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Living for social approval is meaningless

Stupid Clown

Stupid Clown

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No one really cares about you. They only care about you in regards to how you think of them or how you benefit them. If you live your whole life chasing social validation and approval you'll be miserable. Stop caring what others think of you. Stop caring about what they think is immoral or moral. Do what benefits you most
 

Living for social approval is meaningless​

:bigbrain:
No one really cares about you.
:feelswhat:
They only care about you in regards to how you think of them or how you benefit them.
:lasereyes:
If you live your whole life chasing social validation and approval you'll be miserable.
:blackpill:
Stop caring what others think of you.
:feelsYall:
Stop caring about what they think is immoral or moral.
:feelsdevil:
Do what benefits you most
:feelsokman:

Thank you, Smart Clown.
 
you can try to live without social approval but will soon feel the weight of fighting nature, life's just terrible
 
This is why this place is more sacred to me then facebook or any social media. Only online place with people who have brains. Not that everyone here has brains.

But social status can be a good indicator of dumb fuckery. How many people who go for mainstream shit end up in a bad situation because it was mainstream? Like the housing crash in 2008?
 
No one really cares about you. They only care about you in regards to how you think of them or how you benefit them. If you live your whole life chasing social validation and approval you'll be miserable. Stop caring what others think of you. Stop caring about what they think is immoral or moral. Do what benefits you most
But I don't know what benefits me the most since I only seek validation..
And you're right it makes me miserable.
 
you can try to live without social approval but will soon feel the weight of fighting nature, life's just terrible
Eventually you'll stop caring. Try talking to yourself more

But I don't know what benefits me the most since I only seek validation..
And you're right it makes me miserable.
Ofc. They're biologically set against you

This is why this place is more sacred to me then facebook or any social media. Only online place with people who have brains. Not that everyone here has brains.

But social status can be a good indicator of dumb fuckery. How many people who go for mainstream shit end up in a bad situation because it was mainstream? Like the housing crash in 2008?
True
 
Most instances of gaining social approval involve jestermaxxing for normies, i will never do that.
 
I don’t care about social approval, it’s all meaningless to me.
 
It's actually quite a liberating lesson. I was a people pleaser for most of my life and I've suffered greatly because of it. But recently I've been learning not to care about people so much. 80% of people are garbage anyways. And the best part in not caring you start acting more like an asshole, in the good authentic way. But this is an ongoing process.
 

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