Teutonic Knight
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"My boyfriend lost his confidence after losing a fight and it's affecting our sex life"
Her boyfriend supposedly lost an MMA fight, and she wrote a long post afterwards.
Among other things she wrote:
"Also, this issue has been affecting me as well. I just don't seem to be turned on by him as much anymore. I think after seeing him get dismantled like that in the ring I just can't see him as the dominant, alpha male, masculine figure he's been in our relationship. He always just had a way of taking control and making me feel comfortable/secure, especially in bed. It's like I had an illusion of what he was and it was just shattered after the fight. Maybe if he hadn't lost so badly things would be different, but when I picture him motionless, face own on the canvas it feels like what he experienced was not merely a loss, but more of an emasculation. "
Then someone asked her how she felt about the guy who beat up her boyfriend and she replied:
As much as I hate to admit it I kinda feel attracted to him sexually. When I first was watching the fight I was obviously really distraught, but it's been replaying in my head lately I've been just getting turned on by the other guys dominant performance. The way he just rolled over my boyfriend (while I obviously feel bad for him) just turns me on. I've never seen such a masculine/dominant man before. He wasen't even scathed after the fight, my boyfriend couldn't touch him. He just delivered such a one sided beating.
My boyfriend and I just had sex again last night and it was horrible. I had to fake it again as I wasn't even close to getting off. When we finished I went to the bathroom to "clean up" but I really just wanted to finish myself off. When I was masturbating the only thing I could think of was the other man!!! I swear it wasn't even a conscious though, it seemed to just keep creeping into my mind. All I could picture was him with his rock hard physique standing over my boyfriend's lifeless body in the ring, reveling in his victory. I felt so ashamed afterwards : (
I don't know what to do, I feel like such a whore! : (
Is it normal to feel this way after what happened??!!
LMAO. This has to be LARP, right? But to be honest, I wouldn't be surprised if there are women out there who would actually feel this way.
My boyfriend lost his confidence after losing a fight and it's affecting our sex life
So reluctantly, I agreed to watch my boyfriend's MMA match a few days ago. It's not that I'm non-supportive but he lost his last match and I just...
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Her boyfriend supposedly lost an MMA fight, and she wrote a long post afterwards.
Among other things she wrote:
"Also, this issue has been affecting me as well. I just don't seem to be turned on by him as much anymore. I think after seeing him get dismantled like that in the ring I just can't see him as the dominant, alpha male, masculine figure he's been in our relationship. He always just had a way of taking control and making me feel comfortable/secure, especially in bed. It's like I had an illusion of what he was and it was just shattered after the fight. Maybe if he hadn't lost so badly things would be different, but when I picture him motionless, face own on the canvas it feels like what he experienced was not merely a loss, but more of an emasculation. "
Then someone asked her how she felt about the guy who beat up her boyfriend and she replied:
As much as I hate to admit it I kinda feel attracted to him sexually. When I first was watching the fight I was obviously really distraught, but it's been replaying in my head lately I've been just getting turned on by the other guys dominant performance. The way he just rolled over my boyfriend (while I obviously feel bad for him) just turns me on. I've never seen such a masculine/dominant man before. He wasen't even scathed after the fight, my boyfriend couldn't touch him. He just delivered such a one sided beating.
My boyfriend and I just had sex again last night and it was horrible. I had to fake it again as I wasn't even close to getting off. When we finished I went to the bathroom to "clean up" but I really just wanted to finish myself off. When I was masturbating the only thing I could think of was the other man!!! I swear it wasn't even a conscious though, it seemed to just keep creeping into my mind. All I could picture was him with his rock hard physique standing over my boyfriend's lifeless body in the ring, reveling in his victory. I felt so ashamed afterwards : (
I don't know what to do, I feel like such a whore! : (
Is it normal to feel this way after what happened??!!
LMAO. This has to be LARP, right? But to be honest, I wouldn't be surprised if there are women out there who would actually feel this way.