them due to your own anxiety and lack of being super socially graced.
I think being an introvert with no friends and a nonexistent romantic life is utter hell because while you enjoy solitude, you don’t enjoy it all the time. But while most introverts have friends and SOs to be with when they want to, people like me don’t have anyone. So we stay alone even when we don’t want to. Introverts may like their solitude but it doesn’t mean they don’t get lonely or have zero interest in having friends or lovers.
Being alone by your own choice is better than being involuntarily alone.
Sometimes I wish I was schizoid. Then I could be alone forever and never feel bad about it.

Also tbh I could be wrong but I don’t think you wanna be alone all the time. You would prefer being alone to being with an annoying and overwhelming person. But you’d be down to hang out with someone you like.