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hello mates, i haven't been around for a long time.. and i wanted to say that i feel like it's okay to be an incel and i can stick with it. i don't feel the "urge" for intimacy anymore. (sometimes i jerk off and thats ok) i also started to take meds which make me feel slightly better. lost weight, started cooking healthy food and went back to my passion hobby which is programming. i honestly feel ok/good but with mood swings up and down. no need for a women, can't tell why i feel like this. maybe because i don't need that much social interaction...
by my looks, i would say i'm average 5/10. if i really, really, really wanted and spent hours and weeks into dating apps here in germany, i could possibly get laid by an ugly chick (nobody would like to get). also, i could get an escort for money. but it's not worth the time for 20 minutes fun. also, i have zero interest in listening to stories that are irrelevant for my life, especially from a stranger girl who i just started talking to...
also, i just wanted to tell you, don't feel bad. there are things that can make you feel better. for me it's cooking, work out, eating healthy, phone calls and programming. pills are in general not optimal but they can help a little.
so as you get older, sex is not priority number 1 anymore. sometimes, you can feel horny or the urge for intimacy, yes but it will get less when you're older. focus on other things that can give you an advantage in life, your business or hobbies.
in an ideal situation i would leave germany but other than that, it's not perfect but i would say it's ok. even without girls. people here could be more open and friendly though.
i'm also open to answer questions, so if you have any, just ask.
by my looks, i would say i'm average 5/10. if i really, really, really wanted and spent hours and weeks into dating apps here in germany, i could possibly get laid by an ugly chick (nobody would like to get). also, i could get an escort for money. but it's not worth the time for 20 minutes fun. also, i have zero interest in listening to stories that are irrelevant for my life, especially from a stranger girl who i just started talking to...
also, i just wanted to tell you, don't feel bad. there are things that can make you feel better. for me it's cooking, work out, eating healthy, phone calls and programming. pills are in general not optimal but they can help a little.
so as you get older, sex is not priority number 1 anymore. sometimes, you can feel horny or the urge for intimacy, yes but it will get less when you're older. focus on other things that can give you an advantage in life, your business or hobbies.
in an ideal situation i would leave germany but other than that, it's not perfect but i would say it's ok. even without girls. people here could be more open and friendly though.
i'm also open to answer questions, so if you have any, just ask.
