Many of the members here are very young (teenagers, college students) and it shows. They still display a naiveté about life that you usually don't find in older persons, including so-called "chads". I personally have old chadlite co-workers who are broken and defeated.
One blackpill that is discovered by everyone past a certain age (usually when you start your first full-time job) is that life is crappy in general. You usually don't work the job you would have wanted, and it's too late or too difficult to go back to college. You're not even sure your desired job would be better, resulting in decision paralysis. When you come home you're faced with chores like cleaning and tidying up. You can't enjoy video-games anymore because you know your play will be interrupted too soon by a return to work. The only thing that, historically, has made such a life meaningful and bearable is raising children.
Some here are aware of this and find an escape in the notion that they will love their job, or in NEETing. In reality, even in interesting fields like science, all jobs have their fair share of annoying tasks, disappointments and frustrations. (Just read /r/labrats). As to NEETing, it is a hell that masquerades as paradise. Nobody will respect you and leisure will lose its taste because everything in excess becomes tasteless.
One interesting aspect in Christianity (the true one, not retarded protestant heresies) is that the Bible says human life sucks and will always suck. We are condemned to endure lifelong pain because of original sin. Whether the explanation is true or not (it's most likely a metaphor), the concept in itself is very true.
If you doubt what I say, join a club frequented by older people. Or just think about your high school teachers. How many looked fully happy and accomplished? Not a lot, I think.
Do happy adults exist? Yes but they're few and far between. Most probably had unnaturally high serotonin levels in the first place.
As to inceldom, men in relationships can actually be as unhappy as incels, for one of the following reasons: being torn apart by the desire to cheat or break up without the guts to do it, no longer loving your partner, etc.
One blackpill that is discovered by everyone past a certain age (usually when you start your first full-time job) is that life is crappy in general. You usually don't work the job you would have wanted, and it's too late or too difficult to go back to college. You're not even sure your desired job would be better, resulting in decision paralysis. When you come home you're faced with chores like cleaning and tidying up. You can't enjoy video-games anymore because you know your play will be interrupted too soon by a return to work. The only thing that, historically, has made such a life meaningful and bearable is raising children.
Some here are aware of this and find an escape in the notion that they will love their job, or in NEETing. In reality, even in interesting fields like science, all jobs have their fair share of annoying tasks, disappointments and frustrations. (Just read /r/labrats). As to NEETing, it is a hell that masquerades as paradise. Nobody will respect you and leisure will lose its taste because everything in excess becomes tasteless.
One interesting aspect in Christianity (the true one, not retarded protestant heresies) is that the Bible says human life sucks and will always suck. We are condemned to endure lifelong pain because of original sin. Whether the explanation is true or not (it's most likely a metaphor), the concept in itself is very true.
If you doubt what I say, join a club frequented by older people. Or just think about your high school teachers. How many looked fully happy and accomplished? Not a lot, I think.
Do happy adults exist? Yes but they're few and far between. Most probably had unnaturally high serotonin levels in the first place.
As to inceldom, men in relationships can actually be as unhappy as incels, for one of the following reasons: being torn apart by the desire to cheat or break up without the guts to do it, no longer loving your partner, etc.
