It's Over Life after 30 is pointless unless you're married

[squidbro]

The 'fun' part of life only takes place between the ages of 14-29. After that, you're just some 'old guy' that nobody wants to interact with anymore, unless it's done within serious social contexts (e.g. a bunch of dads chatting, business talks, etc.) Women will ignore you, young guys don't want to hang out with you, and even individually you can't do the same things you could before for health reasons (e.g. go get shitfaced, eat lots of junk, etc.).

The brutal reality is that for nearly all of human history, it was simply assumed that you'd start a family in your late teens or early 20s, and that your 'normal' life post-30 would be as a family man. Now that men are getting fucked by modern female 'freedom' there's literally no reason for 30-60% of men to even exist at all.

I'm 34 years old now. Here are just some of the things that have already happened to me:

- Can't drink alcohol (my fault tbh since I got addicted and went through withdrawal, but even without doing this I would've had to cut back massively).

- Subpar erections that make masturbating harder, and lower sexual arousal in general.

- Can't hit on hot women anymore (not that this matters since they ignored me anyhow, but this would still be true even if I was better looking).

- Video games are no longer fun (my brain isn't as hyperactive so when I was young so it doesn't do anything for me anymore).

- Gotten fat and it seems very hard to lose the weight (this is partially because of antidepressant, but I've been off for months now).

- Can't enjoy TV or Media because it's all cucked woke bullshit.

- No friends outside of social media and I hate most people on social media.

I could go on but you get the idea. After 30 there is NOTHING waiting for most men.

 

[Grodd]

Marriage is cucked in most cases

 

[squidbro]

Marriage is cucked in most cases

I agree but it's the historical reason most guys didn't rope.

 

[Creosote]

Subpar erections that make masturbating harder, and lower sexual arousal in general.

Can’t relate. I’m in my 30s, no problems with erections and I can blow my load in a minute.

Video games are no longer fun (my brain isn't as hyperactive so when I was young so it doesn't do anything for me anymore).

I’m still enjoying video games.

Can't enjoy TV or Media because it's all cucked woke bullshit.

Woke media isn’t an age issue it annoys everyone who isn’t an NPC.

I agree with the rest, though.

 

[squidbro]

Can’t relate. I’m in my 30s, no problems with erections and I can blow my load in a minute.

It can happen without warning. I was doing okay between 30-33 but then suddenly it just happened. The exact moment depends on the person.

 

[Zaraj11]

There are more books than you can read in your life. You can immerse yourself in them and forget about the real world

 

[Pancakecel]

I haven't even got the fun part of life, sitting alone playing vidya is as good as it got.

 

[sadlemon]

I'm not 30 yet, almost 29. But i still feel the same way regarding my copes (Anime, videogames, movies, lightnovels) i can still enjoy them. The problem is due to the more you age, the more you have this "pressure" to do something about your life. And milestones keep pilling up.

I'm more or less "lucky" that i have a friend group, but i'm sure eventually they all will go and spend time with their families. I think the worst time for an incel is 35-50. When people don't really have time for you, that's when you think. Now what? What i'm supossed to do?

Life for an incel is unfulfilling, a career can grant you so much. If you were even able to get a great one without getting girls in the first place. I did not even finish college, and i'm without a job. I'm not even sure how i will keep living the next 10 years.

Still, time passes and i feel like my life was worthless. How do i give it worth? Is there a point to giving it worth? How can i cope with the fact that i lost by no fault of my own, while others won by mere luck?

Taking care of myself gets harder. I drink a lot of soda and don't work out, because what's the point? Nowadays i don't even bathe that much. Like if i'm already fucking ugly, being uglier doesn't really matter that much

 

[squidbro]

There are more books than you can read in your life. You can immerse yourself in them and forget about the real world

Most of them were written by cucked liberals and bluepillers. The idea that wokeness is a recent thing is a myth. Even during the 80s,90s/2000s the 'female warrior' trope was common and popular. I can't read most fiction anymore because of bluepill shit.

 

[Zaraj11]

Most of them were written by cucked liberals and bluepillers. The idea that wokeness is a recent thing is a myth. Even during the 80s,90s/2000s the 'female warrior' trope was common and popular. I can't read most fiction anymore because of bluepill shit.

Have you tried webnovels? For example I'm reading Reverend Insanity, it's a chinese cultivation novel and the focus is on getting stronger, there's no romance. Webnovels are good because are longer than normal books, for example this has more than 2000 chapters, you can read for months.

 

[Clavicus Vile]

30 is old, a completely fine age to die at.

 

[ziggy]

I am turning 30 next year and I don't give a fuck

 

[LastGerman]

The 'fun' part of life only takes place between the ages of 14-29. After that, you're just some 'old guy' that nobody wants to interact with anymore, unless it's done within serious social contexts (e.g. a bunch of dads chatting, business talks, etc.) Women will ignore you, young guys don't want to hang out with you, and even individually you can't do the same things you could before for health reasons (e.g. go get shitfaced, eat lots of junk, etc.).

I would say, it is over when you hit 20.

- Can't hit on hot women anymore (not that this matters since they ignored me anyhow, but this would still be true even if I was better looking).

And yet red pillers say, that females like older men. As a man life starts 35 brah. Men age like fine wine brah. They are absolutely delusional.

 

[Youthpilled]

Being an oldcel seems like an actual hell, but theoretically, if i won't rope by 30, i hope i'll become more or less numb to the pain of being a subhuman

 

[starystulejarz]

The 'fun' part of life only takes place between the ages of 14-29.

i had no fun after i was 15, i got massive i give up depression at age of 26 and it's been like that since then 7 fucking years of major anhedonia that only gets worse with each passing year i don't even feel much pleasure from gaming or wanking. I mostly feel mental and physical pain just waking up put me into a mental shock and then after after few secs i get the usual pain that won't give up till i exercise, eat, wank, get vit d which is a lot of effort just to be only at manageable amount of pain. Without being a neet it would be insufferable with additional pain from work and loneliness and lack of any fun during mundane minimal wage job, and i will have to kms.

 

[starystulejarz]

30 is old, a completely fine age to die at.

33 is the real middle age for men as 1/3 of us slavcels die at 67. And i feel like i already was in a middle age crisis since i was 26... We got overworked to death and then have to cope through alcohol and drugs to ease the physical and mental pain. Death is the only salvation from this hell of a planet.

 

[starystulejarz]

- Can't drink alcohol (my fault tbh since I got addicted and went through withdrawal, but even without doing this I would've had to cut back massively).

can drink but don't want it since it's not fun more than once a month plus it's expensive as fuck if you want to drink some tasty wine i can only afford cheap piss like beers

- Subpar erections that make masturbating harder, and lower sexual arousal in general.

Yeah it's bad plus my dick got injuried and still don't want to fully heal up i may lose my dick at this rate due inflammation/infection

- Can't hit on hot women anymore (not that this matters since they ignored me anyhow, but this would still be true even if I was better looking).

I never hit them since middle school there are zero point. Now i have ultra balding hairline of a 50 years old man there are no point. I wouldn't be able to fuck them anyway with my disappearing erection, tried fucking onahole multiple times and it's impossible to hold boner without using my hand for more than 15secs. Lack of sex completely broke my brain and my dick. Fucking hookers is also out of question. Just kill me now.

- Video games are no longer fun (my brain isn't as hyperactive so when I was young so it doesn't do anything for me anymore).

Nah there are still fun games like old NFS MW and Enlisted that give me some fun and i could get fully immersed. Tried to play Grid 2008 and while it's really fun at times there are a lot of bs that made me ultra mad like cheating ai that can take perfect corners without slowing down and rubber banding. WMMT6 was also really fun but i hate how it's online only crap without ability to unlock new cars unless you beg like a dog on their discord or something. Fuck that. Tried to play Stellar blade but my reflexes feel like of a grandpa i can't block/dodge anything and just tank damage and die after killing few enemies too many hyperarmor mini bosses everywhere shit ain't fun, even DS1/2/3 did not spam Dark 10ft Chad knights at every corner it would be bs.

- Gotten fat and it seems very hard to lose the weight (this is partially because of antidepressant, but I've been off for months now).

That's because of stress and i need to cope through eating. My cortisol level is at 250% at all times especially after waking up and being awake for too long.

- Can't enjoy TV or Media because it's all cucked woke bullshit.

Haven't watched tv in over a decade. TV at home is like a Mossadi agent looking over you.

- No friends outside of social media and I hate most people on social media.

My "friends" all betrayed me for popular normies and foids. And they wanted me only for their "get free snacks/drinks from that sucker" instead of wanting to interact with me cuz they like me, at school before Steam it was also "get free games from him". Fuck them all

 

[starcrapoo]

if you're unmarried and single as a man in your mid 30s youre basically a loser

the only other option is to save up and move overseas

and in the meantime, enjoy the small copes and see hookers every now and then

 

[recessed]

I’ve accepted that it’s over