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Lads, do not fall for the rhetoric of the sexual revolution. Remove yourself from pornography and all vices. The power of men is in seeking virtue, especially in self-control. Seek the Truth and do the Good.
This website is an unhealthy habit. Men have become bitter and resentful of the social Darwinism that is modern dating. I do not deny that the situation is bad; however, one does not have to play by the rules of society.
You all have the desire to go beyond your current capabilities. Find principles to live by and commit to them. Do not become demoralized or despairing. A man must go above his libido. He is not only a body, but he has a soul and a spirit.
I read all these things more than half a decade ago. In the end, I was blaming the current circumstances for my own shortcomings. It might come as a shock, but there are women that loathe the modern world as well. They are a minority but they do exist. You just must become a man that is respectable and trustworthy.
Have set goals in life. If you don’t have direction, you’ll go nowhere. The goal cannot be just to get sex (or a girlfriend). The objective must be something that transcends bodily pleasure. The reason there is so much focus on sex is because of an addiction to comfort. How many of you can safely say you’re not addicted to porn, video games, junk food, etc? You have to fight against your urges and desires to become a great man. It will be difficult but gold is tried in fire.
Some practical advice:
Start with the Greek Classics (Nicomachean ethics is a good start)
Find a physical activity to do
Learn an art form
Make set career goals
Your goals should be realistic and attainable as well. Do not beat yourself up when you fail; just learn from your mistakes, root out your pride, and start again.
I hope the best for all of you
This website is an unhealthy habit. Men have become bitter and resentful of the social Darwinism that is modern dating. I do not deny that the situation is bad; however, one does not have to play by the rules of society.
You all have the desire to go beyond your current capabilities. Find principles to live by and commit to them. Do not become demoralized or despairing. A man must go above his libido. He is not only a body, but he has a soul and a spirit.
I read all these things more than half a decade ago. In the end, I was blaming the current circumstances for my own shortcomings. It might come as a shock, but there are women that loathe the modern world as well. They are a minority but they do exist. You just must become a man that is respectable and trustworthy.
Have set goals in life. If you don’t have direction, you’ll go nowhere. The goal cannot be just to get sex (or a girlfriend). The objective must be something that transcends bodily pleasure. The reason there is so much focus on sex is because of an addiction to comfort. How many of you can safely say you’re not addicted to porn, video games, junk food, etc? You have to fight against your urges and desires to become a great man. It will be difficult but gold is tried in fire.
Some practical advice:
Start with the Greek Classics (Nicomachean ethics is a good start)
Find a physical activity to do
Learn an art form
Make set career goals
Your goals should be realistic and attainable as well. Do not beat yourself up when you fail; just learn from your mistakes, root out your pride, and start again.
I hope the best for all of you
