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[Lifepill] A lot of of advice is garbage because they rely on assumptions

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Are you having trouble making friends or getting along well with others? Are you having trouble getting attraction from the opposite sex? Just do x and y and your problems will be resolved.

Here's the problem. It seems to ignore all the personal context about you as an individual. It assumes you are an average normie. It doesn't consider the fact that you might be

Ethnic
Manlet
Ugly
Low social skills and experience
Low self esteem
Suffering from autism etc
Slow learning etc
Male gender

These things make all the damn difference and is not typically what an average normie is about.

People are not the same. Yet a lot of garbage advice seems to think we are all similiar and people will react to us the same way if we do action x.

The lie that all people are equal has caused a lot of damage to society
 
Just be average Joe in a movie who goes on to realize he's the chosen one that just so happens to have the blood of a special line flowing through his veins but was kept in the dark about it for his own safety lol.
 
Normie advice is garbage because they don't have a fucking clue what they're talking about
 
Self-improvement advice is only for Chadlites so as to help them compete with Chads (and even then, it doesn't work).

For everyone else it's garbage.
 
Self-improvement advice is only for Chadlites so as to help them compete with Chads (and even then, it doesn't work).

For everyone else it's garbage.
It makes me enraged foids get so much help and advice even though they are playing life on tutorial mode right now.

Meanwhile men like us get little help when we need it the most
 
The way it works is this:

You come across a problem you have. You try a bunch of things and eventually you find something that works. That is now your solution for that problem. You keep applying it for as long as it works.

Now you have another person who comes along with the same problem (or very close to it) and seeks a solution. You (in your noble efforts and intentions) offer to help. Why? Well, because you happen to have experience in this. After all, if it worked for you, surely it would work for them too.

So this person trusts your experience and "wisdom" and faithfully employs your solution only to miserably fail. You see, in your personal quest to solve your problem and having successfully completed your quest, you seem to have overlooked the fact that your solution happens to only apply to you and your case. It's not your fault.

This is a human bias. I don't know if there's a name for it, but I'll call it the experience bias.
 
What works for Chad usually won't work for incels
 
nailed it in the coffin tbh
 
The stupidest thing of all, is that if you need advice,it's because you are BELOW AVERAGE, so therefore tailoring advice for AVERAGE PEOPLE is garbage.
 
Are you having trouble making friends or getting along well with others? Are you having trouble getting attraction from the opposite sex? Just do x and y and your problems will be resolved.

Here's the problem. It seems to ignore all the personal context about you as an individual. It assumes you are an average normie. It doesn't consider the fact that you might be

Ethnic
Manlet
Ugly
Low social skills and experience
Low self esteem
Suffering from autism etc
Slow learning etc
Male gender

These things make all the damn difference and is not typically what an average normie is about.

People are not the same. Yet a lot of garbage advice seems to think we are all similiar and people will react to us the same way if we do action x.

The lie that all people are equal has caused a lot of damage to society
THANK YOU! Normies act like nobody can suffer without fault of their own just because exceptions exist. Exceptions are just rare cases of extraordinary luck. Not every "underdog" is going to make it by simply increasing effort and changing tactics. Especially when they have more uncontrollable setbacks than just their shit looks/genetics.
 
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