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Life is too hard

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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Every thing imaginable in this world is just so hard. Working, making money, studying, dating, hobbies, everything god damn imaginable.

I wish things were easier. I wish a person could get a well paying job by simply asking for it and being responsible. I wish we wouldn't have to work crazy hours. I wish nobody would have to work shit jobs for shit pay for long hours and not have money left after paying rent and food.
 
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Every thing imaginable in this world is just so hard. Working, making money, studying, dating, hobbies, everything god damn imaginable.

I wish things were easier. I wish a person could get a well paying job by simply asking for it and being responsible. I wish we wouldn't have to work crazy hours. I wish nobody would have to work shit jobs for shit pay for long hours and not have money left after paying rent and food.
Life is a scam boyo. Get used to it or rope.
 
Yeah, maybe you win the lottery and life gets easier.
 
Yeah, maybe you win the lottery and life gets easier.
Yeah, that's as like as me not hating my life, or as likely as a shark biting me while I'm struck by lightning and getting a blowjob from a supermodel.
 
I am too depressed for anything
 
Yeah, that's as like as me not hating my life, or as likely as a shark biting me while I'm struck by lightning and getting a blowjob from a supermodel.
Don't worry friend. In a decade you will be getting a blowjob from a supermodel sexbot 3000 North America edition
 
Don't worry friend. In a decade you will be getting a blowjob from a supermodel sexbot 3000 North America edition
Even if those would exist, me and my retarded ass would never afford one. I'm a literal idiot who blew all his fucking chances for a better life and is stuck working shit jobs in a shit country with a shit wage.
 
Even if those would exist, me and my retarded ass would never afford one. I'm a literal idiot who blew all his fucking chances for a better life and is stuck working shit jobs in a shit country with a shit wage.
It is over for you. Sorry friend.
 
What's worse is coming back to an empty room after a full day of wagecucking.
 
sometimes i wish i was an oblivious normie or a vegetable in a comatose state.

being aware of how shit life is can be painful
 
High IQ post
All incentives have been stripped away from us guys. Women are down the drain, materialistic goods are overpriced, home ownership is not obtainable, the jobs are low pay, the workplace is run by HR femoids, the university's hate our fucking gutts, the "justice" system wants us in cages.
It amazes me and saddens me, the pointlessness of it all.
 

"BAHHH LIFE IS SO HARD"
Fucking weaklings, all of you. Man up and make your enemies pay. Don't be a pathetic fuck like the guy in the video or OP.
PATHETIC.
 
Traditionalism is the answer my friend. Ethnostates, National Socialism, Enforced Monogamy. Womens rights are a mistake.
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I made $250 today without leaving my bedroom.

DIL (Dat Incel Lifestyle)
 
I made $250 today without leaving my bedroom.

DIL (Dat Incel Lifestyle)
How? I make about that much in a month, working full time. It would be nice if you could share the methods.
 
Just be socialist,bro!. Socialism is paradise.
 
How? I make about that much in a month, working full time. It would be nice if you could share the methods.

Then you must be living somewhere 3rd world?

Learn to write software. You can get good enough within 1 year to earn money - Although, it's easier said than done. IQ should be above average (does not need to be high) and you have to constantly be learning. I was goofing around with computers since 12 so it was natural for me.
 
Traditionalism is the answer, but not in the sense many people would say:

http://dinghal.com/bibliotheek/The_Crisis_of_the_Modern_World.pdf
https://monoskop.org/File:Guénon_René_The_Reign_of_Quantity_and_the_Signs_of_The_Times_2001.pdf

It is not enough however to withhold approval of modern inventions on the grounds of their dangerous side alone; there is more than this to the affair. One hears of the 'benefits' claimed for what men have agreed to call 'progress', and that one might even consent so to call, provided one take care to make it clear that there is no question of any but a purely material progress; but are not these 'benefits', of which people are so proud, very largely illusory? Our contemporaries claim they increase their 'welfare' by this means; in our opinion, the end they set themselves, even if it were really attained, is hardly worth the expenditure of so much effort; but what is more, it seems a very debatable question whether they do attain it. In the first place, the fact should be taken into account that not all men have the same tastes or the same needs, and that there are still some who would wish to avoid modern commotion and the craving ... for speed, but who can no longer do so. Could anyone presume to maintain that it is a 'benefit' to these people to have thrust on them what is most contrary to their nature? It will be said in reply that there are few such men today, and this is considered a justification for treating them as a negligible quantity; in this, as in the field of politics, the majority arrogates to itself the right to crush minorities, which, in its eyes, evidently have no right to exist, since their very existence defies the egalitarian mania for uniformity.​
...the modern West cannot tolerate that men should prefer to work less and be content to live on little; as it is only quantity that counts, and as everything that escapes the senses is held to be nonexistent, it is taken for granted that anyone who is not in a state of agitation and who does not produce much in a material way must be 'lazy'. In evidence of this and without speaking of the opinions commonly expressed about Eastern peoples, it is enough to note how the contemplative orders are viewed, even in circles that consider themselves religious. In such a world, there is no longer any place for intelligence, or anything else that is purely inward, for these are things that can neither be seen nor touched, that can neither be counted nor weighed; there is a place only for outward action in all its forms, even those that are the most completely meaningless. For this reason it should not be a matter for surprise that the Anglo-Saxon mania for sport gains ground day by day: the ideal of the modern world is the 'human animal' who has developed his muscular strength to the highest pitch; its heroes are athletes, even though they be mere brutes; it is they who awaken popular enthusiasm, and it is their exploits that ,command the passionate interest of the crowd. A world in which such things are seen has indeed sunk low and seems near its end.​
...however, let us consider things for a moment from the standpoint of those whose ideal is material 'welfare', and who therefore rejoice at all the improvements to life furnished by modern 'progress'; are they quite sure they are not being duped? Is it true that, because they dispose of swifter means of communication and other things of the kind, and because of their more agitated and complicated manner of life, men are happier today than they were formerly? The very opposite seems to us to be true: disequilibrium cannot be a condition of real happiness. Moreover, the more needs a man has, the greater the likelihood that he will lack something, and thereby be unhappy; modern civilization aims at creating more and more artificial needs, and as we have already said, it will always create more needs than it can satisfy, for once one has started on this path, it is very hard to stop, and, indeed, there is no reason for stopping at any particular point. It was no hardship for men to do without things that did not exist and of which they had never dreamed; now, on the contrary, they are bound to suffer if they lack these things, since they have become accustomed to consider them as necessities, with the result that they have, in fact, really become necessary to them. Therefore men struggle in every possible way to obtain the means of procuring material satisfactions, the only ones that they are capable of appreciating: they are interested only in 'making money', because it is money that enables them to obtain these things, the more of which they have, the more they wish to have, as they go on discovering fresh needs; and this passion becomes for them the sole end in life. Hence the savage competition certain evolutionists have raised to the dignity of a scientific law under the name of 'the struggle for existence', whose logical consequence is that only the strongest, in the narrowly material sense of the word, have a right to exist.​
 
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Damned hard to not embrace nihilism tbh.
 
Just be socialist,bro!. Socialism is paradise.
Boomer tier post if in response to my post mentioning National Socialism. People get so triggered by the word "Socialism". Modern and Mainstream Socialism and Communism in most of its various forms are Marxist. Marxism itself is what causes the destruction of traditionalism, cultural marxism is what has destroyed society. National Socialism is Socialism basically in name only. It is a 100% anti marxist ideology. It's like saying a Jelly Bean, a Green Bean, and a Kidney Bean are all the same thing because they all have the word "Bean" in it. Or a Witch Doctor is the same as an actual Doctor.
 
Then you must be living somewhere 3rd world?

Learn to write software. You can get good enough within 1 year to earn money - Although, it's easier said than done. IQ should be above average (does not need to be high) and you have to constantly be learning. I was goofing around with computers since 12 so it was natural for me.
What kind of software? What do you do with that knowledge? Sell it to whom?
 
What kind of software? What do you do with that knowledge? Sell it to whom?

Websites. Scripts. Tools. Desktop applications. The list goes on.

Small businesses need many of these things.

Some guy just came to me this morning with an e-mail asking to build an application. What he needed:

1. Detect whenever his Android phone is connected to the computer.

2. Copy all files from that Android phone to a specified Windows directory automatically.

Very easy. Took me 1 hour. Charged $250.
 
Websites. Scripts. Tools. Desktop applications. The list goes on.

Small businesses need many of these things.

Some guy just came to me this morning with an e-mail asking to build an application. What he needed: Detect whenever his Android phone is connected to the computer. Then, copy all files from that Android phone to a specified Windows directory automatically.

Very easy. Took me 1 hour. Charged $250.
How do you advertise your services though? How do people reach you though, are you like on craigslist or something?
 
How do you advertise your services though? How do people reach you though, are you like on craigslist or something?

Learn how to write software before even thinking this far ahead.

You can use sites like those. You can also use freelancer sites but they are hit or miss (competing with 3rd worlders who can charge pennies)

Can do locally too.
 
It can be easy and stress-free. You just have to live frugally and ascetically- more money and possesions lead to an exponential cascade of responsibility and stress. Also, mitigate and minimize any responsibilities you might have and any expectations others might have on you through honest discussion and and open confession of your inability to cover those expectations and responsibilities- people just shrug and find someone else to do it 99% of the time.
This is what I do and my stress is off the charts low.
 
High IQ post
All incentives have been stripped away from us guys. Women are down the drain, materialistic goods are overpriced, home ownership is not obtainable, the jobs are low pay, the workplace is run by HR femoids, the university's hate our fucking gutts, the "justice" system wants us in cages.
It amazes me and saddens me, the pointlessness of it all.
 
Of course its hard on hard mode. Do you think Stacey and Chad cry about life being hard? Jfl
 
Everyday it passes my life hope fades further away, my hope is that I will die before the west falls for good
 
It can be easy and stress-free. You just have to live frugally and ascetically- more money and possesions lead to an exponential cascade of responsibility and stress. Also, mitigate and minimize any responsibilities you might have and any expectations others might have on you through honest discussion and and open confession of your inability to cover those expectations and responsibilities- people just shrug and find someone else to do it 99% of the time.
This is what I do and my stress is off the charts low.
I used to think like that, I was into asceticism, stoicism and all that stuff. But I'm older now and it just doesn't work. The human brain is wired to crave, to desire to do various things. It would be easier living in the woods doing everything by yourself, it would be pretty nice actually. But stuck in a city making jack shit as a salary with long hours, that philosophy doesn't really help.
 
The human brain is wired to crave, to desire to do various things
That's fucking bullshit, bruv- you are just conditioning yourself to be miserable and dodging simple solutions. More stuff =/= easier life- you're brainwashed by the normie consumerist culture. Realistically , the only thing you can reliably control are your wants.
But stuck in a city making jack shit as a salary with long hours, that philosophy doesn't really help.
Do you think I live in the fucking woods? If you spend only on food, low rent and utilities, you can easily live on a entry-level 4-hour employment- I should know since I did it for half a year in my second world shithole. If you think you can't do it in a first world country, you're delusional.
 
It becomes slightly easier if you get your depression fixed.
It becomes slightly easier if you get your depression fixed.
 
Life is easy if you're good looking.
If you're subhuman, there is no point.
 
That's fucking bullshit, bruv- you are just conditioning yourself to be miserable and dodging simple solutions. More stuff =/= easier life- you're brainwashed by the normie consumerist culture. Realistically , the only thing you can reliably control are your wants.

Do you think I live in the fucking woods? If you spend only on food, low rent and utilities, you can easily live on a entry-level 4-hour employment- I should know since I did it for half a year in my second world shithole. If you think you can't do it in a first world country, you're delusional.
I'm not in a first world country. To make things clearer, my country's GDP per capita is $1900 USD. Jobs here are pretty much only fulltime, since there's no way you can make enough on a part-time gig. Finding a job that won't work your ass off the entire day is impossible. And even those only pay ~200-250$ a month. I live with my parents at 25, with no end in sight, but at least I don't have to pay rent.
 
Fuck life i should never have been a part of it dam my useless parents
 
It becomes slightly easier if you get your depression fixed.
It becomes slightly easier if you get your depression fixed.

the depression is just ugly looks

all of these are just symptoms of not being good looking

as if some guy who's legit hot (no celeb examples) would be depressed
 
the depression is just ugly looks

all of these are just symptoms of not being good looking

as if some guy who's legit hot (no celeb examples) would be depressed
I would have fully agreed when I was a teen. However since then I have discovered that all kinds of people can actually suffer from clinical depression, and some ugly men never suffer from it. Depression seems caused by a specific genetic vulnerability and triggered by a strong stress that lasts too long. Merely studying for exams can trigger depression in a few Stacies and Chads who have the depression genes, while an ugly loser without the depression genes could remain non-depressed all his life.

Psychiatry and psychology are backwards sciences, but let's not exaggerate their ineptitude. If depression was as simple as the systematic product of physical ugliness, it would have been accepted as such long ago. The situation is far more complicated and if you doubt it, go spend a few days in a clinic or support group for the depressed. In my experience you'll see women and men in all the attractiveness ranges, though there's definitely a few more ugly men than Chads.
 
My whole life I've questioned, "Why must I want things I can't have? Why do I have to do things I don't want to?"

People take these things for granted, but with a little imagination there's really no need for people to suffer at all. For that reason alone I think if there were any god, they'd be a fucking sadist.
 
I would have fully agreed when I was a teen. However since then I have discovered that all kinds of people can actually suffer from clinical depression, and some ugly men never suffer from it. Depression seems caused by a specific genetic vulnerability and triggered by a strong stress that lasts too long. Merely studying for exams can trigger depression in a few Stacies and Chads who have the depression genes, while an ugly loser without the depression genes could remain non-depressed all his life.

Psychiatry and psychology are backwards sciences, but let's not exaggerate their ineptitude. If depression was as simple as the systematic product of physical ugliness, it would have been accepted as such long ago. The situation is far more complicated and if you doubt it, go spend a few days in a clinic or support group for the depressed. In my experience you'll see women and men in all the attractiveness ranges, though there's definitely a few more ugly men than Chads.

most are depressed here because their life is shit which came first, then the depression

not cuz they live a good life then got depression, lol
 
Just Rope Bro
 
What did you expect? We play it on nightmare mode.
 

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